You fight dirty

Arguing is a way that couples communicate, Hopefully, you both have the tools to be able to express your differing points of view and move on. If fights cause blowups that last for days, that’s not going to fly, unless drama is what drew you together in the first place, no one can take this level of drama for too long.

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