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Paulkigame: trust members from romance section to give me advice

advice plsss

She had an affair with him even doh he was married.

Den u came in and she opened her legs 4 u as well. U know wot I think? dat ur babe is a loosed babe. Guy go get urself a decent girl n quit trying to save a relationship dat was already dead on arrival.

thanks, am not exactly hoping to marry a virgin. we all had our dirty past. i dont want to judge her. am ready to put her past behind me. i want to her to stop being friends with him. need advice on how to approach the situation without causing so much problem. were really are happy couple till late.

Sit her down and blow correct sense into her head. Given their history, she's just supposed to be on the normal colleagues level now, not going to lunch with him. It's good that she confessed to you but in this situation, you have to be careful. Since they had something together before and still see each other almost everyday, there's a chance something might still happen if they stay too close to each other. that's if something is not happening

My advice: Be sure there's nothing between them again, (you might wanna confirm without her knowledge)...if you're lucky enough that there isn't, sit her down and have a long talk with her about how you would want them to keep a lil bit of distance, just to be sure such doesn't happen again. You've got to be wise in saying it before she would start saying you're trying to dissociate her from her friends and all those stunts that we ladies pull.

Finally, you have to find a place in your heart to sincerely forgive her and believe that henceforth, she's for you and you alone. Good luck!

Am grateful for ur advice. Do i need to sit both of them? I dont want a situation where they be seeing each other behind my back and i dont think i will have time to police her. I just want this dude out of our lives!

Paulkigame: Am grateful for ur advice. Do i need to sit both of them? I dont want a situation where they be seeing each other behind my back and i dont think i will have time to police her. I just want this dude out of our lives!

Both of them keh You don't have any business with the guy. It's your lady that you have issues with. I'm not saying 'policing' for too long, all you need is a lil bit of investigation...just to be sure or if you can trust her on her word , you just need to be sure the relationship is over. Else, you'll not feel safe. Once you're sure, sit your babe down and tell her your mind. Don't be too forceful about it, let her see reasons with you...if she's matured and wise, she'll get your drift.

Thanks a bunch! I will give it a try.

Paulkigame: Yes she is. If its her exposure u are asking after, she not been outside. She was trained in nigeria but she thinks and acts like white people.

Guess u're new around here. The question is supposed to be rhetorical.

its nothing bro let bygone be bygone

They mighT still be f*cking because they never had a relationship just sexlationship and it will continue till when the girl come to her senses, we guys appreciate free pu*sy without string attach



If she refuses to distance herself then know you dont own her punny alone

You have every reason to be suspicious......

I have lots of male buddies and I'm the first to castigate any man that tries to change how I interact with them but your case is different my brother.

She had an affair, not a relationship ooo but an affair!! Affair is the hardest thing to break free from, I'm being entirely honest. It's just more sinful and very "sweet".

You don't break free from an affair and still do buddy-buddy with the guy. Who is she deceiving?? She goes out to lunch break with him?? She hangs out with him?? Unfvcking-believable!!

Make Una help me see this mugu ooo, when you stop having an affair with someone or should I say you repented. My brother you break free totally, the only relationship you keep with such a person is a hi-hi relationship.

Paulkigame: thanks 4 all ur comments. i just needed to talk to some one, since i cant talk to anyone i know about this . moderator i will wish this thread is taken down or deleted. thank you all. she is already here on this forum!

Ouch! It might be faster if you tell them through the complaints thread of the romance section. Or you can pm sexkillz or jaybee! Wish you good luck! You're a good person, i guess, and you deserve a good woman.