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VIVIAN: "Uncle"... that your bastard friend you referred me to for a job asked me to sleep with him, if I must get the job!"

UNCLE ALEX: "You are rather the biggest fool,...lazy idiot her uncle replied. You expect me to clap for you and go fight my friend for asking you for just a short time on your waist in return for 350k
monthly salary job, a car for ur official upkeep? How many jobs has your hopeless, useless lazy boyfriend
given you even after sleeping with you over a thousand times & over d years?"

A test case of morality & reality.

Who do you support in this case?
Uncle Alex or Vivian?

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what if the friend has epilepsy or AIDS.

i support Vivian!!!!
she should have answered her bastard uncle:" i choose to have sex with my BF because i love him, not to gain anything from it. i am not an ashi....i weep for aunty and all the men that must have fukced her (since sex is the new deal maker/breaker)"

Let us be factual here almost 95% of our girls will do it and the boyfriend will never find out

^^^ are you saying that 95% of Naija women are wh.ores, with no morals whatsoever? although many will fukc that man without any hesitation, i doubt 95% of the Naija women population would do so (pls think of your mother/sisters/cousins/aunts and whoever when answering such question).

as for the boyfriend not knowing about it, it is irrelevant to the fact that she is a who.re, and it should be more about HER looking at the who.re herself in the damn mirror every morning. why even try to look for a job when she can simply be a who.re as a full time way to make money?! makes no damn sense to me.

MRbrownJAY: ^^^ are you saying that 95% of Naija women are wh.ores, with no morals whatsoever? although many will fukc that man without any hesitation, i doubt 95% of the Naija women population would do so (pls think of your mother/sisters/cousins/aunts and whoever when answering such question).

as for the boyfriend not knowing about it, it is irrelevant to the fact that she is a who.re, and it should be more about HER looking at the who.re herself in the damn mirror every morning. why even try to look for a job when she can simply be a who.re as a full time way to make money?! makes no damn sense to me.

I said Girls not women and even though, as long as the women\girls are not married then i maintain that my percentage as correct.
Thank God you say "It SHOULD be about her looking at the Wh.oRe Herself in the mirror every morning" KEYword being "Should" because frankly in this real world, they don't. They will try and rationalise it to something mild that doesn't hurt them or jab their conscience when they think about it. They'd rather imagine how fine they look in the car and how their new expensive cream is working for them

^^ as much as you are making a lot of sense, that %age is just too dam high. have some faith in your 9ja sistas man, lol!

^^
I quite knw a handful of ladies who won't do it.
They are not saints, but immorality is not jes their way!

^^^dont you think that the problem is therefore the ladies you hang around, and not 9ja ladies? i suggest you find better ladies to hang around for fast improvements in your social acquaintances way of life!

Dude, can u read? Of course u can! So my question is, can u comprehend what u read?
Did i not say i knw some ladies who won't stoop low and fucck jes for favour?
Doesn't dt negates the assertion dt majority of naija ladies will do it?

MRbrownJAY: ^^ as much as you are making a lot of sense, that %age is just too dam high. have some faith in your 9ja sistas man, lol!

Niaja sisters my foot. one of my guys just put the percentage that naija girls are materialistic at 97% when i would have put it at 85%, i was so surprised because the guy has not seen anything And his views are not mormally as negative as mine, talkless of this mouth watering offer.

Sometimes i look at what these girls are capable of and all i can say is "these girls dem bad"

MRbrownJAY: ^^^dont you think that the problem is therefore the ladies you hang around, and not 9ja ladies? i suggest you find better ladies to hang around for fast improvements in your social acquaintances way of life!

The bolded is exactly what ladies say when you try to tell them this truth. funny enough all ladies think it's other ladies then who are actually the bad ladies
Have you not notice that whenever guys meet, whether from different states, they always have sad tales about ladies> even check out nairaland for a small example

SLIDE waxie: Dude, can u read? Of course u can! So my question is, can u comprehend what u read?
Did i not say i knw some ladies who won't stoop low and fucck jes for favour?
Doesn't dt negates the assertion dt majority of naija ladies will do it?

i guess you are the one who doesnt understand English.......let me help you by trying to explain: if you only know a handful of ladies that wouldnt do what OP posted, then i am safe to say that you are only confirming what Wackyj1 is saying (unless of course you only know 30 adult women in your life)

WackyJ1: Niaja sisters my foot. one of my guys just put the percentage that naija girls are materialistic at 97% when i would have put it at 85%, i was so surprised because the guy has not seen anything And his views are not mormally as negative as mine, talkless of this mouth watering offer.

Sometimes i look at what these girls are capable of and all i can say is "these girls dem bad"

i wouldnt expect any less from your buddy, if you guys hang around the same women, chances are you would meet the same women thus having the same views about these ladies.

