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12 Things Men Want In A Woman by Nobody: 8:45am On Mar 07, 2013
Freezing temps can leave even the biggest commitment-phobes craving someone to snuggle with. So we got guys to open up about just what they want in a Little Spoon they'd love to curl up with long after the seasons have shifted.

By Lauren Otis



1. A Woman Who Will Let Me Impress Her
"I kind of want the opposite of most guys I know: I'd secretly love a girl that's bad at cooking-all the easier for me to wow her with some of my home-cooked specialties." -Christian B.

2. A Woman Who Can Hold Her Own
"I want to be with a girl who, if she's on a different page from me on something, can hold her own in a debate about it. Disagreements can keep things fun." -Andrew H.

3. A Woman Who Goes With The Flow
"I want a woman who doesn't act like a child when things don't go her way. You've got to be able to lose occasionally and show grace and poise in those moments (And I do too)." -Brady C.

4. A Woman Who Motives Me
"I want to get serious with a girl who pushes me to have a successful career. It motivates me when I talk to my girlfriend about work and she calls me out on being complacent or not doing everything I can to be the best at what I do. It really helps me to stay focused, especially since the whole reason I'm working is to be able to one day provide for a family." -Ryan G.

5. A Woman Who Wants to Try New Things
"I want a girl with a sense of adventure-it keeps things interesting. No matter how fun a routine might be, it can get boring eventually. Whether it's taking a cooking class or going skydiving, it's great to be with someone who's open to new things. Dates with my girlfriend can range from trips to the zoo to checking out musicians at a weird, random warehouse party." -Alex R.

6. A Woman Who Let's Me Have Guy Time
"It's important to me to find someone understanding who realizes and respects that there are certain things that make guys, well, guys. We might not always be interested in the same things as women and might sometimes need our own guy time. As we move closer together in our relationship, certain things will begin to happen as a unit and we'll be a team, but it's still key to me to have someone who allows and understands those differences." -Marlon J.

7. A Woman Who Trusts Me
"I need a woman who's trusting and doesn't get jealous easily. Above all, it shows me that she's confident in our relationship and in herself." -Dennis R.

8. A Strong Woman
"I really fall for someone who has gone through their own trials or tribulations and come out on top as a better person. It's a real test of character." -Oliver M.

9. A Woman My Friends Like
"I want to lock down a girl that gets along with my friends. It's really important because friends can see through the BS that you can't when you're too infatuated with someone. So if she can sway my boys and have them eventually tell me, 'Dude, she's pretty cool,' without my asking them, I would definitely call it a win." -Blake S.

10. A Woman Who Loves Me For Me
"Above all, I want a girl who can deal with my faults and love me for who I am, even on my worst days." -Alan A.

11. A Smart Woman
"Smart is sexy, so knowledge that eclipses my own would be amazing. I want her to humble me in a way that makes me legitimately appreciate her intellect and approach to conversation." -Max S.

12. A Woman Who Supports Me
"More than anything, I want support. I don't need tons of commonalities-I'd rather a woman back me in the things I'm passionate about that she doesn't have in common with me. She doesn't need to love motorcycles and MMA or breakdancing and cooking, but if she understands and gives unconditional support despite our differences, I think that can really make a relationship." -Luan N.

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Re: 12 Things Men Want In A Woman by strangest(m): 9:19am On Mar 07, 2013
On point... nice one... trust, love and care...
Re: 12 Things Men Want In A Woman by xynerise: 9:24am On Mar 07, 2013
A woman who will allow me to watch football without saying "Darling, Food is ready"

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Re: 12 Things Men Want In A Woman by Nobody: 9:33am On Mar 07, 2013
All except number 1. Thank you!

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Re: 12 Things Men Want In A Woman by k2039: 9:41am On Mar 07, 2013
What about cooking skills?
Re: 12 Things Men Want In A Woman by 190: 9:45am On Mar 07, 2013
Smh
Re: 12 Things Men Want In A Woman by saintvc(m): 9:56am On Mar 07, 2013
a woman who wil catch me cheating on her without doing any thing

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Re: 12 Things Men Want In A Woman by KINGwax(m): 11:35am On Mar 07, 2013
Give us an african version. Dt nunber one negates african logic

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Re: 12 Things Men Want In A Woman by Mohderry(m): 12:58pm On Mar 07, 2013
A Really nice thread
Re: 12 Things Men Want In A Woman by skydeep(f): 1:04pm On Mar 07, 2013
xynerise: A woman who will allow me to watch football without saying "Darling, Food is ready"
angry
Re: 12 Things Men Want In A Woman by babarazy: 1:22pm On Mar 07, 2013
Reserved ƒøЯ future use.
Re: 12 Things Men Want In A Woman by anicho(m): 1:23pm On Mar 07, 2013
Nice
Re: 12 Things Men Want In A Woman by Dthespian: 1:28pm On Mar 07, 2013
Some of em points mean d same thing in different wrds...motivates me,support me and d rest
Re: 12 Things Men Want In A Woman by luvme2(f): 1:30pm On Mar 07, 2013
I personally don't agree with point number 9. So if ur friends don't like her, and u r really in-love with her, u'll let her go just cos ur friends don't approve of her. Ok na, ur friends should kuku choose ur wife for u. SMH.

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Re: 12 Things Men Want In A Woman by babadey(m): 1:30pm On Mar 07, 2013
Luv all except number 1
Re: 12 Things Men Want In A Woman by SomaNaeto: 1:31pm On Mar 07, 2013
a woman that chose the way of the lord.that will draw me close 2 GOD

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Re: 12 Things Men Want In A Woman by Nobody: 1:33pm On Mar 07, 2013
Interesting...

