sunny t: And if i may ask, why should we get married then?

To have children

Do you know why you should not get married at all? Visit www.purpledovenet. come back and thank me later.

Reminds me of d movie #why did i get married??
Nice one @op though m yet to see som1 who got married based on any reason outside d ones u stated.

whatever!
attack d message and not the messenger!!!
so, because a G.O is the source now, the OP shouldn't share it on social media, in other for those who were not privileged to be at the gathering where the G.O shared it, to benefit from it?!


@op, the source of your post wasn't included. This was a message from MFM's general overseer. Please always let us know what's original and what's not.[/quote]

There įs no science of marriage, for the religious pray to God, otherwise depend on your luck

softandmoist: @op, the source of your post wasn't included. This was a message from MFM's general overseer. Please always let us know what's original and what's not.

c'mon dude, what has source(s ) got to do with things that are being discussed in a forum of this type?

softandmoist: @op, the source of your post wasn't included. This was a message from MFM's general overseer. Please always let us know what's original and what's not.

c'mon dude, what has source(s ) got to do with things that are being discussed in a forum of this type?

softandmoist: @op, the source of your post wasn't included. This was a message from MFM's general overseer. Please always let us know what's original and what's not.

c'mon dude, what has source(s ) got to do with things that are being discussed in a forum of this type?

Sorry to disappoint, all you've stated are the reasons why most people get married nowadays

What do u mean by “unbeliever ”

[quote author=eebay]
one of the reason we marry should be marrying because of REAL LOVE![b]

Adont blv just love is enof rzn 2 even get married. Most tyms wer blinded by luv,and only realise wen its faded

Thanks but... Marriage is Marriage provided you put God First. Stop scaring us abeg. Hian!!

Layemii: 1. You must not get married because of lust.

2. Infatuation (Love at first sight- sudden love)

3. Just liking the idea of marriage.

4. The fear of remaining unmarried (my friends are all married, my sisters are all
married e.t.c)

5. Pressure (parents, friends, etc)

6. Because you want to escaping being jilted ( but if he is the right man/woman, he or she wont jilt you)

7. Getting married for money (money does not guarantee a successful marriage at all.

8. Using marriage as an escape route! (I am fed up of mummy and daddy

9. Having pity... (feeling sorry for the Man or the Woman.)

10. Foolish Expectation....­­..(Marrying an unbeliever and expecting him/her to change in the course marriage! especially if they don't change before you marry them)

11. Marrying for Beauty or Handsomeness...­­....[The best time to access a woman properly is absolutely when she wakes up in the morning!] Let him see you as you are Now!!!

12. Accidental PREGNANCY! [Just because you become pregnant along the line doesn't mean you have to bury your destiny there.

13. Tribal Connection (I must marry someone from my town.,,etc...)

14. To satisfy your Parents.

15. Marrying to hurt your Parent

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Whatever reason it is......let it be a real one and never marry from anotherz experience of what marriage is

All ladies dont see Number 7 as a wrong reason for getting married.

atbu1983: This is the dumbest post ever. why should someone get married outside all this reasons you have gave!!!!!! rubbish.

There's ntn else apart from all these reasons he have GAVE na! Dnt mynd him jor

obowunmi:

^^^ only a fool looks at wealth when marrying..... you don't want to know the number of "rich" people who are divorced today.

u don't want to know d number of poor people who are divorced, packed out of their husbands house or have been thrown out ... Riches have nothing to do with divorce or separation

There are many genuine reasons for marriage but top priority when choosing a partner is to look for a partner to assist you in your GOD given dreams/destiny or better still you share identical dreams, then you have one single purpose in life rather than 2.

What is so sad is that within that list are found Primary or Secondary reasons we all got married.
We think it, we feel, we act on it. C'est la vie!

Now, tell me, what is the reason any one should get married then, you seem to list everything. Should we get married cos we wanna make babies only ? Are we now baby-making-machines ? I can assure you, if GEJ's daughter was of age, it will be a divine wish for me to get married to her. Cos I know for a fact, I will be the next big thing after fried rice. (Just joking).

