You are a downer

It’s hard to be in a relationship with someone who’s not happy with herself. If you’re always negative or in a bad mood, no matter how good the sex or your cooking is, he won’t want to spend time with you.

No one wants to be with a Negative Nancy or a Moody Mandy.Particularly, if your partner is positive and optimistic, he’s likely going to want to be with someone who sees things on the bright side and acts this way, too.

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