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Wrong Reasons To Get Married. by Nobody: 11:59am On Apr 02, 2013
1. You must not get married because of lust.

2. Infatuation (Love at first sight- sudden love)

3. Just liking the idea of marriage.

4. The fear of remaining unmarried (my friends are all married, my sisters are all
married e.t.c)

5. Pressure (parents, friends, etc)

6. Because you want to escaping being jilted ( but if he is the right man/woman, he or she wont jilt you)

7. Getting married for money (money does not guarantee a successful marriage at all.

8. Using marriage as an escape route! (I am fed up of mummy and daddy

9. Having pity... (feeling sorry for the Man or the Woman.)

10. Foolish Expectation....­­..(Marrying an unbeliever and expecting him/her to change in the course marriage! especially if they don't change before you marry them)

11. Marrying for Beauty or Handsomeness...­­....[The best time to access a woman properly is absolutely when she wakes up in the morning!] Let him see you as you are Now!!!

12. Accidental PREGNANCY! [Just because you become pregnant along the line doesn't mean you have to bury your destiny there.

13. Tribal Connection (I must marry someone from my town.,,etc...)

14. To satisfy your Parents.

15. Marrying to hurt your Parent

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Re: Wrong Reasons To Get Married. by omodapson(m): 5:07pm On Apr 02, 2013
Sadly and of a truth, we marry because of one of those stated reasons. Some of us are just fortunate to live it through.

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Re: Wrong Reasons To Get Married. by sunnyt1(m): 5:42pm On Apr 02, 2013
And if i may ask, why should we get married then?

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Re: Wrong Reasons To Get Married. by tpia5: 5:47pm On Apr 02, 2013
# 15 is just wrong but well, everyone gets married for one reason or another.

for many, its a game of lotto.

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Re: Wrong Reasons To Get Married. by tpia5: 5:47pm On Apr 02, 2013
@ topic

what are the right reasons to get married?
Re: Wrong Reasons To Get Married. by Nobody: 12:06am On Apr 03, 2013
True that but thats when you start falling in love with that person.
omodapson: Sadly and of a truth, we marry because of one of those stated reasons. Some of us are just fortunate to live it through.

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Re: Wrong Reasons To Get Married. by Nobody: 12:06am On Apr 03, 2013
My dear, its love.[color=#770077][/color]
tpia@:
@ topic

what are the right reasons to get married?
Re: Wrong Reasons To Get Married. by Nobody: 12:10am On Apr 03, 2013
We should get married because of this reasons
1 A big commitment.
2 Sharing your life with someone.
3 You’ve enjoyed your single life.
4 A name for your relationship.
5 Maturity
6 Respecting values and tradition.
Soo many more

sunny t: And if i may ask, why should we get married then?

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Re: Wrong Reasons To Get Married. by Mynd44: 3:25am On Apr 03, 2013
Layemii: We should get married because of this reasons
1 A big commitment.
2 Sharing your life with someone.
3 You’ve enjoyed your single life.
4 A name for your relationship.
5 Maturity
6 Respecting values and tradition.
Soo many more

Only number 2 makes sense. The rest should ne thrown into the waste bin

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Re: Wrong Reasons To Get Married. by Princeparix(m): 8:22am On Apr 03, 2013
Layemii: We should get married because of this reasons
1 A big commitment.
2 Sharing your life with someone.
3 You’ve enjoyed your single life.
4 A name for your relationship.
5 Maturity
6 Respecting values and tradition.
Soo many more>4 sum1 u can disturb 4 d rest of ur life

Re: Wrong Reasons To Get Married. by 50calibre(m): 8:37am On Apr 03, 2013
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Re: Wrong Reasons To Get Married. by shiftmarket(m): 8:39am On Apr 03, 2013
Marrying because he has a car.

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Re: Wrong Reasons To Get Married. by Nobody: 8:42am On Apr 03, 2013
This is the dumbest post ever. why should someone get married outside all this reasons you have gave!!!!!! rubbish.

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Re: Wrong Reasons To Get Married. by Nobody: 8:43am On Apr 03, 2013
Layemii: We should get married because of this reasons
1 A big commitment.
2 Sharing your life with someone.
3 You’ve enjoyed your single life.
4 A name for your relationship.
5 Maturity
6 Respecting values and tradition.
Soo many more


Wake up!! all this you are listing is theory and fantasy. Life is not a book!!!