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Number 12 is so POPULAR with Nigerians!

Layemii: 1. You must not get married because of lust.

2. Infatuation (Love at first sight- sudden love)

3. Just liking the idea of marriage.

4. The fear of remaining unmarried (my friends are all married, my sisters are all
married e.t.c)

5. Pressure (parents, friends, etc)

6. Because you want to escaping being jilted ( but if he is the right man/woman, he or she wont jilt you)

7. Getting married for money (money does not guarantee a successful marriage at all.

8. Using marriage as an escape route! (I am fed up of mummy and daddy

9. Having pity... (feeling sorry for the Man or the Woman.)

10. Foolish Expectation....­­..(Marrying an unbeliever and expecting him/her to change in the course marriage! especially if they don't change before you marry them)

11. Marrying for Beauty or Handsomeness...­­....[The best time to access a woman properly is absolutely when she wakes up in the morning!] Let him see you as you are Now!!!

12. Accidental PREGNANCY! [Just because you become pregnant along the line doesn't mean you have to bury your destiny there.

13. Tribal Connection (I must marry someone from my town.,,etc...)

14. To satisfy your Parents.

15. Marrying to hurt your Parent

Seun this absolutely marginalization.this the exact topic i created and didn't make the front page and here is someone who stole and modify my topic; and it make front page.i don't want to believe that favouritism or rather nepotism exists here.

people get married for 4reasons:
1. beauty/handsome
2. family background
3. wealth
4. religion
but what should be given consideration more is the religion because its a sign that you have married the person for God sake

Thanks alot. So glad i read this.

salafiyy: people get married for 4reasons:
1. beauty/handsome
2. family background
3. wealth
4. religion
but what should be given consideration more is the religion because its a sign that you have married the person for God sake

You r right

Becacia_Barbie:
Thanks, Marriage its a life time commitment so no one should rush into any, take ur time or else u just mind endup regretting nd biting ur lips.

Thanks dear..Exactly my point

Morgan1092: Exactly 4 d ladies.

and d guys too

Inca: Thanks alot. So glad i read this.

your welcome

efosanice: This is a very educative post, most marriages are fueled by a lot of these factors and i'm glad people are getting more enlightened.

When you finally decide to marry here are people you should also never marry.

http://www.elijahforce..com/2013/01/8-men-you-should-never-marry.html

Hi Elijah, I think some of the guys mentioned can be changed.

atbu1983: This is the dumbest post ever. why should someone get married outside all this reasons you have gave!!!!!! rubbish.

Gawd Atbu no kill us with your grammar- reasons you have gave or given? I can't marry you 'cos of this one bullet reason o.

Layemii: We should get married because of this reasons
1 A big commitment.
2 Sharing your life with someone.
3 You’ve enjoyed your single life.
4 A name for your relationship.
5 Maturity
6 Respecting values and tradition.
Soo many more

7. Regular, unrestricted and uninhibited f.u.ckery

Layemii: 1. You must not get married because of lust.

2. Infatuation (Love at first sight- sudden love)

3. Just liking the idea of marriage.

4. The fear of remaining unmarried (my friends are all married, my sisters are all
married e.t.c)

5. Pressure (parents, friends, etc)

6. Because you want to escaping being jilted ( but if he is the right man/woman, he or she wont jilt you)

7. Getting married for money (money does not guarantee a successful marriage at all.

8. Using marriage as an escape route! (I am fed up of mummy and daddy

9. Having pity... (feeling sorry for the Man or the Woman.)

10. Foolish Expectation....­­..(Marrying an unbeliever and expecting him/her to change in the course marriage! especially if they don't change before you marry them)

11. Marrying for Beauty or Handsomeness...­­....[The best time to access a woman properly is absolutely when she wakes up in the morning!] Let him see you as you are Now!!!

12. Accidental PREGNANCY! [Just because you become pregnant along the line doesn't mean you have to bury your destiny there.

13. Tribal Connection (I must marry someone from my town.,,etc...)

14. To satisfy your Parents.

15. Marrying to hurt your Parent

abeg no vex.make i ask,u don marry?if yes why did you marry?