I met dis guy 2011,we were best of friends n then he ask me out wich I accepted.he came 2 my school n we made out.later found in 2weeks dat I was pregnant n i cal him,he said he doesn't ve d moni 2 take care of a child nw dat I shud go 4 DnC wich I did. Nw he is usin d excuse Dat his family dot want him 2 marry oda tribe oda dan isoko or urhobo.pls I nid ur candid advice though am we ain't Seein much.

Ur heading looks like u willing to undergo more abortions for him and he's saying no...

cut ur losses and move on. he doesnt seem interested anymore

You should be happy you didn't have to go through three abortions first before he told you this. So which kain advice you want now? That he must marry you because of the abortion, girl just move on and be wiser next time.


Abeg use protection and if you don't care for infections there's postinor 2 abeg so incase you date anymore loosers, you don't have to abort before they cut you loose.

[quote author=nekaa]Ur heading looks like u willing to undergo more abortions for him and he's saying no...[Ow,cos I dot undastand wat U̶̲̥̅̊ meant by 'n he is sayin no/quote]

repogirl: You should be happy you didn't have to go through three abortions first before he told you this. So which kain advice you want now? That he must marry you because of the abortion, girl just move on and be wiser next time.


Abeg use protection and if you don't care for infections there's postinor 2 abeg so incase you date anymore loosers, you don't have to abort before they cut you loose.

@ repogirl tanks very much 4 d advice

I did not know condoms are that expensive. You exposed yourself to a lot of risks m'am. But it has happened, what you can do now is move on.

You cannot force him to marry you as he is under no obligation to. You can only learn from this and get on with your life

@op, I like your kind. Once bitten, twice bitten, twice bitten and not learned from it.

You should move on. There are more handsome men out there.

He is no more into you , move on and be wiser next time ..

How did u knw he was using an d tribe as an excuse?
How will u conclude dt because u had an abortion he didn't wanna continue?
The abortion was for both of u. u were in school, u wldnt av wanted a child then.
Besides, are girls dt stup!d these dayz?

hmmmm! Medicine after death

Are you implying that you having had an abortion makes him owe you a marriage? Or how is your abortion in the past related to the fact that he doesn't want to be with you now?

repogirl:
Abeg use protection and if you don't care for infections there's postinor 2 abeg

There're chances that the use of postinor could cause damages to your womb later in life. Abstinence most times is the best.

@op what advice do you want again, its written clearly that he already got what he wanted from you so move on with zip up next time.

go for an hiv test,that guy must have been sleeping with women without been protected .i am sure u are not the only one he was sleeping with without any protection.may God help u oooo.use condom

Peach45: I met dis guy 2011,we were best of friends n then he ask me out wich I accepted.he came 2 my school n we made out.later found in 2weeks dat I was pregnant n i cal him,he said he doesn't ve d moni 2 take care of a child nw dat I shud go 4 DnC wich I did. Nw he is usin d excuse Dat his family dot want him 2 marry oda tribe oda dan isoko or urhobo.pls I nid ur candid advice though am we ain't Seein much.

Which one is candid advice again? The guy has chopped and clean mouth. Move on

hw much is condom 50naira, he don chop u run

=nne3870]
There're chances that the use of postinor could cause damages to your womb later in life. Abstinence most times is the best.

@op what advice do you want again, its written clearly that he already got what he wanted from you so move on with zip up next time.[/quote]

Postinior 2 is safe, tested and trusted.
http://www.newvision.co.ug/news/631479-can-postinor-2-cause-infertility.html

Don't endanger your life. Say no to abortion. When will females learn

Bingo Lee:



...sweery dont worry...BEST ADVISE: LETS PUNISH HIM....let me sleep wit u..puliesse!...u light skin/half cast or white?

Mr Cork!!!

pheyikemi: Mr Cork!!!

..sssSSSSHHHH..keeep quite. NO ONE ASK U!!

Bingo Lee:


..sssSSSSHHHH..keeep quite. NO ONE ASK U!!

I'm not answering any question. Was I?

pheyikemi: I'm not answering any question. Was I?

..ok then, i owe u a kiss!!

Divorce & breakup are most times better options to happiness. Pick up ur pieces n start afresh.
"happiness" is d key here.

Bingo Lee:



..ok then, i owe u a kiss!!

oh yeah? Well, u don't cos I'm black

Luk at u. U're so dumb like saying u did an abortion for him. Is it a favour u did for him or what. You got preg and he doesn't want u again. Girls shud learn to have more sense because when situation of preg cmes now it is them that suffer for it the most. Come to think of it, it's women that mostly dnt want to use protection from my experience

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Exponental: Divorce & breakup are most times better options to happiness. Pick up ur pieces n start afresh.
"happiness" is d key here.

tanks veri much

Move on and be wiser next time.all the best

SMH...wen will gals learn its a pity

The guy is under no obligation to marry you simply because you had an abortion for him (even if you had 500). Both of you had s#ex and enjoyed it. He didn't point a gun at your head. So pls leave story and move on with your life. You made a mistake, learn from it.

You are not even "sad" you had an abortion, you are sad he left you. Gosh! Pick up the pieces and move on!

Look at the risk you've gone through in this modern age! What if you had died during the process of the D and C, I can't believe some girls can be this stupid. Girl move on with your life and learn a lesson from this cause the guy can walk away if he want to.