I am married and i have two kids. I had a girl friend before my marriage and when she got married it was a big tragedy for me. Now after a gap of Twelve years i found her again with one kid and she is a widow. I recollected my past and tears rolled from my eyes. But at the same time i realized that i have a loving and care taking wife who always care for me and my children. She has given me solace when i am totally deserted and she is a always down to earth without any pride. My parents love her very much. Now my girlfriend approached me and she is ready to lead life with me. What i should do as i am in complete dilemma as one side i have ex girlfriend and on the other loving wife. Kindly give your valuable suggestion.

Is this a joke? As soon as your love returns after you were not good enough to marry, you want to dump your wife and kids. Men, you are wicked o. Why marry a woman you don't love Is it because your family loved her? Now see what happened. Please face your family and move on from the widow. Let her go and find a widower. What a self centered and wicked biatch. She knows you are married and understands well the power she still has over you. Forget her abeg! She never loved you, that is why she didn't marry you. You have peace and happiness, why will you want to spoil that?

thanks for the advice

no matter how beautiful or sexy she is, don't do something bad out of pity

face ur family and let bygone be bygone

You are on the threshold of ruining your marriage and will surely regret it if that your ex returns to your life!

thats adultery...let her go. you can always have intimacy with ur wife at anytime

her curves is too sexy

This is the reason why I don't advocate marriage for kids and boys ...they hardly know their left from their right!!!

correct

Is this even something to ponder about

Haha another joke!!! I'm beginning to believe the saying that Okunrin o lapon le - jeez. This is not an issue of marrying out of pity or for the purpose of children ... Anyhow Olorun wa

dont you think that theres always a strong force seeing an ex regretting the past

Give me ur wife's mail, I'll like to post ur topic to her. She shld like it. So complimenting, dnt u think?

why?

I can't believe this, leave ur ex-girlfriend alone and face ur loving wife squarely.. Do you hear? I want to hear yes sir from ur mouth..

i learnt so much frm u guys