Daily communication is a natural part of a healthy relationship...so keep intouch with your "loved one". Both parties will reap the benefits

dmcdad:
Jeez!!!

If he is the most useless and yet you stick with him, I wonder...

u can't undastand!

jasper7:
Birds of the same feather. na togeda tins na

u r daft!

buklan4real@yah:
Harbosede02: itz everyday u av feelings 4 sum1,dis feelings disapear at tyms,bt 4 me,i cal im only if nessecary, cos my bf is d most useless fin eva!

Jesus Christ!.... And you are still with him?


kilode!! dats too bad

i wish u guys undastand!!

geezyk: Did I hear u say d most useless fin ever And u're still with him.

Dis shows dat guys are really scarce.. She's tryna hold on to d one she's got,even though he's very bad,Till d good one comes her way I laugh in swahili

sumfin lyk dat!

Harbosede02: u can't undastand!

Make me understand please because you don't deserve to be in a relationship with someone you openly declare as useless and all... Hmm??

dmcdad:
Make me understand please because you don't deserve to be in a relationship with someone you openly declare as useless and all... Hmm??

the reason i said hez useless is dat he does tinz that are hurting,bt he wouldn't knw wat he did hurt me,and am tired of hearin hez sowi,he hardly calls,he text once in a blue moon,he doesn't av my time at all,so isn't he useless??

íííi av a similar problem pls sent ur views and coment to ma whatapp 08183397239.
My girl friens scools in d east am in lagos.in ha finals now. D last time i saw her was in april last year. Which means we should be communicatin more often. But alas it d opposite she hardly communicates with me. Until i call. Even one month she wont bother . I will still be d one to communicate. Told ha on many times says no problem. Even wen i send money she calls little and she believe everytin is okay. If u are me wat ur step

Harbosede02: the reason i said hez useless is dat he does tinz that are hurting,bt he wouldn't knw wat he did hurt me,and am tired of hearin hez sowi,he hardly calls,he text once in a blue moon,he doesn't av my time at all,so isn't he useless??

The question now is... Why are u still with him My dear, you deserve someone better jare...

If u think no one is forth-coming, try leaving him and see the magic how u would get someone that is far better of than him...

Please do urself a favour and get urself another man. Okay?

dmcdad:
The question now is... Why are u still with him My dear, you deserve someone better jare...

If u think no one is forth-coming, try leaving him and see the magic how u would get someone that is far better of than him...

Please do urself a favour and get urself another man. Okay?

i can't do dat,i love im,even if itz hard 2 admit.

Harbosede02: sumfin lyk dat!

I luv ur strategy,buh u just gotta let him go,cos staying with him will still hurt u d more,and potential suitors would not be encouraged to come close to u

geezyk: I luv ur strategy,buh u just gotta let him go,cos staying with him will still hurt u d more,and potential suitors would not be encouraged to come close to u

bt he also claims he loves me.

dmcdad:
The question now is... Why are u still with him My dear, you deserve someone better jare...

If u think no one is forth-coming, try leaving him and see the magic how u would get someone that is far better of than him...

Please do urself a favour and get urself another man. Okay?

@bolded, should she go and toast a guy?, cos this get yourself another man is kinda confusing... P.S:.. No pun intended

Short story about a friend-

She was dating a guy who claimed he wasn't the "keep in touch" or romantic type. So they were dating and he'd go for days without making an attempt, she did all the visiting, calling & texting. Of course, she finally got tired and gradually stopped.
Fortunately, she met the sweetest guy ever.... got all the attention she'd always craved, fell for him and now they're together!!! She cheated on and finally dumped her bf!!!
Seriously, it was just abt the calling/texting!!! Best description of her ex is Bruno Mars' - When I was your man.

Lesson: Chics love attention, so guys the moment u're "busy" and take things for granted... there are lots of distractions which most times can't be resisted! BE WARNED

Harbosede02: bt he also claims he loves me.

Gal u better wisen up,that luv is straight up frm HELL...

Harbosede02: i can't do dat,i love im,even if itz hard 2 admit.

Well... Its up to u anywayz... At least it would be in the records that someone cared enough to give u an advice..

Why should I bother even, when it is that I wont be the one to face the aftermath...

nbright: @bolded, should she go and toast a guy?, cos this get yourself another man is kinda confusing... P.S:.. No pun intended

Lolzz... I didn't actually mean he should woo a guy or something, but she should take that guy off the picture and see to accepting potential wooers... You cant tell me that there aint potential wooers already. The fact is, life is too short to be stucked with someone whom u know is detrimental to u...

Harbosede02: the reason i said hez useless is dat he does tinz that are hurting,bt he wouldn't knw wat he did hurt me,and am tired of hearin hez sowi,he hardly calls,he text once in a blue moon,he doesn't av my time at all,so isn't he useless??

This time two years ago this would have been me, was shocked when my ex left me hanging when we were meant to meet up on a date, only to send that dreadful text message.
See as I vex start to dey curse the girl, it took me a while to realise my wrongs, man now dey try beg his way back.

You need to tell him how you feel, some men like myself are not a calling type , we know how to spoil our women thou.

sweet_gala:

This time two years ago this would have been me, was shocked when my ex left me hanging when we were meant to meet up on a date, only to send that dreadful text message.
See as I vex start to dey curse the girl, it took me a while to realise my wrongs, man now dey try beg his way back.

You need to tell him how you feel, some men like myself are not a calling type , we know how to spoil our women thou.

datz wat i want 2 hear,thnk u xo much,itz very easy 4 u guys to say i shuld leave im,bt itz very hard 4 me 2 do..thnks 4 ur concern guys.GOD bless!!!

penzino:
Thanx OP for dis thread.... Just wanted to ask about how often u call some1 u care alot for but u havnt actually told her u are interested in her?? I no wan make mistake make e no be say person dey pest her? Thnx guys, ur views are welcome!!!

If u like someone genuinely, let dt person knw...atleast it cn save d person frm being single or being in an unhealthy relationship, it cn also show u re nt timid...trust me, most ladies knw wen u feel fr them.