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5 Thoughtful Tips For Being A Long-distance BFF by Nobody: 7:31pm On Apr 07, 2013
Long-distance friendships may be easier to maintain than romantic relationships, but that doesn't mean they don't require effort. In fact, when you make your friendship a priority, living apart can bring you even closer because you have to be more purposeful about staying in touch. To be there without being there, follow these five thoughtful tips:

Honor the major moments. It's easy to get wrapped up in your routine and forget about your friend's big promotion or that exciting trip she's planned, but you should make a point to remember those important moments. Keep it simple by marking it on your calendar the first time she mentions it, and when the date arrives, let her know you're thinking of her by sending flowers to her office, leaving a sweet voicemail, or even writing a simple text message - it really is the thought that counts.

Connect with your favorite pastimes. Similar interests are what brought you together in the first place, so why not boost that bond? Create a joint Pinterest board to swap recipes, read the same book at the same time, and recap your favorite TV shows over the phone.

Take advantage of technology. Staying connected has become more effortless than ever. On an everyday basis, share photos or make lunch-hour phone dates a priority. Even better? Carve out regular "face-to-face" time by video chatting each week. Try a Sunday morning coffee date over Skype or use FaceTime to "get ready together" next time you're going out, and you'll truly feel like you've seen her.

Share everyday tidbits. Part of what makes long-distance friendships so different is the absence of day-to-day details. There's a tendency to reach out only when it seems important, and those everyday stories can get lost, which makes you feel disconnected. The solution? Share that random anecdote about your co-worker, tell her about your favorite lunch spot, and fill her in on the happenings of your local pals - then ask her to do the same. With a glimpse into each other's usual routines, you're more likely to feel close despite the distance.

Be the queen [or king] of "just because." Sure, significant milestones like birthdays and anniversaries should be remembered, but it's even more meaningful to hear from a friend just because. Whether you write a letter, send a hilarious greeting card, or call out your inside joke on social media, those little gestures will add up.

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Re: 5 Thoughtful Tips For Being A Long-distance BFF by Nobody: 8:03pm On Apr 07, 2013
Great Tips there

am nt into Long-Distance Relationship itch tho.. cheesy
Re: 5 Thoughtful Tips For Being A Long-distance BFF by Nobody: 8:32pm On Apr 07, 2013
undecided
Re: 5 Thoughtful Tips For Being A Long-distance BFF by 190: 10:53pm On Apr 07, 2013
grin grin
Re: 5 Thoughtful Tips For Being A Long-distance BFF by MrCork17: 10:57pm On Apr 07, 2013
Sweeery ogugua88... can i toast you here from London? wink

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Re: 5 Thoughtful Tips For Being A Long-distance BFF by xynerise: 11:13pm On Apr 07, 2013
Watch football with ur friends and even play Ps2 with them and u will never bother about her absence. cool.
If it difficult for u, then add her on 2go or whatsapp or BBM and chat with her. Trust me, the distance will be invisible. grin
Re: 5 Thoughtful Tips For Being A Long-distance BFF by zibe(m): 7:52am On Apr 09, 2013
Me and my friends have been maintaining this routine since we left school, and subsequently passed out from NYSC last year. Four of us, all best friends since year 1 in school days. We always made sure to have a get together whenever any of us is celebrating a birthday, and when there's an achievement...like when we all got jobs after service. Nowadays it's hard meeting, but we still make sure we do, especially on our birthdays, or during a change of job for better. The girl amongs us will be getting married soon, and we'll all be flying down to celebrate with her. Nothing beats growing up with your best friends and watching each other as you achieve things in life.
Re: 5 Thoughtful Tips For Being A Long-distance BFF by DonaldGenes(m): 11:21am On Apr 12, 2013
Mr..Cork:
Sweeery ogugua88... can i toast you here from London? wink
yessss you can lol

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