Billyonaire: Why would you waka ? They gods have played the ball into your court, what you have to do is Score! You dont have to marry her, but you can use her to make your friend miserable. Its called Pay Back Time. You know what to do my bro.

careytommy:
payback gini? im sure neksummi is above such.

Bosdem: She slept with my BF

junnymercy: I've said this before
What do you think?

I have a friend in Nigeria. We've been friends for many years.
I left her 8 years ago, i use to call her and we also chat online
Few months ago, she requested me sending her a mobile phone

I told her that i can get her a mobile phone but the problem is i hardly see anyone coming to Nigeria her area
After sometimes, i contacted her that I've got her a phone but i haven't see anyone coming to 9ja and that she should let me know as soon as she find anyone coming home. After like 3 weeks, she sent me a nasty message that ''Oga ore, i only asked u common phone and u refused to send it to me''
I replied her message that, i never said i'm not sending you a phone, after all I've bought the phone already but i haven't see anyone coming home, and i can't cargo phone with the price of the phone itself and i cant send the phone through DHL with the same price of the mobile phone because it does not worht it at all. Its even better sending the money than using the price of the phone itself to send a mobile phone to 9ja, it does not worth it.
She replied my message again with a nasty reply, but i never mind, we chat for few minutes and she concluded that ''that means i mean i cannot spend a certain amount for her to send phone to her''
Since then, she refused to chat with me. For months now, she has refused to talk to me and chat with me
She is keeping malice with me till now.

I have sent her messages after then and recently, she still refused to respond and still keeping malice with me.
I have been sending stuffs to her immediate sister that was very close to me, but i've not seed personal stuffs to her in particular truly purposely because i and her immediate sister lived in same city in Nigeria before, while she herself live in another city due to school.

Can it be said she even consider for the fact that at least i've been sending stuffs to her sister before and our other friends, but she never think about that, she's still keeping malice with me.

Now, guess what? This my friend has never give me a single call for good 8 years. Except recently when she just joined Facebook and chatting with me

When i lost my parents, she could not even give me a single call let alone a text message.
She has never call me for once since i left her 8 years ago.

Now, she is keeping malice with me all because of mobile phone, and despite i've even got the phone for her but just that i don't see anyone going to Nigeria yet.
This is the reason why she's keeping malice with me.

I even reported her to her sister, but her sister sounds in support of her indirectly and her sister said ''maybe because she thinks its not necessary for her to call me because we are friends''. Can you imagine.

So please i need your best advise. What should i do? Ignore her or i should keep sending her messages? And that what?

What kind of message you think i can send to her that will touch her heart or make her realize that she's wrong.
But this friend is a kind of friend that always right !

junnymercy: I've said this before
What do you think?

I have a friend in Nigeria. We've been friends for many years.
I left her 8 years ago, i use to call her and we also chat online
Few months ago, she requested me sending her a mobile phone

I told her that i can get her a mobile phone but the problem is i hardly see anyone coming to Nigeria her area
After sometimes, i contacted her that I've got her a phone but i haven't see anyone coming to 9ja and that she should let me know as soon as she find anyone coming home. After like 3 weeks, she sent me a nasty message that ''Oga ore, i only asked u common phone and u refused to send it to me''
I replied her message that, i never said i'm not sending you a phone, after all I've bought the phone already but i haven't see anyone coming home, and i can't cargo phone with the price of the phone itself and i cant send the phone through DHL with the same price of the mobile phone because it does not worht it at all. Its even better sending the money than using the price of the phone itself to send a mobile phone to 9ja, it does not worth it.
She replied my message again with a nasty reply, but i never mind, we chat for few minutes and she concluded that ''that means i mean i cannot spend a certain amount for her to send phone to her''
Since then, she refused to chat with me. For months now, she has refused to talk to me and chat with me
She is keeping malice with me till now.

