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Re: Should Parents Be Held Accountable For Their Adult Children's Behavior? by ignis: 10:18pm On Apr 04, 2022 |
ofcourse |
Re: Should Parents Be Held Accountable For Their Adult Children's Behavior? by bamsand: 10:19pm On Apr 04, 2022 |
This one is deep 1 Like |
Re: Should Parents Be Held Accountable For Their Adult Children's Behavior? by tuzle(m): 10:20pm On Apr 04, 2022 |
Gloriagee:as the child |
Re: Should Parents Be Held Accountable For Their Adult Children's Behavior? by everythinggirly(f): 10:23pm On Apr 04, 2022 |
What did u call it again? "Adult children" even in the Bible, from the old testament, from 18 yrs and above were accountable for their actions. Tho I can't remember the story that much. Some parents are even scared of their adult children these days, they rather keep quiet and observe them do whatever they feel like doing. At the end of it all, everyone is running their race. Hit me up for your academic research writing services! |
Re: Should Parents Be Held Accountable For Their Adult Children's Behavior? by lildonn222: 10:25pm On Apr 04, 2022 |
It's complicated.Parents have a lot to play in molding the behaviours of their children but it doesn't always went well.Some children will be trouble makers no matter what the parents did. |
Re: Should Parents Be Held Accountable For Their Adult Children's Behavior? by bennybuhari: 10:25pm On Apr 04, 2022 |
Waoh...a 2013 post just made it to front page in 2022. There is hope for Nigeria the answer is NO! 4 Likes |
Re: Should Parents Be Held Accountable For Their Adult Children's Behavior? by staga: 10:25pm On Apr 04, 2022 |
Should the underwear bomber's parents be held accountable for his actions? He was given the best any parent could offer a child, yet he decided to piss it all away. Once a child is of age, he or she is purely accountable for his or her own actions. After all, are there no other children who are well behaved in such families? 1 Like |
Re: Should Parents Be Held Accountable For Their Adult Children's Behavior? by Maynman: 10:26pm On Apr 04, 2022 |
Zurex: God is all knowing and still gave us free Will, how come? |
Re: Should Parents Be Held Accountable For Their Adult Children's Behavior? by dave601: 10:29pm On Apr 04, 2022 |
Prov.22.6 - Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it. |
Re: Should Parents Be Held Accountable For Their Adult Children's Behavior? by Nobody: 10:30pm On Apr 04, 2022 |
BakersWorld: if you raise a child well, there is only so much deviation that can occur. I have never seen anyone say he/she comes from a bad home or he /she wasnt raised right but many of them that we all say to ourselves privately this one wasnt raised well or does not come from a good home. If you are raised well you will always retrace your steps if you deviate or have boundaries. |
Re: Should Parents Be Held Accountable For Their Adult Children's Behavior? by DonBenny77(m): 10:32pm On Apr 04, 2022 |
"If e good na your own oh! If e bad na you make am so" |
Re: Should Parents Be Held Accountable For Their Adult Children's Behavior? by Nobody: 10:37pm On Apr 04, 2022 |
Parents should not be held accountable to adults children misdeed unless there is an evidence that they are in cohort and the parents are harbouring him or her Our society always attribute children behaviour to their parents especially women. There's an adage in Yoruba language which translates a good child belongs to the father while the bad one belongs to the mother |
Re: Should Parents Be Held Accountable For Their Adult Children's Behavior? by Divoc19(f): 10:38pm On Apr 04, 2022 |
Somehow. Yes. |
Re: Should Parents Be Held Accountable For Their Adult Children's Behavior? by winner37(m): 10:39pm On Apr 04, 2022 |
We have the choice to live in a moral way and still the choice to act as devil. Parents shouldn't be blame if their child misbehaved . |
Re: Should Parents Be Held Accountable For Their Adult Children's Behavior? by Terrier99: 10:40pm On Apr 04, 2022 |
No, neighbours should be held accountable. Rubbish. You refused to train your child properly, you're now trying to escape culpability when the animal you trained has attained adulthood. |
Re: Should Parents Be Held Accountable For Their Adult Children's Behavior? by Camelot65: 10:40pm On Apr 04, 2022 |
2013's thread?? Wonders |
Re: Should Parents Be Held Accountable For Their Adult Children's Behavior? by ukzenlumbs(m): 10:42pm On Apr 04, 2022 |
Reality speaking, some are the parents while the majority is the children. Especially at the adolescent age, they feel that all things are in a roller coaster ride. Abegi no put blame on parents, children are the major cause for their influential character |
