Yess! After a successful/terrible moments in past relationships.and now wanna settle. Here is wat I ve learnt n can say bout dating. No one can b a better teacher dan experience so I don't rily fil a copy and paste from articles has tot me a tin. I will say it freely as it comes to ma head so this might look scattered. Am not a writer. why I like gals is, wen a relationship is new, der is notin u wunt hear her say. She might quote somtin like "som1 who trully loves u see wat mess u can be,how moody u can get n how difficult u can b to handle bit wuld still want u and find u absolutely amazing". Yess a nice quote dat looks right but its a total trash, ask me y. How many relattionships has she had b4 den? Didn't she upload sweet tins like dat b4 or similar tins like dat? Guys just study a lady n come with d gud guy nature to win ur h♡̷̴̬̩̃̊t n can even go as far as refusing to sleep wit u for sometime n u will b like "wow, dis dude does not even care bout sex",hahaha I laf in my tribe! His building the trust, simple. Dat was my approach. It did work for me till I resigned.wat I do now is sit n watch guys play same game probably wit a difrent style d gal has not seen. Gals would continue to b learners if de don't learn to disbelieve guys dat are too good to be true. Der is no perfect man so wen u meet one who is a complete gentleman from head to h♡̷̴̬̩̃̊t to toe, don't run but step up ur IQ n b sharp enuf to catch up wit his reasoning. Do it constructively though. Most teenagers like dramas in der relationship,so all de want in a relationship is d fun, fine,if ur lookin for a relationship, date a player,u ll ve much fun as all u will hear is d gud tins bout u and never d bad cos he wanna treat u like d queen u bliv u are. So its only wat u wanna hear he says to ve a taste of ur punany. Real players plan on getting der dividend in a long run n not in a short time so de can b so loving till d very end.he knows d gal would finally say,dis guy has tried n deserves all of me. Dats his plan n u fell a prey.
Wat bothers me again is, where did our mothers get der own characters? I see dat movies,listening to Rihanna music has spoilt n shaped our gals reasoning now. Yes u can listen n act on her lyrics but don't forget,u will get beaten by ur Chris brown at the end of it all. Girls now adays don't ve dat morals and don't learn from der mistakes. I see a lot of gals at clubs or staying out till 11pm. Its nice flexing but wat image re u givin to urself? Evry gal now has a high taste n wanna date a man dat is classy n take dat churchboy or less social dude as non soji bobo. Let's see wat u get at d end,am not sayin d churchy boy is good though. If ur previous guy came like Godsent and took u for who u were,did he not leave u d same way u are? Wat guarantee do u ve dat d next dude will not take u for who u are and dump u d same way u are? A man who trully wanna marry u will not take u for who u are. Bliv me. It will do u good changing ur bad sides dat re so obvious so he has less complains bout u and live wit dat comfortably. Even if he marries u d way u are out of Lọ̥♡̷̴̬̩̃̊ε̲̣̣̣̥, will he still take u d way u are 5years into the marriage? Dats more disastrous. Pick up ur attitude and poolish it and don't take d man who neva complains bout ur shitty attituda as an angel. He might only be a gud player. I look so innocent n gud but I ve broken hearts dan d raz guys. Step up ur reasoning n help urself but don't b too inquisitive. Do ur tin constructively. I hope dis helps those who ve lesser ideas or more bout dating. Thank you.