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Re: Wrong Reasons To Get Married. by obowunmi(m): 8:49am On Apr 03, 2013
OP: sadly most Nigerians get married for the reasons you've stated above..... just get a **jump** off on the side, in case your husband or wife doesn't satisfy you anymore. grin grin

I want to believe GOD that I will only marry someone I deeply care about..... in fact, this is what a frame in my bedroom will say

"No matter how annoying my wife gets, I need to remember how hard I prayed to God to have her." grin grin grin

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Re: Wrong Reasons To Get Married. by Fash20: 8:50am On Apr 03, 2013
50calibre:

Dude please is it possible to get unlimited Internet data for iphone in Nigeria
awoof
Re: Wrong Reasons To Get Married. by Nobody: 8:52am On Apr 03, 2013
Am getting married to her cos she's a senator's daughter,every other things come next..
Re: Wrong Reasons To Get Married. by DonHummer(m): 8:52am On Apr 03, 2013
al dis one na story...
Al dis nairalanders una sabi give list..
@ op i hop u are married b4 comin to giv us this list...
Re: Wrong Reasons To Get Married. by Dygeasy(m): 8:57am On Apr 03, 2013
Una never jam rich man pikin abi? Nobody go tell you make you propose sharperly even if you be the lady...


NEXT!
Re: Wrong Reasons To Get Married. by eebay: 8:59am On Apr 03, 2013
sunny t: And if i may ask, why should we get married then?
one of the reason we marry should be marrying because of REAL LOVE!
sunny t: And if i may ask, why should we get married then?
one of the reason we marry should be marrying because of REAL LOVE!
sunny t: And if i may ask, why should we get married then?
one of the reason we marry should be marrying because of REAL LOVE!
Re: Wrong Reasons To Get Married. by obowunmi(m): 8:59am On Apr 03, 2013
Dygeasy: Una never jam rich man pikin abi? Nobody go tell you make you propose sharperly even if you be the lady...
NEXT!

^^^ only a fool looks at wealth when marrying..... you don't want to know the number of "rich" people who are divorced today.

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Re: Wrong Reasons To Get Married. by BecaciaBarbie(f): 8:59am On Apr 03, 2013
Layemii: 1. You must not get married because of lust.

2. Infatuation (Love at first sight- sudden love)

3. Just liking the idea of marriage.

4. The fear of remaining unmarried (my friends are all married, my sisters are all
married e.t.c)

5. Pressure (parents, friends, etc)

6. Because you want to escaping being jilted ( but if he is the right man/woman, he or she wont jilt you)

7. Getting married for money (money does not guarantee a successful marriage at all.

8. Using marriage as an escape route! (I am fed up of mummy and daddy

9. Having pity... (feeling sorry for the Man or the Woman.)

10. Foolish Expectation....­­..(Marrying an unbeliever and expecting him/her to change in the course marriage! especially if they don't change before you marry them)

11. Marrying for Beauty or Handsomeness...­­....[The best time to access a woman properly is absolutely when she wakes up in the morning!] Let him see you as you are Now!!!

12. Accidental PREGNANCY! [Just because you become pregnant along the line doesn't mean you have to bury your destiny there.

13. Tribal Connection (I must marry someone from my town.,,etc...)

14. To satisfy your Parents.

15. Marrying to hurt your Parent
Thanks, Marriage its a life time commitment so no one should rush into any, take ur time or else u just mind endup regretting nd biting ur lips. smiley

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Re: Wrong Reasons To Get Married. by Bliss4Lyfe(f): 9:02am On Apr 03, 2013
Getting married becos Pastor is match making and says so. undecided

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Re: Wrong Reasons To Get Married. by Mishydoo(m): 9:05am On Apr 03, 2013
WTF...Hw d Hell did this get ȱȠ Front page?...smh
Re: Wrong Reasons To Get Married. by BecaciaBarbie(f): 9:05am On Apr 03, 2013
50calibre:

Dude please is it possible to get unlimited Internet data for iphone in Nigeria
stop derailing. angry
Re: Wrong Reasons To Get Married. by naijathings(m): 9:06am On Apr 03, 2013
Promotion and Salary Increase still dey there too.
Re: Wrong Reasons To Get Married. by fitzmayowa: 9:09am On Apr 03, 2013
Na wa ooo, i wonder why people still get married then

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Re: Wrong Reasons To Get Married. by dnawah(m): 9:09am On Apr 03, 2013
tpia@:
@ topic

what are the right reasons to get married?
2 bleep and have phenty children(4 it is writing"go yee into d world and multiply"gringrin
Re: Wrong Reasons To Get Married. by softandmoist(f): 9:11am On Apr 03, 2013
@op, the source of your post wasn't included. This was a message from MFM's general overseer. Please always let us know what's original and what's not.
Re: Wrong Reasons To Get Married. by efosanice: 9:34am On Apr 03, 2013
This is a very educative post, most marriages are fueled by a lot of these factors and i'm glad people are getting more enlightened.

When you finally decide to marry here are people you should also never marry.

http://www.elijahforce..com/2013/01/8-men-you-should-never-marry.html

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Re: Wrong Reasons To Get Married. by Morgan1092(m): 9:37am On Apr 03, 2013
Exactly 4 d ladies.

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