A woman with all those 12-Jesus-disciples-esque qualities is yet to be born, to be honest...

More reason why getting married is now a sin for me and the 11th commandment(thou shalt not marry)...

Anyway, I agree with everything...
Re: 12 Things Men Want In A Woman by Nobody: 1:33pm On Mar 07, 2013
But i'm not yet married, i'm still a young dude. Dont even corrupt me. angry
Re: 12 Things Men Want In A Woman by slimfit1(m): 1:33pm On Mar 07, 2013
Why put a white man's picture in a black man's discussion for goodness sake

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Re: 12 Things Men Want In A Woman by omiobo: 1:34pm On Mar 07, 2013
xynerise: A woman who will allow me to watch football without saying "Darling, Food is ready"
Hungry no catch you

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Re: 12 Things Men Want In A Woman by LesbianBoy(m): 1:36pm On Mar 07, 2013
.....A woman who doesn't ask for Recharge card!

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Re: 12 Things Men Want In A Woman by Nobody: 1:38pm On Mar 07, 2013
k2039: What about cooking skills?

Most people don't really care about cooking skills especially if you're the busy type and if you've lived by yourself for a long time... Cooking skills is kind of Af-nish(Africanish).... Heck, how do you expect someone like me who has been living by myself since I was 16 to care about cooking skills when I rarely even eat at home?? I don't even care about homemade foods, to be honest... grin

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Re: 12 Things Men Want In A Woman by Bryancrox(m): 1:40pm On Mar 07, 2013
All i want from a woman is love,care,beauti,adventures,hardworkinq,qood cook,intelliqence and honest...Finish
Re: 12 Things Men Want In A Woman by Jennydove: 1:43pm On Mar 07, 2013
u try wella,why didn't you include that you want a woman that will forget her existence,mission,target and goal in life solely just for you or better still a puppet. MEN.........

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Re: 12 Things Men Want In A Woman by alphaconde(m): 1:43pm On Mar 07, 2013
I guess everyone has his own list.
My list starts with
1. A woman who doesn't ask for anything
Re: 12 Things Men Want In A Woman by theripper: 1:44pm On Mar 07, 2013
Story! Story !! Story !!!.
Re: 12 Things Men Want In A Woman by tayus: 1:44pm On Mar 07, 2013
A woman who will always understand when there is no cash @ haandddd wink
ogugua88: Freezing temps can leave even the biggest commitment-phobes craving someone to snuggle with. So we got guys to open up about just what they want in a Little Spoon they'd love to curl up with long after the seasons have shifted.

By Lauren Otis



1. A Woman Who Will Let Me Impress Her
"I kind of want the opposite of most guys I know: I'd secretly love a girl that's bad at cooking-all the easier for me to wow her with some of my home-cooked specialties." -Christian B.

2. A Woman Who Can Hold Her Own
"I want to be with a girl who, if she's on a different page from me on something, can hold her own in a debate about it. Disagreements can keep things fun." -Andrew H.

3. A Woman Who Goes With The Flow
"I want a woman who doesn't act like a child when things don't go her way. You've got to be able to lose occasionally and show grace and poise in those moments (And I do too)." -Brady C.

4. A Woman Who Motives Me
"I want to get serious with a girl who pushes me to have a successful career. It motivates me when I talk to my girlfriend about work and she calls me out on being complacent or not doing everything I can to be the best at what I do. It really helps me to stay focused, especially since the whole reason I'm working is to be able to one day provide for a family." -Ryan G.

5. A Woman Who Wants to Try New Things
"I want a girl with a sense of adventure-it keeps things interesting. No matter how fun a routine might be, it can get boring eventually. Whether it's taking a cooking class or going skydiving, it's great to be with someone who's open to new things. Dates with my girlfriend can range from trips to the zoo to checking out musicians at a weird, random warehouse party." -Alex R.

6. A Woman Who Let's Me Have Guy Time
"It's important to me to find someone understanding who realizes and respects that there are certain things that make guys, well, guys. We might not always be interested in the same things as women and might sometimes need our own guy time. As we move closer together in our relationship, certain things will begin to happen as a unit and we'll be a team, but it's still key to me to have someone who allows and understands those differences." -Marlon J.

7. A Woman Who Trusts Me
"I need a woman who's trusting and doesn't get jealous easily. Above all, it shows me that she's confident in our relationship and in herself." -Dennis R.

8. A Strong Woman
"I really fall for someone who has gone through their own trials or tribulations and come out on top as a better person. It's a real test of character." -Oliver M.

9. A Woman My Friends Like
"I want to lock down a girl that gets along with my friends. It's really important because friends can see through the BS that you can't when you're too infatuated with someone. So if she can sway my boys and have them eventually tell me, 'Dude, she's pretty cool,' without my asking them, I would definitely call it a win." -Blake S.

10. A Woman Who Loves Me For Me
"Above all, I want a girl who can deal with my faults and love me for who I am, even on my worst days." -Alan A.

11. A Smart Woman
"Smart is sexy, so knowledge that eclipses my own would be amazing. I want her to humble me in a way that makes me legitimately appreciate her intellect and approach to conversation." -Max S.

12. A Woman Who Supports Me
"More than anything, I want support. I don't need tons of commonalities-I'd rather a woman back me in the things I'm passionate about that she doesn't have in common with me. She doesn't need to love motorcycles and MMA or breakdancing and cooking, but if she understands and gives unconditional support despite our differences, I think that can really make a relationship." -Luan N.

SOURCE
Re: 12 Things Men Want In A Woman by chinedumo(m): 1:47pm On Mar 07, 2013
No offense ogugua. Do you intend to be all this for SExkillz?

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