The bolded is exactly what ladies say when you try to tell them this truth. funny enough all ladies think it's other ladies then who are actually the bad ladies
Have you not notice that whenever guys meet, whether from different states, they always have sad tales about ladies> even check out nairaland for a small example

dont you think that the reason for these sad tales is simply that it would be boring to talk about a woman doing whats RIGHT and COMMON? and instead you guys need to talk about something that is ABNORMAL and STRANGE (and that doesnt happen everyday). if the bad things that these girls did was as common as you claim, then you wouldnt even talk about it (since thats what "supposedly" happen everywhere), or would you?

MRbrownJAY: i guess you are the one who doesnt understand English.......let me help you by trying to explain: if you only know a handful of ladies that wouldnt do what OP posted, then i am safe to say that you are only confirming what Wackyj1 is saying (unless of course you only know 30 adult women in your life)



i wouldnt expect any less from your buddy, if you guys hang around the same women, chances are you would meet the same women thus having the same views about these ladies.



dont you think that the reason for these sad tales is simply that it would be boring to talk about a woman doing whats RIGHT and COMMON? and instead you guys need to talk about something that is ABNORMAL and STRANGE (and that doesnt happen everyday). if the bad things that these girls did was as common as you claim, then you wouldnt even talk about it (since thats what "supposedly" happen everywhere), or would you?

There is a contradiction there, a girl doing what is RIGHT is not COMMON, we actually talk about it a lot when a guy comes up and can vouch well for a girl especially when the whole group would be against him and the we're amazed. we talk about the negative side because even though the women doing what is wrong is common, the ways in which they do it and the reasons they give is so different that we can't help but discuss how ABNORMAL or STRANGE this new reason is.

WackyJ1: There is a contradiction there, a girl doing what is RIGHT is not COMMON, we actually talk about it a lot when a guy comes up and can vouch well for a girl especially when the whole group would be against him and the we're amazed. we talk about the negative side because even though the women doing what is wrong is common, the ways in which they do it and the reasons they give is so different that we can't help but discuss how ABNORMAL or STRANGE this new reason is.

bro, you didnt understand me, and it is NOT a contradiction, let me try to make myself a little more clear:
we men dont talk day in and day out about something that is COMMON or an everyday thing, we talk about something out of the ordinary or interesting (unless you people are boring like that). so if a girl who is doing right is NOT common where you reside, then this is what you guys should be talking about and not the way around.......you feel me? so, i concluded very naturally that if you guys talk about girls doing atrocities around y'all then that means that it must not happen as often as you want to suggest (unless you guys are boring like that).

10 days later and it's just now i am seeing this... aarghhh

effisyman: what if the friend has epilepsy or AIDS.

Epilepsy isnt infectious.

What a dilemma @ op. The thing is, majority of ladies and some married women will bend for this. Out of the good ones, it is only those who are pressurized, frustrated and are getting choked by unemployment and monetary issues at the same time, have 85% chances in appearing vulnerable and can go for this offer. But they might revolt if the initmacy becomes a perpetual thing and not one off thing as the op stated above.

Go MBJ!!!!!!

Princess zoe: What a dilemma @ op. The thing is, majority of ladies and some married women will bend for this. Out of the good ones, it is only those who are pressurized, frustrated and are getting choked by unemployment and monetary issues at the same time, have 85% chances in appearing vulnerable and can go for this offer. But they might revolt if the initmacy becomes a perpetual thing and not one off thing as the op stated above.

Hmmm.....

So he gets her the job (after a hard nights bonking) so what. What happens when she needs a promotion and he feels he needs another night of passion? What about when things are tough and they are laying staff off? What about if she needs a pay rise after years of hard work? And this lady will be intending to marry a decent man and be a wife .

It is better to see these things for what they truly are. Even if it is a one-off affair, can any lady honestly say that this will not have a negative effect on them?

Also, as MBJ said, why dont they just go into hooking and make money directly?

Men dont show dignity or support to their women. Its okay for a man to leave his wife or get another one wen his wife wife is infertile, but is wrong for a woman to do the same. So a woman shud go wit out a means of living becos she wants to save punny for sum1 who might not marry her. Wen u make decisions remember the same man telling u is morally wrong to do this or that will not uphold the same morals wen he is pushed in the deep end. If a woman feels is okay to go with out a means of living in order to keep punny for sum1 who hasn't committed himself to her that's her own wahala

Also, she sleeps with the guy to get the job and continues sleeping to get to further her career. She eventually meets a decent man and gets married. Then what? Will she continue having illicit affairs to sustain her career even with a husband? If she stops sleeping with her boss, wouldnt that start to negatively impact her career? So why start something she cant finish?

