I think a lot of ladies have a misconception about going out on a date with a guy.Personally I think a date is just what it is and doesn't mean both parties have made up their mind concerning each other.Sometimes we men can't make up our mind except we spend sometime with a lady, I have gone out on date with ladies before and never wish to see them again after the date.So ladies should stop getting so excited when asked for a date from a dude , its just the begining and it doesn't mean anything.

What do u expect when all the ladies think about is marriage , it is all about taking chances ...

Nope. A date is just to know dat lady better. If a lady turned down a date for no reason, she's indirectly expressing her insecurity and immaturity

solidbroda: Nope. A date is just to know dat lady better. If a lady turned down a date for no reason, she's indirectly expressing her insecurity and immaturity

so on point! how do i deal with insecure and immature girls, the thing don tire me o? I have met two girls in the past month am interested in, I know they have a thing for me at least that should lead to a date but for some reason I can see the insecurity everywhere.perhaps they think we are not gonna accept them for who they are?? How do I take away the insecury from ladies am interested in

nice4life:
so on point! how do i deal with insecure and immature girls, the thing don tire me o? I have met two girls in the past month am interested in, I know they have a thing for me at least that should lead to a date but for some reason I can see the insecurity everywhere.perhaps they think we are not gonna accept them for who they are?? How do I take away the insecury from ladies am interested in

so what is the reason for this?have u tried to ask urself dat question?

in Nigeria:yes
in Western country:no

Depends.

nice4life:
so on point! how do i deal with insecure and immature girls, the thing don tire me o? I have met two girls in the past month am interested in, I know they have a thing for me at least that should lead to a date but for some reason I can see the insecurity everywhere.perhaps they think we are not gonna accept them for who they are?? How do I take away the insecury from ladies am interested in

How're you approaching them? If you know they're insecure, then change your tactics.
If you're doing everything right, then don't worry about it. Not your prob.

No. ........neither does agreeing to a date mean I want anything to do with him

I just like free food and fun, especially if he's someone that can hold a good conversation

Mamacita007:

so what is the reason for this?have u tried to ask urself dat question?

check your inbox, am expecting your response. Thanks

solidbroda: Nope. A date is just to know dat lady better. If a lady turned down a date for no reason, she's indirectly expressing her insecurity and immaturity

NONSENSE!!!! there are many reasons why ladies turn down dates, but they simply cannot tell some guys directly, and thus wouldnt give the reason why. here is a clue: the guy ugly like monkey, he stinks, he is rude or arrogant etc.......any signs that would make the lady understands that she wants NOTHING to do with such caveman.

we all know that men and their misplaced ego wouldnt like it if a gal would say:" i dont want to go on a date with you because i would be ashamed to be seen with an ape looking man like you"...... so let us all be real!

Shollypopz: No. ........neither does agreeing to a date mean I want anything to do with him

I just like free food and fun, especially if he's someone that can hold a good conversation

Seconded

@MrBrownJay, it seems u didn't put on ur glasses before reading my post? I said: "if a girl turned down a date without no reason"....

solidbroda: @MrBrownJay, it seems u didn't put on ur glasses before reading my post? I said: "if a girl turned down a date without no reason"....

sorry brownJay had to laff

solidbroda: @MrBrownJay, it seems u didn't put on ur glasses before reading my post? I said: "if a girl turned down a date without no reason"....

First, what you wrote above makes no English sense.

Second, you wrote if a girl refuse to date someone "without a reason", and i simply told you that many gals dont give reasons because MEN would not be able to take it....meaning just because they dont give reason, doesnt mean they dont HAVE a reason.

Third, i gave you example of the reasons that women may have that men would not be able to take.

Last but not least, you are certainly living in la la land if you think that you deserve a "good enough" reason for a lady to refuse to date someone.......what you should instead do is give a lady a GOOD ENOUGH REASON TO DATE YOU. if a gal tell you NO, thats all she needs to provide you with (if thats what she wants)

190: ^Brownie could u contact me on FB,
We need to talk - urgent sir

you changed your name so often on FB, i dont even know how to find you, lol!

