Mrs.Chima:


I sure would and gon get a Jew lawyer just to stick him hard!!!!:ooooooooooo

After all these years together, You want to throw it all away just cos of one small mistake..hmmn SMH. And if the next MR chima cheats too you also sue for divorce abi....

if she is a cheat.

Donxavier:

After all these years together, You want to throw it all away just cos of one small mistake..hmmn SMH. And if the next MR chima cheats too you also sue for divorce abi....

Sure would if I marry again..most likely I won't. .want to keep my spousal support as a single woman. I would have a male friend though.

High rate of divorce? I hope these got your attention. ..that's how much marriage and divorce means
to people these days

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Marriage is a lot easier in Nigeria. Married couple can get help from friends, parents, church, etc. unlike
in the western world where it is Marriage vs. Money. Most Nigerian bioootches go for the Money as such there had been high
incidents of Nigerian men sending their loved ones to yonderland

many reason's best known to me..........
enjoyed and not to be endured......wont divorce......na she go waka comot by herself

Divorce should be avoided & discouraged as much as possible. Dialogue & forgiveness should be employed to settle issues. Divorce should be a last resort when all other options have failed.

Hm, never...

If worst comes to worst, i will only send her to her parents house, for her to learn, then later i will go pick her up again, ma wife is ma wife no matter what!

though am yet to marry

Raypawer: Hm, never...

If worst comes to worst, i will only send her to her parents house, for her to learn, then later i will go pick her up again, ma wife is ma wife no matter what!

though am yet to marry

you head dey there my guy, chop knuckle

on d ground of havin extramarital relationship. u can stil forgive her if u so desire.

How do you handle things if you notice that you were married to a hardcore lesbian, who unkown to you has been doing it on your bed for years with her mate whom you innocenly welcome as a family friend? How do you react if you notice from secret notes that your loving wife sneaks out to sleep with her former boyfriend? How do you respond when you notice that your dear wife shouts another man's name in the middle of lovemaking ectasy? How do you cope if your wife denies you your conjugal right for months, maybe years? My people, marriage can be a pain in the ass. Pray that yours turn out fine. The error starts before the relationship is consumated in marriage so no one should be in a hurry to marry.

If she eventually becomes ugly nd fat. Datz all!!! Will ask myslf...wats d essence?

spiritchild: Men are just sooooooo selfish! see all of them screaming 'infidelity' So una no wan share una wives? Yet u freely distribute your sperm to any aisha, ngozi or bimbo!

Wetin do those names abi na them they drag your man with you

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Donxavier:
you head dey there my guy, chop knuckle

u tithe bro!!!

Johniyke2flex: If she eventually becomes ugly nd fat. Datz all!!! Will ask myslf...wats d essence?

already ma "wife to be" and I hates fat people, she is doing everything possible to be lepacious

rose002: Huummm! I no send d man,I won't allow any man kill mii b4 ma tym,if he trys nonsense I don leave am waka I no get d mind ooooo

Asewo niooo. Awon Kan tin tanoo je abi. Eje maa l'farada nile oko. No marriage is heaven on earth. You, especially the lady, work it out to make it work. you should learn to endure/tolerate many things while u correct in love any misbehavior. do u know whether the place u are going will turn out to be worse. I guess ur fast fading beauty is touching ur brain. Oni suuru lon funwara kinihun. A word is enough 4 the wise

[quote author=hardbody]I just cant imagine a divorce especially where there are already children in the marriage. For their sake, i will forgive anything and everything. The most heinous crime will be cheating, even that i will forgive because i must have set the stage for her to cheat. I do not forsee the possibility of a woman physically abusing me, but where that happens, i will get round it my own way. Nagging, etc etc are things i can always manage.

[Hmm! Your own hard body no be here o! Do you sound for real? I have my doubts. And I wonder why your comment is silent on what will become of the happiness of not just you and your spouse, but the kids as well?]

1121:
Asewo niooo. Awon Kan tin tanoo je abi. Eje maa l'farada nile oko. No marriage is heaven on earth. You, especially the lady, work it out to make it work. you should learn to endure/tolerate many things while u correct in love any misbehavior. do u know whether the place u are going will turn out to be worse. I guess ur fast fading beauty is touching ur brain. Oni suuru lon funwara kinihun. A word is enough 4 the wise

I wonder why people keep imposing their views on others. Is calling her a prostitute et al buttressing your points?

Because she is unfortunate enough to be the 'woman', she has to learn to endure/tolerate alot of things, she has to work it out to make it work etc etc.

Even though I do not support divorce on flimsy cases, I don't buy the idea that a woman should die b'cos she wants to die a 'Mrs'. Some people say they rather seperate than divorce. FYI, a woman doesn't need marriage to be complete hence she necessarily doesn't have to remarry after divorcing her husband.

hardbody: I just cant imagine a divorce especially where there are already children in the marriage. For their sake, i will forgive anything and everything. The most heinous crime will be cheating, even that i will forgive because i must have set the stage for her to cheat. I do not forsee the possibility of a woman physically abusing me, but where that happens, i will get round it my own way. Nagging, etc etc are things i can always manage.

I believe children fare better in a divorce than in an unhappy, bitter and violent home else they would begin to believe that their parent's home is the norm.

I don't support flimsy 'she's thin/fat/can't cook/can't make love/can't smile/is dirty or he's poor/doesn't send me to Dubai/is short/isn't romantic/drinks/doesn't buy flowers kind of divorce'

Joavid: yea i agree. am suprised some women on this thread are saying infidelity,so if ur husband cheat u would divorce him? have u forgetten this is africa i mean niaja and men,married or not will always cheat.

For some women,its all or nothing.I rather be alone than be with a philanderer.

@poster infidelity.... why on earth should a married woman allow herself to be spread like a hoe by another man after one or two kids. it just sounds sick.

Marriage is for better for worse. If u decide †̥o marry someone, be ready †̥o face †hε good †hε bad & †hε ugly. Divorce should not even exist in ur dictionary.I can never leave my precious husband all in †hε name of infidelity. . .

Legit1:

You must have a great deal of endurance to hold such opinion. Right?

I think I do sir I'm not too sure