I have a female friend we talk on phone like gud buddies but no intimate chatting.so recently she got married.but now to call, am kind of skeptical on when to call her and how long to stay on d phone with her.cos i dont want to call at d wrong time and cause problem,so pls i need advice on d best timing for calling,cos its been so long av not called her.

go and chat with another single lady

na by force to chat with this one?

Wisdom is the princial thing, something of this nature requires wisdom, and i will suggest you pay her a visit at her place when both her and hubby will be around, and ask wisely in the presence of both of them when you can call her, but before you can do this, ensure her hubby know you as a real friend and not otherwise, and also ensure that the hubby is comfortable with both your calls and your visits and also ensure that, you are ready to become the family's friend.
May God help you.

If you could be her friend, you could also be a family friend. If you both work in the same place, or live in the same area, you will definitely be in touch. But Until then, forget about your unnecessary calls.

If you can't call her when her husband is present, then forget about calling her.

biolabee: go and chat with another single lady

na by force to chat with this one?

na my best pal even before she get married.so u dey suggest make i no call her again?

greatgod2012: Wisdom is the princial thing, something of this nature requires wisdom, and i will suggest you pay her a visit at her place when both her and hubby will be around, and ask wisely in the presence of both of them when you can call her, but before you can do this, ensure her hubby know you as a real friend and not otherwise, and also ensure that the hubby is comfortable with both your calls and your visits and also ensure that, you are ready to become the family's friend.
May God help you.

thanks very much.its just that they relocated to another state.so d only option is through phone call we can communicate.thanks for d advice.

baby.me:
If you can't call her when her husband is present, then forget about calling her.

okay ma...

Ephramed:

na my best pal even before she get married.so u dey suggest make i no call her again?

i feel you but she has moved on

Soon she will have a baby, nursing, parenting..
you can be friends tho and visit with ur girl friend

She has entered another chapter of her life. U guys are not on d same wavelength anymore...call sparingly. But I tink u shd probably move on ( single gals full everywia joor)

Use your discretion and don't call her for unnecessary talks or gists and not late at night too.
Respect the fact that she's married.Levels don change.Adapt.Be wise!!

Ephramed: I have a female friend we talk on phone like gud buddies but no intimate chatting.so recently she got married.but now to call, am kind of skeptical on when to call her and how long to stay on d phone with her.cos i dont want to call at d wrong time and cause problem,so pls i need advice on d best timing for calling,cos its been so long av not called her.

stop calling her, let her call you instead..... i won't even call a fellow man that just got married. she's in a new chapter in her life now, let her enjoy her new status. go and find another woman to discuss baba suwe's NDLEA saga with.

biolabee:

i feel you but she has moved on

Soon she will have a baby, nursing, parenting..
you can be friends tho and visit with ur girl friend

thanks.i will pray for her to take in fast,fast.but i will miss her though.

slimyem: Use your discretion and don't call her for unnecessary talks or gists and not late at night too.
Respect the fact that she's married.Levels don change.Adapt.Be wise!!

okay.advice noted.guess i will make and d call will jst be very brief.

coogar:

stop calling her, let her call you instead..... i won't even call a fellow man that just got married. she's in a new chapter in her life now, let her enjoy her new status. go and find another woman to discuss baba suwe's NDLEA saga with.

me and u know in Nigeria.it rarely happens,where woman call man.and married for that matter.but u are right,i will miss those unnecessary gist we talk about on phone.

Mr OP, pls leave the married woman alone, or u wan lash her punny?

lrguru: Mr OP, pls leave the married woman alone, or u wan lash her punny?

ar ha.i no lash am when we be friends,na now i go do am.na adultery be that woo.she be my gud padi.