naturally am not d type that fears talking to d opposite sex but I hv come to find out that anylady I hv strong feelings for I end up not talking to her. cos. of stupid fear,
.there is dis babe in my church,not like she is the most beautiful. but because she keeps to herself attends every meeting in church and gentle, I started having relationship feelings for her but dunno y I get scared, just d idea of talking to her makes my heart race, please guys any tips on how to overcome dis stupid fear, not like she will beat me or sometin, just don't know y am scared, pls note I hv bin in a relationship before so isn't like is my first time

Switch to someone else. Most times timidity is due to the individuals sensing that she might turn u down, n since she is a church girl, dis is highly probable. Go for a girl more lively n u'll find out talkin to her is not a big deal after all.

ecomog08: Switch to someone else. Most times timidity is due to the individuals sensing that she might turn u down, n since she is a church girl, dis is highly probable. Go for a girl more lively n u'll find out talkin to her is not a big deal after all.

u don't understand der is something about her that makes me want her, more like my dream girl, I can't explain it, am more like d ladies man, I find it easy talking to girls but wen it comes to her my heart starts racing