There are a lot of ways to stop fighting in a relationship, but do you always want to follow them? Constant fighting in a relationship isn't healthy, but sometimes it happens. If you're finding yourself constantly fighting with your boyfriend or girlfriend, you've got to take a look at my ways to stop fighting in a relationship so you can really get back to enjoying each other! Remember, fights are typically caused by misunderstandings and underlying issues!

1. Don't Bring up The past:This is a huge step that I need to learn. I would say, one of the key ways to stop fighting in a relationship is to stop bringing up the past. The past is the past and the more that you bring it up, the worse the fight can actually be. Bringing up the past can also bring up a lot of old emotions, which is never good.

2. Don't Leave Things Unresolved:I know it's hard and you've probably heard it before, but going to bed angry is not going to solve anything. This can leave you both feeling extremely resentful and actually can make the fight last a lot longer. Why not resolve the fight before bed or at least talk it all out, so that you both can feel better?

3. Learn to Accept Each Other:Everyone in the world has flaws, some of the flaws are things that you've got to deal with, some of the flaws are things that you need to accept. This is where accepting each other for who you are comes in handy. Your boyfriend might never be the guy that brings home flowers and your girlfriend may never be the girl that can't stop nagging, but these are things that you need to learn to accept.

4. Figure Out The Root of The Problem:Every fight in the world has a root at the end of it. Once you figure out exactly what the root of the problem is, you'll be able to solve the problem and also solve the fight. It's not going to be easy, but it is going to be worth it.

5. Own up to Your Part of The Fight:One of the biggest problems that I have when I'm in a fight is that I get into my own head space – and I don't necessarily own up to my own part of the fight. It's hard to admit that you are wrong and to take the blame. Do it though. It's healthy and it'll make your partner appreciate you!

6. Ban The 'but':'But if you did this,' 'but if you did that,' eliminate the 'but' from your vocab when you are in a fight and you'll be way better off! I use the 'but' all of the time and truthfully, when I cut it out, the fight doesn't last nearly as long. Just curb your tongue a little!

7. Is This a Repeat Performance?I know that issues come up, but do you constantly have the same fight? Over and over again? Do you think that could be a sign? If you are constantly having a fight that revolves around a certain thing that your spouse does, why not bring it up to them calmly to stop the fight?

8. Remember What's Important:Finally, you always want to keep in mind that your relationship is very important and that you two are together for a reason. It's hard to keep that in mind when you are fighting, but it's so important.

While you might not feel like your relationship is amazing because of the constant fighting, there are tons of ways to stop fighting in your relationship, you just have to work at it. So, are you constantly fighting in your relationship?

SOURCE:http://abidemionline.com/relationship/ways-to-stop-constant-fighting-in-a-relationship/

Nice article, to be frank I'm guilty of no 1. I use it to score cheap points and also a justification for my lack or decline in trust. I wish to change someday though.

Nice article

Thank You

Subomi-luv:
Nice article

I love fighting

Great!!!

Ok na

Steady supply of punny or pussy 2 ur man

Steady supply of punny or pu ssy 2 ur man

190: I love fighting

clap for yourself then

Praying together will surely stop it

9ce 1

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Even though you should not be quick to write off a relationship but constant fighting and disagreement without any headway or change is one of the sure signs that you are not compatible and should just forget it.

It may also be a sign that you are in an abusive relationships. Other signs are listed here.


http://www.elijahforce..com/2013/02/signs-of-abusive-relationship.html

Some ladies can't do without fighting.

splash some cash.... Daz all!

Na una sabi

nice write up...


we shld also learn to tolerate and endure to some extent and nt nag at any slightest mistake...dont also be a fault finder, alwys findin fault where there's none...

nyz write up diz will really help ma relationshi

There shouldn't be fighting in the first place, that's a bad omen. Relationship should not be a democracy, it's should be an authoritarianism, with the man's decisions unquestioned and unchallenged just as It was in the days of old. Like abraham and Sarah.

Choose your battles. Fights happen!

wen u dey 4 relationship nd d fighting dey consistent, Broda,Sister abeg break up nd run 4 ur life, Find d perfect man or woman 4 u.Consistent fighting in a Relationship is a childs play

its part of the whole thing, even u d op cant change d fact, two pple r involved u knw

sorry, dere is no way to stop it, u can rather reduce it.

190: I love fighting

190: I love fighting

gud of u, man.

Owk sir

This is a nice write-up. Well, working at those points is the real work.

Great 1

Reminiscing over bitter issues is one thing that ruins d relationship, since you know you are guilty of that try and work on it and am sure almost every1 is guilty of point 1 , but takes a conscious effort to work on it.

djeezy: Nice article, to be frank I'm guilty of no 1. I use it to score cheap points and also a justification for my lack or decline in trust. I wish to change someday though.

Thanks

syras: This is a nice write-up. Well, working at those points is the real work.

Thank You

ichommy: Great 1