Re: Should Parents Be Held Accountable For Their Adult Children's Behavior? by Onyenku3(m): 10:48pm On Apr 04, 2022 |
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Re: Should Parents Be Held Accountable For Their Adult Children's Behavior? by stanliwise(m): 10:53pm On Apr 04, 2022 |
Any child above 18 is totally responsible for his or her own actions.100% of the responsibility not 100% their fault |
Re: Should Parents Be Held Accountable For Their Adult Children's Behavior? by Poleski: 10:55pm On Apr 04, 2022 |
greatgod2012: It doesn't always happen that way. I knew people who were raised well and still ended up on the wrong side of the law. 1 Like |
Re: Should Parents Be Held Accountable For Their Adult Children's Behavior? by OneKinGuy(m): 10:57pm On Apr 04, 2022 |
Da Bleep is the meaning of adult children |
Re: Should Parents Be Held Accountable For Their Adult Children's Behavior? by stanliwise(m): 10:57pm On Apr 04, 2022 |
Sonnobax15:Read the topic again. The word is "accountable". in other words like who dem suppose hold say adult go do something. |
Re: Should Parents Be Held Accountable For Their Adult Children's Behavior? by Flairoqy(m): 10:59pm On Apr 04, 2022 |
We are all a product of our environment regardless of our roots. |
Re: Should Parents Be Held Accountable For Their Adult Children's Behavior? by RexTramadol1: 11:01pm On Apr 04, 2022 |
The children are a result of whatever their parents have instilled in them in their formative years When a parent decides to be too strict, the children will suffer the consequence When a parent is unavailable to the kids, there is consequence When a parent is over protective, there is a consequence When a parent has no values, it has ripple effects on the child Parents have that opportunity to mould their kids while they are still tender, young and going about with dogmas like my daddy said I must not do this, my mummy said I will have bad dreams if I do this etal By the time they start knowing these stories you tell them are fictitious, it will be difficult to go into project restart. Nigeria is worse today due to bad parenting. If each parent had trained their wards well, the society won’t be in the kind of decay it has found itself in today. If a child excels at 18+, the parents will go about spreading the good news So if they fail, they should also be made to bear the brunt alongside their useless children. |
Re: Should Parents Be Held Accountable For Their Adult Children's Behavior? by Explicits(m): 11:08pm On Apr 04, 2022 |
Yes! Definitely! Parents should be accountable for it |
Re: Should Parents Be Held Accountable For Their Adult Children's Behavior? by Munzy14(m): 11:08pm On Apr 04, 2022 |
Ndipe:Yes...Backed by Proverb 22:6 |
Re: Should Parents Be Held Accountable For Their Adult Children's Behavior? by Gkemz: 11:09pm On Apr 04, 2022 |
Yes because they failed to raise them well at the tentative stages of their lives. If you fail to prune a tree when it's within or beneath your reach, you'd have to bear the consequences and responsibility for failing to do what you ought to do. |
Re: Should Parents Be Held Accountable For Their Adult Children's Behavior? by stamapro(m): 11:15pm On Apr 04, 2022 |
Yes of course, at what age does a child stop being one to his parents? 18 my foot, as a family man, when am with my parents am still their boy, even in front of my children. They rebuke me where need be. No matter how old I became my parents still have a say over me. Call it whatever. It it's called parenting. Even though they trained me well, they still monitor to see how I turn out in life. 2 Likes |
Re: Should Parents Be Held Accountable For Their Adult Children's Behavior? by ashewoboy(m): 11:22pm On Apr 04, 2022 |
No. They should not be held responsible. An adult could deviate from the crap he/she has been fed all his/her life. |
Re: Should Parents Be Held Accountable For Their Adult Children's Behavior? by masterpiecer(m): 11:32pm On Apr 04, 2022 |
IMO, i think parents should be held accountable because the bible says : "train up a child in the way he should go and when he's grown, he would not depart from it"... I personally believe in values, instilled value are very difficult to erase, even when an adult child intend to derail, values will always bring them back. NB. Most times parents ignorantly raise children in wrong ways to the detriment of their ward, ( even some pastors) and it mostly comes out strong when they (the wards) start approaching adulthood. Descipline and love should be give in right proportion when raising children. |
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