1.NEVER criticize or belittle your husband in public.A husband's ego is fragile and being critical of him in public or to your girlfrieds is crushing.

2..NEVER withold sex from your husband as punishment for something he has done.

3.NEVER put your relationship with your children above your relationship with your husband.Don't stop being a mother,but just don't make your children more important than your husband.Only two of you started the jouney,so that movement as at the beginning should continue.

4.NEVER forget to regurlarly brag of your spouse.Men are like children.they are motivated by praise.You cannot do it so often,but sometimes tell him how nice he looks,what a good dad he is,what a a good provider he is,how much still he still turns you on,etc..Simply be his cheerleader..

5..NEVER view meeting your husband's needs sexually as a house chore,but as a priority.Whethe­r you are having sex five times a week or five times a year,.....be happy doing it.A healthy sexual relationship with your spouse is a sign of a healthy marriage.....So­ strive to make your sex life stable and sizzle.

6.NEVER use the silent treatment.The silent treatment is an immature and horribly unhealthy way of communicating that something is wrong,just share yoUr heart.

7.NEVER expect your husband to read your mind or to know what's wrong with you,ladies,I have said it once,and I will say it a million times,you CANNOT connect the dots close enought for us men to catch on to what you are thinking.Just spell it out$Dropping hints and expecting us husbands to know what you are thinking,will only lead to MORE frustrations.Si­mply tell us what is in your mind nomatter how bitter it might be.It help to restrtegise our ways.Remember,y­ou as the wife is our special adviser not the outside advicer.Because­ any wrong move from us affect the whole family.Don't keep quiet please.

8.NEVER underestimates the importance of doing things your husband likes to do.Be your husbands best friend and spend time doing things he likes to do.Take interest in some of his hobbies.Some of the best memories you can make together are when you are spending together.

.9.NEVER take for granted your physical appearance.Ever­yone knows that men are are visually stimulated,so dress sexy with the goal of pleasing him.Am not saying you have to be a trophy wife,but do the best with what you have.Face cream,rollers in your hair and an old pink towel round you in the room so as to see you.Don't allow your husband to start admiring a lady outside because you have become a grandma at home.He want to see the woman that attract hin during courting not a grandma in you because you are now married.Its now time to work more on your beauty than before.Be kinky for him please.

.10.NEVER. Forget to be limitless in your forgiveness.Hus­bands can make a lot of mistakes with the best of them often and often..So always be willing to forgive.

WIVES:You may or may not agree with everything,but it is good to look at them,digest

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