I've been dating this guy for close to a year now, we had been friends for 5 years before d relationship began. Everybody around us, both friends and family are already anticipating us being engaged or even a family introduction, but this guy has said nothing to me towards that! Anytime I Try to prod him, he gives d lamest excuses like he is busy or he is d driver n decision maker not me. He claims to love me but his actions are at variance. I noticed he is flirtatious over phone chats to other girls, I got pissed n broke up d relationship. He came back begging, I Accepted. Claimed some inconceivable stories but I gave him a second chance. Now, d relationship is just stagnant. I love him but not sure if he is just taking me fora ride or what? I don't knowwhat to do as there is another guy proposing to me alreadybut I don't love him as much. I'm confused. Advise welcome, male point of view more appreciated.

one thing i know for sure is that relationships is a trivial matter. In my own opinion,u have to give the guy proposing a chance, but i wont advice u to make a hasty decision cos u might never know if u might still experience the same ordeal in his hands. Also i would advice u to really find out if ur current guy is suffering from mid life crisis, at times something like this happens to me- I would be in HIGH love with my one and only and in the next instance i would be in my lowest ebb.so either way u are in control of ur decisions and not NL members

Thanks obinnau. I know d ultimate decision lies with me. I just need a venting medium. Its not been easy at all.

Girl be patient na. Lemme tell u d truth expect less frm him, dnt show him u're desperate. Men hate intimidation too. If he is d type dat hates eatin out,once in a while prepare hs favorite dish(es) urslf. Respect him, dnt compare anoda man's achievemnt wt hs, be faithful and appreciate his efforts even small ones. My dear d list is endless but trust me it works. All d best.

I would have given my words of advice but since u stated male point of view will be more appreciated, I guess I will need ask my hubby and give his advice later