I have always wondered why many people always read books like , how to please your husband/Wife, , whta to do on a fisrt date amongs other dating and sexuality books.

I was just wondering how good are these tips considering that our sexual tastes differs.

Please express your views

Some dating tips are useful, some are just full of crap, it depends.

people learn from reading and most times u hear or gain understanding from dose who have read so would u stil ask how good dating tips are?

ashe2:

people learn from reading and most times u hear or gain understanding from dose who have read so would u stil ask how good dating tips are?

For the fact that people learn from reading does not mean that you should learn wrong things. Sexuality is a relative issue and here are some instances

There are ways i will talk to my girl and she will take it cool and someone may ditch her Guy for talking to her in the same manner.

So if a book tells you to slap you date in order to get his attention, you will go ahead and do it?

Man wake up Girl, know yourself and try to be yourself. I aint going to follow any stupid dating rules.

ashe2:

people learn from reading and most times u hear or gain understanding from dose who have read so would u stil ask how good dating tips are?

For the fact that people learn from reading does not mean that you should learn wrong things. Sexuality is a relative issue and here are some instances

There are ways i will talk to my girl and she will take it cool and someone may ditch her  Guy for talking to her in the same manner.  

So if a book tells you to slap you date in order to get his attention, you will go ahead and do it?

Wake up Girl, know yourself and try to be yourself. I aint going to follow any stupid dating rules.

What about people who are anti-social shyness to embarrass asking someone to know how good are dating tips?

What about their parent teaching their own child taking how good dating tips are?

Tell me why there are too many AIDS/HIV exposure, non-virgins, broken relationships, divorce, rape, goes on, high rates!

Where can you learn how good dating tips are? from your friends?, sibling?, or peer pressure?

10 Insights You should take steps into serious relationship before you get marry her/him
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Here are summarized foundations of how strong relationship between two people connect that is based on:

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[li]Trust[/li]
[li]Spirituality[/li]
[li]4 Characters[/li]
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[li]Humility[/li]
[li]Kindness[/li]
[li]Responsibility[/li]
[li]Happiness[/li]
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[li]Personal Hygiene[/li]
[li]Communication Skill[/li]
[li]Personal Habits[/li]
[li]Strong Connections[/li]
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[li]Good Chemistry and Compatibility[/li]
[li]Shared Common Interest[/li]
[li]Shared Common Life Goal[/li]
[li]Deeper Emotional[/li]
[li]Sexual Compatibility[/li] (refer the knowledge of sexuality)
[li]Agreed Financial Obligations/Compromise Equally[/li]
[/list]
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i think that dating tips are useful but i think they are more useful more in the character development department than in the how and where to find your spouse department. i have truly come to believe more that it is God that give a good man or woman to you as a spouse. its your job however to learn to treat the person right, thats where dating books and tips come in.