I have sent her messages after then and recently, she still refused to respond and still keeping malice with me.
I have been sending stuffs to her immediate sister that was very close to me, but i've not seed personal stuffs to her in particular truly purposely because i and her immediate sister lived in same city in Nigeria before, while she herself live in another city due to school.

Can it be said she even consider for the fact that at least i've been sending stuffs to her sister before and our other friends, but she never think about that, she's still keeping malice with me.

Now, guess what? This my friend has never give me a single call for good 8 years. Except recently when she just joined Facebook and chatting with me

When i lost my parents, she could not even give me a single call let alone a text message.
She has never call me for once since i left her 8 years ago.

Now, she is keeping malice with me all because of mobile phone, and despite i've even got the phone for her but just that i don't see anyone going to Nigeria yet.
This is the reason why she's keeping malice with me.

I even reported her to her sister, but her sister sounds in support of her indirectly and her sister said ''maybe because she thinks its not necessary for her to call me because we are friends''. Can you imagine.

So please i need your best advise. What should i do? Ignore her or i should keep sending her messages? And that what?

What kind of message you think i can send to her that will touch her heart or make her realize that she's wrong.
But this friend is a kind of friend that always right !

waja: . And you think you can post this unnecessary text book here.

iyabde: (2) I had a friend that 419nd my elder sister in London. We went to uni 2gda,very close,she relocated to d uk,when she comes around we always chill together @ my family house or hers,so she was like family. Unknowingly she's into credit card and I.d card fraud in d uk. So my sister went on holiday's and stayed @ hers. My sweet friend stole my sister's cards,copied her int'l passport,her american visa to be exact. Changed my sisters pounds to fake notes. The next day police came to raid the house...said they had her under surveillance since,but she was not home then,so my sis was arrested. Thank God my sis is a lawyer n also had a few connections there,so she got relased after a few hrs. The ppl @ scotland yard,showed my sister's cards already used on d system. Thanks to my "sweet " friend. Forgiveness? Sure,a repeat? Never

babyosisi: Told my then fiancé that I was seeing another man and actually brought him to my new bobo's place
What was she thinking?

We are still friends ,our bond was shaken but not broken

Btw I married that new bobo

Sike: ...Going back behind my back to do a business meant for the two of us and have the earnings to himself alone.

waja: . And you think you can post this unnecessary text book here.

Billyonaire: Why would you waka ? They gods have played the ball into your court, what you have to do is Score! You dont have to marry her, but you can use her to make your friend miserable. Its called Pay Back Time. You know what to do my bro.

doggshaven: Best friends are gifts from God.

Miss Ope:

She did the right thing... You shouldn't be cheating on him

searay: My friend Bleeped my girlwhen I was in service. I...

baby_123:

take that as a blessing. Now the two of them can leave your life. Imagine marrying the girl and keeping such a friend. The guy can bleep anyone in your family, and the girl sef can bleep your brothers too. na way

damiso: Hi everyone,saw this topic on a parenting website i frequent and thought to post here.

Let me go first.Cant really say i have horrible experiences as i tend to always look at people's good sides as opposed to the bad.Generally i have never been a cliquey BFF till i die kind of person.I have always been an inbetweener.When i was uni some of my friends called me their best friend but to me they were just good friends.Guess cos its cos i understand that we are human and are all fallible so i dont place unnecesssary pressure on another person to be perfect.I had friends that were so called bubblers(i wonder if that term is still correct ) to the outright geeks.The day one girl in my class saw me in the Library the shock on her face was so funny cos she prob thought i did not know where the library was .

I personally cant say a friend has done something so awful to me.Maybe the ones i notice that try to compete with you at everything in a subtle way.Always trying to make you know that they are doing waaaaay better than you.But as my signature says Life is not a sprint and me am not competing with nobody.They just amuse me and i try not to hold it against them,some people are just very competitive by nature,the only way they feel validated is knowing they are doing better than someone else and thats all good.

So whats the worst thing you feel a friend or as this is family section a relative has done to you?

waja: . And you think you can post this unnecessary text book here.