@MrBrownJay, while you analysis makes slow sense, I wouldn't buy the idea that you wrote a whole article to buttress a point!
I would advice you open a blog and start posting your articles so you can make some $$ to pay some bills (I.e a good pair of glasses)

solidbroda: @MrBrownJay, while you analysis makes slow sense, I wouldn't buy the idea that you wrote a whole article to buttress a point!
I would advice you open a blog and start posting your articles so you can make some $$ to pay some bills (I.e a good pair of glasses)

some people dont understand good English, so a whole article need to be written for their slow mind to get the point.
again, dont take your state of mind for a generality........ making peanut money online is the least of many people's problems, but dont let that stop you from trying to make a living off peanuts, lol.

*Yawn*.. Tell me u want to lick my an*us. U tasty? hungry gay!

Dondav:
You kinda sound like @Sexkillz

pleazzzz! Tufiapa!!! Spit on the ground!

solidbroda: *Yawn*.. Tell me u want to lick my an*us. U tasty? hungry gay!

i am sorry if what i wrote hit home like a bullet train and hurt your feelings........ but dont despair, hopefully my words will help you raise your obviously very low standards.

MRbrownJAY:

i am sorry if what i wrote hit home like a bullet train and hurt your feelings........ but dont despair, hopefully my words will help you raise your obviously very low standards.

what actually did you write? Cos I can't find any. Are u giving yourself a point? Huh? U are like a student marking his own exam script. Obviously, its an evidence of ur dumbness, which is kinda genetic in nature. Since genetic problems need special care, I would suggest u seek spiritual anointing and miracle from ur pastor, since ur financial capability to fly u abroad is next to zero.. And since even your Makoko house (though, demolished) cannot even buy a lantern if sold), ur pastor can deliver u. Expect a miracle

solidbroda: @MrBrownJay, while you analysis makes slow sense, I wouldn't buy the idea that you wrote a whole article to buttress a point!
I would advice you open a blog and start posting your articles so you can make some $$ to pay some bills (I.e a good pair of glasses)

solidbroda: what actually did you write? Cos I can't find any. Are u giving yourself a point? Huh? U are like a student marking his own exam script. Obviously, its an evidence of ur dumbness, which is kinda genetic in nature. Since genetic problems need special care, I would suggest u seek spiritual anointing and miracle from ur pastor, since ur financial capability to fly u abroad is next to zero.. And since even your Makoko house (though, demolished) cannot even buy a lantern if sold), ur pastor can deliver u. Expect a miracle

is it me or you seem to have a fixation with poverty and money.......this is a clear clue that you may have difficulties in your own life, and thus using the internet to make you feel better about your not so great life. i hope you find the happiness and fortunes that you seek, but pls dont get upset because of me, save your megabytes for some money making schemes.

here is your MBJ education and "analysis" for the day: i can clearly see from your FB photos that life has not been easy for you. i also can understand that your BS Forever Living and aloe vera business didnt work so well for you (how could it, it IS a pyramid scheme) but pls dont take your anger about your misfortunes on others, and instead look within yourself to try to find peace. i will pray for you tonight, and ask baba God to send you the riches that you have been searching/dreaming about.....and hopefully someday you will have the possibility to buy the Bugatti Veyron that you've placarded on your FB wall. until then Dapo, i wish you good luck.