Atheist i understand where you are coming from. Sexual immorality is very bad both in men and in women. Any intimacy done with a man or woman whom you are not married to, is bad and there is no tendency that the person will be faithful whatsoever. Whether you slept with your boss, boy friend, girl friend, all are the same . They are sexual immorality. I am confidently telling you that some of the ladies who started this way, did it as one off thing and their it ended. Their promotions were based on merits and appraisals. Their longevity in the organisations or companies depend on their attitude towards the companies and its clients. Am telling you what i know. This type of case happens all the time even some guys sleep with their female lectureres to graduate or pass their courses. Some guys sleep with their female bosses too, or even visit native doctors or sooth sayers (which is even demonic)to retain their jobs or get promoted. There is noting one can do to stop these things. It is left for you to know God and have His fear in you. My heart goes to the guys who wants to marry working class ladies. Definitely you don't know the extend she went to, in order to secure that job. Even some business ladies, do more of this things. And not only ladies are in this category, some men do too, and women that married such men are already half gone. That is why in this last days, for one to get a decent and faithful spouse, such a person must be decent and faithful too because you will only attract your likes. You might not know until after some years in marriage. The food for thought is have the fear of God, acknowlege Him always, have integrity, establish morals, be responsible and you will definitely meet your like , that is simply known as compatibility.

mizzocho.cinco:
Men dont show dignity or support to deir women. Is okay for a man to leave his wife or get anoda one wen his wife wife is infertile, but is wrong for a woman to do de same. So a woman shud go wiv out a means of living becos she wants to save punny for sum1 who might not marry her. Wen u make decisions remember de same man telling u is morally wrong to do dis or dat will not uphold de same morals wen he is pushed in de deep end. If a woman feels is okay to go wiv out a means of living in order to keep punny for sum1 who hasn't committed himself to her daz her own wahala

Princess zoe: Atheist i understand where you are coming from. Sexual immorality is very bad both in men and in women. Any intimacy done with a man or woman whom you are not married to, is bad and there is no tendency that the person will be faithful whatsoever. Whether you slept with your boss, boy friend, girl friend, all are the same . They are sexual immorality. I am confidently telling you that some of the ladies who started this way, did it as one off thing and their it ended. Their promotions were based on merits and appraisals. Their longevity in the organisations or companies depend on their attitude towards the companies and its clients. Am telling you what i know. This type of case happens all the time even some guys sleep with their female lectureres to graduate or pass their courses. Some guys sleep with their female bosses too, or even visit native doctors or sooth sayers (which is even demonic)to retain their jobs or get promoted. There is noting one can do to stop these things. It is left for you to know God and have His fear in you. My heart goes to the guys who wants to marry working class ladies. Definitely you don't know the extend she went to, in order to secure that job. Even some business ladies, do more of this things. And not only ladies are in this category, some men do too, and women that married such men are already half gone. That is why in this last days, for one to get a decent and faithful spouse, such a person must be decent and faithful too because you will only attract your likes. You might not know until after some years in marriage. The food for thought is have the fear of God, acknowlege Him always, have integrity, establish morals, be responsible and you will definitely meet your like , that is simply known as compatibility.

Sleeping with someone you fancy is different from sleeping with someone for merit. Think about it. The intent is what decides these things. There is a difference between a lady sleeping with her boyfriend and one who sleeps with her boss etc to further her career or one who sleeps with a cab driver to dodge paying a fare. Can you spot the difference between the first and the other two

Also, these career girls claim they only did it once... I can bet they probably had to do it a couple more times through their career. They were just discreet about it.

mizzocho.cinco:
Men dont show dignity or support to deir women. Is okay for a man to leave his wife or get anoda one wen his wife wife is infertile, but is wrong for a woman to do de same. So a woman shud go wiv out a means of living becos she wants to save punny for sum1 who might not marry her. Wen u make decisions remember de same man telling u is morally wrong to do dis or dat will not uphold de same morals wen he is pushed in de deep end. If a woman feels is okay to go wiv out a means of living in order to keep punny for sum1 who hasn't committed himself to her daz her own wahala

So why do it for a career? If her punny has financial value as you allude to, why not just go into fulltime prostitution and do it the way it is meant to be done? Can a career LovePeddler claim to be any better than a street walker? And this career LovePeddler will expect to get the best of men.

Atheist:-D:
So why do it for a career? If her punny has financial value as you allude to, why not just go into fulltime prostitution and do it the way it is meant to be done? Can a career LovePeddler claim to be any better than a street walker? And this career LovePeddler will expect to get the best of men.

her morality is questioned, wat abt the person offering sexxual favoritism wat do u have to say abt him?