There are 2 ways to understand how to get a guy to like you on your first date.
The first way is to Ask Your Girlfriends, consult with your mother or aunt, or maybe read Cosmopolitan every week. The common thing about these sources - They all come from Women.

We women spend an amazing amount of time dissecting and analyzing every little aspect of relationships, men and life in general.

That, unfortunately, doesn't mean that we understand men better (than men).

The second way to know how to get a guy to want you is to Finally listen to what Men Are Saying... This may not be easy. We will hear things that we don't want to hear and we will have to accept things that may sound sexist and annoying. None the less - They will still be true!

If you ask your girlfriends or go through women's magazines, you will find that this is how to act on a first date:

1. Don't order pricy drinks or food.

2. Act like someone who will get along with his buddies

3. Don't wear anything too exposing and revealing and never use any curse words - so he knows he can introduce you to his mother.

4. Don't talk much and if possible don't talk at all - just listen.

I am sure you have heard this advice before, right?

While these tips can be good for some type of men, they are hardly the things that will affect his first impression of you (which of course is the most important one)

What's the Problem With Women-Tips for First Dates?

Most of the time, we women do not understand the purpose of a first date. We tend to focus on compatibility, attraction and how many relationship he had in his past. These are all important things, but not on a first date.

After a long research about how to get a guy to like you (and a lot on interrogation of the opposite sex), I have found these 3 simple rules to follow on your first date. They are all related to one thing: Concentrate on conveying your femininity.

Rule #1 - Wear a Dress

Men like women in dresses because dresses make you look soft, tender and it makes him want to cuddle you and protect you from the harms of the world.

Rule # 2 - Let Him Speak First

If you allow him to be the first one to speak on your first date will make him feel respected. Men like to feel respected even more than being loved. It's a fact of life and it is an ancient fact of life. It maybe annoying, but it's still true.

Rule #3 - Smile Often

Smiling at him often will simply make him feel attractive. It's so easy yet so true. Men want to feel attractive and this is an easy way to achieve that.

Follow these 3 simple rules and he will beg for a second date. Wait 2 more dates and then you can start to express yourself much more and let him know who you really are. By than he will be much more motivated to get to know you as a person.

why would a girl make a guy to love her instead of the guy loving her willingly

Everest9: why would a girl make a guy to love her instead of the guy loving her willingly

this is very simple, girls need love and care. these things makes them happy. that is why they will apply these strategies to get what they want. no error.

Everest9: why would a girl make a guy to love her instead of the guy loving her willingly

Another reason why the rate of break-ups is high.

People have no idea what a relationship is about

A very f00lish comment.who does not need love and care in this world?must everything be girls.

Augphil:
this is very simple, girls need love and care. these things makes them happy. that is why they will apply these strategies to get what they want. no error.

Popowaa: A very f00lish comment.who does not need love and care in this world?must everything be girls.

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I totally agree with all these tips. I despise girls that order too much on a date, dress like sluts, and talk like parrots without listening. Whenever I notice such, I change my mind on been serious and look for ways to recover back my money. Common cool down girls.

Nice one

I dislike girls that demand from men like its our responsibility to cater for them

Dipwater: Nice one

I dislike girls that demand from men like its our responsibility to cater for them

Me too!

embee430: I totally agree with all these tips. I despise girls that order too much on a date, dress like sluts, and talk like parrots without listening. Whenever I notice such, I change my mind on been serious and look for ways to recover back my money. Common cool down girls.

Me too!

Do you really need a manual to tell you all that? I think we should stop getting all worked up over dates. Be yourself. Have fun and be free. When we get too conscious about rules, we tend to make mistakes and feel uncomfotable. A date is a date, not a marriage contract.