MRbrownJAY:

is it me or you seem to have a fixation with poverty and money.......this is a clear clue that you may have difficulties in your own life, and thus using the internet to make you feel better about your not so great life. i hope you find the happiness and fortunes that you seek, but pls dont get upset because of me, save your megabytes for some money making schemes.

here is your MBJ education and "analysis" for the day: i can clearly see from your FB photos that life has not been easy for you. i also can understand that your BS Forever Living and aloe vera business didnt work so well for you (how could it, it IS a pyramid scheme) but pls dont take your anger about your misfortunes on others, and instead look within yourself to try to find peace. i will pray for you tonight, and ask baba God to send you the riches that you have been searching/dreaming about.....and hopefully someday you will have the possibility to buy the Bugatti Veyron that you've placarded on your FB wall. until then Dapo, i wish you good luck.

what, my fb photo.. So u took all d time to search all for me. Hahahahahahahahaha. D tin pain u die inside bone. Jobless ni*ger. Tnx for making me a celeb in your own head. *dancing alingo*

MRbrownJAY:

is it me or you seem to have a fixation with poverty and money.......this is a clear clue that you may have difficulties in your own life, and thus using the internet to make you feel better about your not so great life. i hope you find the happiness and fortunes that you seek, but pls dont get upset because of me, save your megabytes for some money making schemes.

here is your MBJ education and "analysis" for the day: i can clearly see from your FB photos that life has not been easy for you. i also can understand that your BS Forever Living and aloe vera business didnt work so well for you (how could it, it IS a pyramid scheme) but pls dont take your anger about your misfortunes on others, and instead look within yourself to try to find peace. i will pray for you tonight, and ask baba God to send you the riches that you have been searching/dreaming about.....and hopefully someday you will have the possibility to buy the Bugatti Veyron that you've placarded on your FB wall. until then Dapo, i wish you good luck.

what, my fb photo.. So u took all d time to search all for me. Hahahahahahahahaha. D tin pain u die inside bone. Jobless ni*ger. Tnx for making me a celeb in your own head. *dancing alingo* u can send a request. I might consider accepting u.

Pray to God for riches or work for riches. I know u are one of those deluded church hood rats seeking money through prayer. Let me lecture you: solomon asked for wisdom and not riches, samson was given strength and not riches, david was given favour and not riches. As you can see, when wisdom, or strength, or favour comes from God, every other earthly thing will follow. Money is a material thing and I am not swayed by it.
Now, your mind which has been fined tuned for hell is already burning while you are still alive. I can still advice you, if you need a heaven on earth, subscribe to one of Chris Ohyakilome's guards or Oyedepo security escorts. I head those guys are so rich, while you clean the tires of their planes, maybe they will give you more money.
More grease to your elbow as I wish you all the best

solidbroda: Nope. A date is just to know dat lady better. If a lady turned down a date for no reason, she's indirectly expressing her insecurity and immaturity

nonsense!!!
u think every lady is less-busy?
So going to date with all dickz and harry makes u mature?
What if d lady doesn't even like u in the first place? She shld jes honour ur invitation for a date jes to prove what point exactly?
Some ladys are too matured to get pulled into d pranks of civilisation!
We all knw wot a date alwys wanna turn out to be evem wen u wanna sound otherwise.
A girl goes out with u on a clear mind the first second and third time. The next will be u hammering it in her ears how u can't do anything but think of her,
'Oh, i didn't plan to fall for u but it all happens' and all shitz!
May i ask u, why do wanna go on a date wit a lady in the first place, if not it being a first step to something else?

SLIDE waxie: nonsense!!!
u think every lady is less-busy?
So going to date with all dickz and harry makes u mature?
What if d lady doesn't even like u in the first place? She shld jes honour ur invitation for a date jes to prove what point exactly?
Some ladys are too matured to get pulled into d pranks of civilisation!
We all knw wot a date alwys wanna turn out to be evem wen u wanna sound otherwise.
A girl goes out with u on a clear mind the first second and third time. The next will be u hammering it in her ears how u can't do anything but think of her,
'Oh, i didn't plan to fall for u but it all happens' and all shitz!
May i ask u, why do wanna go on a date wit a lady in the first place, if not it being a first step to something else?

common sense, is a rarity, reasons could be like 1. I don't wanna go on a date with too many guys.
2. I don't wanna go on a date with anoda guy so that people won't think I'm a hoe. Etc. Different reasons nah.

Abi brownjay sent you to me? Cos I tink both of you are thinking from the same calabash in your village.

^^Network busy dude, try again later