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| How Do I Not Lose Him by Nobody: 6:51am On Mar 06, 2013 |
[color=#770077][/color] we first met during final clearance for batch A 2013 but we chatted and dint exchange contacts then on P.O.P day feb 14 we met and since then we hav gotten so close. He introduced me to his parents and cousins and he is the sweetest and best person i ever met. Now he got a job hoping to work in lagos but was told it was outside the country. Am so scared i will lose him though he says he coming to settle in naija. Pls forumites what is ur advice on how 2 maintain a lagos to london relationship. |
| Re: How Do I Not Lose Him by seedord247(m): 6:53am On Mar 06, 2013 |
Where's my bullet proof   |
| Re: How Do I Not Lose Him by jaybee3(m): 6:58am On Mar 06, 2013 |
Constant communication is your only way out. It's up to you guys to determine the preferred mode of communication 3 Likes |
| Re: How Do I Not Lose Him by Nobody: 7:06am On Mar 06, 2013 |
Thanks jay bee. He would come home for xmas but from now till then am so scared because i see so many relationships breaking up cuz of this. |
| Re: How Do I Not Lose Him by Nobody: 7:08am On Mar 06, 2013 |
Seedord just offer your advice on the matter ok. Am not in d mood 2 quarrel with anyone. |
| Re: How Do I Not Lose Him by enigmagu1(m): 7:08am On Mar 06, 2013 |
do you have something like dis at home?? |
| Re: How Do I Not Lose Him by seedord247(m): 7:17am On Mar 06, 2013 |
sexybaby22: Seedord just offer your advice on the matter ok. Am not in d mood 2 quarrel with anyone. You dont wanna listen to what am gonna say.  |
| Re: How Do I Not Lose Him by Nobody: 7:20am On Mar 06, 2013 |
Enigmagu something like what. Do u meat internet. Dont u know that physical presence matters a lot especially 2 u men. Me am sure i can be faithful but what of him? |
| Re: How Do I Not Lose Him by Nobody: 7:25am On Mar 06, 2013 |
Seedord feel free 2 express urself just stick 2 d topic and be nice and sweet. |
| Re: How Do I Not Lose Him by nanalady(f): 8:19am On Mar 06, 2013 |
Talk to him...what will be will be.. |
| Re: How Do I Not Lose Him by Kaxmytex(m): 8:33am On Mar 06, 2013 |
jay bee: Constant communication is your only way out. sexybaby22: Enigmagu something like what. Do u mean internet. Dont u know that physical presence matters a lot especially 2 u men. Me am sure i can be faithful but what of him? sexybaby22: Seedord feel free 2 express urself just stick 2 d topic and be nice and sweet.i dnt nid 2 b nice and sweet wif my comment..wot am gonna tell u iz d exact truth.. Mind u,d truth iz alwayz bitter.. u said u can b faithful,right?,wot if ur guy doesn't see u as a faithful gal? D relationship is nt even upto a month old(it'z jex 19dayz old),u don conclude say he'z d best and sweetest....so,u xpect d guy 2 see d relationship also has d "bestest" and "sweetestest" relationship he eva had,abi?... since d guy don show u 2 im parent,u dnt nid 2 b scared,i fink he mean business u dnt hv 2 disturb ur guy wit constant communication,he shld b d 1 wey go disturb u,i no tok say make u no give am call once in a while o... Make sure say u visit im parent also,help dem wit some chores,dnt let dem hv d feelings dat dere son iz nt arround ...I pray God be wif u and guide u 2 Likes |
| Re: How Do I Not Lose Him by 190: 8:37am On Mar 06, 2013 |
| OP the relationship is over, have you seen LONDON GIRLS mama mia - he wont even remember your surname the moment he steps into london have u seen the way LONDON GIRLS package themselves dont worry you defo wont understand, nor be jeans and skirt wen una dey wear- London girls got it all  damn i |
| Re: How Do I Not Lose Him by Nobody: 8:45am On Mar 06, 2013 |
First I will ask wat kind of job will he be doing there in London? |
| Re: How Do I Not Lose Him by Idowuogbo(f): 8:52am On Mar 06, 2013 |
sexybaby22: Thanks jay bee. He would come home for xmas but from now till then am so scared because i see so many relationships breaking up cuz of this.Lmao! It's easy for him to make promises now, wen london barbino hold ur guy hen? U go no kpomo scarce for Russia. But, if d said guy is capable of fighting temptations...maybe after marrying oyinbo peperenpe, he fit reason u o! Shebi u sef wan smell Obodo oyinbo?Cooperate and all will work smoothly.... Na tru stories i dey knack u o!  |
| Re: How Do I Not Lose Him by Nobody: 9:15am On Mar 06, 2013 |
una no go give person hypertension for this forum haba. he schooled an worked abroad for like 10 yes so oyinbo no go 2 shack am like that now cuz he dated them in the past. i know everything is kinda rushed but we feel like we hav known for a long time. we hav this connection and we are free with each other and tell each other stuffs that are private.he will be in london for like 8 months then singapore for 6 but the company was like if there is a vacancy in the lagos branch he can apply. we really care about each other and he wants to hav a stable relationship wit me but life is just bringing obstacles. |
| Re: How Do I Not Lose Him by Idowuogbo(f): 9:18am On Mar 06, 2013 |
sexybaby22: una no go give person hypertension for this forum haba. he schooled an worked abroad for like 10 yes so oyinbo no go 2 shack am like that now cuz he dated them in the past. i know everything is kinda rushed but we feel like we hav known for a long time. we hav this connection and we are free with each other and tell each other stuffs that are private.he will be in london for like 8 months then singapore for 6 but the company was like if there is a vacancy in the lagos branch he can apply. we really care about each other and he wants to hav a stable relationship wit me but life is just bringing obstacles.Kikiki... London den Singapore? Babe, hope and pray. |
| Re: How Do I Not Lose Him by Kaxmytex(m): 9:29am On Mar 06, 2013 |
sexybaby22: he schooled and worked abroad for like 10 years so oyinbo no go 2 shack am like that now cuz he dated them in the past.i dey fear 4 u sha... |
| Re: How Do I Not Lose Him by Nobody: 9:36am On Mar 06, 2013 |
@kaxmytex y u dey fear me na. i am just so scared of wat will happen in the nxt couple of of months. |
| Re: How Do I Not Lose Him by mabebe1(f): 9:36am On Mar 06, 2013 |
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| Re: How Do I Not Lose Him by mabebe1(f): 9:37am On Mar 06, 2013 |
my dear, nthin is imposible 4 God 2 do. Just hope n pray dat hes urs. Distance dnt mata mk sure u guys communicate well n encourage him...i ve seen so many dat worked |
| Re: How Do I Not Lose Him by Nobody: 9:48am On Mar 06, 2013 |
@mabebe1 thanks for ur support and every other person who contributed. i pray i can come back later to give good news. |
| Re: How Do I Not Lose Him by Idowuogbo(f): 9:50am On Mar 06, 2013 |
sexybaby22: @mabebe1 thanks for ur support and every other person who contributed. i pray i can come back later to give good news.I pray 2 o! Can I have his number? Let help you speak to him. |
| Re: How Do I Not Lose Him by Nobody: 10:05am On Mar 06, 2013 |
@idowuogbo babe dont go there at all. i still dey think of all the chicks that will want to snatch him 4rm me u wan come enter. |
| Re: How Do I Not Lose Him by mecussey(m): 10:08am On Mar 06, 2013 |
I am sure you are the one who is much in luv, especially on the new development. I will advise you not to become desperate, just make him miss you |
| Re: How Do I Not Lose Him by Nobody: 10:21am On Mar 06, 2013 |
@mecussey how do 1 go about that. its not that am deperate but when u meet a good person u wunt want 2 let go. |
| Re: How Do I Not Lose Him by Idowuogbo(f): 10:28am On Mar 06, 2013 |
sexybaby22: @mecussey how do 1 go about that. its not that am deperate but when u meet a good person u wunt want 2 let go.The only way is for u to give his number, I'll monitor him for you. Infact, I'll make sure u get dat ring. Trust me!  |
| Re: How Do I Not Lose Him by Nobody: 10:39am On Mar 06, 2013 |
@idowuogbo i dont trust u o. lol. but i really pray he comes back 2 me. when he was told he would be travellingout he just sat speechless and shocked in front of the MD. they were even askingthat is he not happy cuz the other person that was employed with him was jumping for joy. his plan is to settle in nigeria. |
| Re: How Do I Not Lose Him by Idowuogbo(f): 10:44am On Mar 06, 2013 |
sexybaby22: @idowuogbo i dont trust u o. lol. but i really pray he comes back 2 me. when he was told he would be travellingout he just sat speechless and shocked in front of the MD. they were even askingthat is he not happy cuz the other person that was employed with him was jumping for joy. his plan is to settle in nigeria.He's not happy ke? See format! Ur guy was up in d roof forming Santa Claus joor! Na big boy job dem offer am na? gal don't buy dat Lola went to ijesha story joor! Na eze goes to school dey reign. Jokes aside, u can't only pray he remains focused. Do u trust him? |
| Re: How Do I Not Lose Him by mecussey(m): 10:56am On Mar 06, 2013 |
sexybaby22: @mecussey how do 1 go about that. its not that am deperate but when u meet a good person u wunt want 2 let go. Call him whatever sexy name you call him, e.g babe...you know I love you so much and I will miss you. Now, that you are going away, our communication may reduce with time...and I know there is only little we can do about...it...then you shed some crocodile tears....hiiim...hiiiim...maaay Goooood guuuiiide you, sure he will console you. When he finally gets there, dont talk about relationship again. Let him be the one to initiate relationship topics. Dont call him more than he calls you, though you may say hi 1st when you see him online. If he tries to psych you about your intenstions towards him, tell him... I dont know but you know I like ur character. |
| Re: How Do I Not Lose Him by Nobody: 11:06am On Mar 06, 2013 |
@mecussey thanks 4 ur tips. @idowuogbo he is a good guy but u know d problems distance poses on relationships. and he wasnt so happy about going abroad cuz he came back from uk 2 do nysc and work in naija.and he had a good paying job before coming. |
| Re: How Do I Not Lose Him by Idowuogbo(f): 11:36am On Mar 06, 2013 |
sexybaby22: @mecussey thanks 4 ur tips.Well..if he hates working away dat much, he wud ave declined d offer. Strange! |
| Re: How Do I Not Lose Him by mecussey(m): 11:59am On Mar 06, 2013 |
Idowuogbo: Working in UK is like caging yourself...Nigeria is more free, and you will have choices of good girls here than abroad |
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