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| Re: My Boyfriend Avoids My Cooking by Nobody: 7:49pm On Apr 21, 2008 |
@ poster, maybe the type of maggi u are using may contribute to this, are u the 'white maggi' user type? if u are, then that might be the problem, some people are not use to eating food that contains white maggi, like V***N, A******TO, u should understand what am saying. |
| Re: My Boyfriend Avoids My Cooking by chioya(f): 7:50pm On Apr 21, 2008 |
sorry |
| Re: My Boyfriend Avoids My Cooking by Sholeyb: 7:58pm On Apr 21, 2008 |
My advice is to speak to him about it. Ask for his reasons and choose your words carefully, do not be aggressive or confrontational. Say things like "I'd like to practice my newly acquired cooking skills on you but they seem to be going to waste" and jokingly add that you would taste the food before he does. If you end up marrying this chap, u would ave to cook for him so this is something that needs to be resolved. On the other hand, if it is not so important for you to cook for your man, let sleeping dogs lie, but make sure u get to know him well as someone commented about some people in cults, do not eat food cooked by women. I am not asserting anything just picking up from an earlier comment. I don't know how long u've known each other, if recently please give it some time. |
| Re: My Boyfriend Avoids My Cooking by Didicee: 10:02pm On Apr 21, 2008 |
Well, i would say there are different dimensions to this. It could be one of what everybody else has said.But since you say he doesn't also eat outside, then just maybe you are not a good enough cook for the guy. U know, guys like that are so used to doing their own thing that nothing or no-one is good enough for them. I once had a friend who was so good a cook that he was known among our friendly circles. I tried to impress him with my cooking(which i think and i've been told is very good) until another friend of ours told me that after the guy ate my food, all he could say, (of course behind my back ) was "she try, but she no reach me". |
| Re: My Boyfriend Avoids My Cooking by spoilt(f): 12:25am On Apr 22, 2008 |
When you go to see him, dont eat his food. Tell him it wont be as nice as you like it to be. |
| Re: My Boyfriend Avoids My Cooking by TCUBE(m): 2:20am On Apr 22, 2008 |
harsh but true, your food sucks! |
| Re: My Boyfriend Avoids My Cooking by ima1(f): 6:14am On Apr 22, 2008 |
he might be scared. cuz you know how women wash toto put for them guy food. just to hook them |
| Re: My Boyfriend Avoids My Cooking by Scopium: 7:37am On Apr 22, 2008 |
ima1: [size=13pt]WTF!   [/size] |
| Re: My Boyfriend Avoids My Cooking by outlaws(m): 7:56am On Apr 22, 2008 |
 Hey poster:Who wants to get hurt these days? Not every one can afford it |
| Re: My Boyfriend Avoids My Cooking by Nobody: 8:05am On Apr 22, 2008 |
If you are so much interested in this cooking thing, why not get a job at pizza hut or Kenny roasters? If he doesn't eat your food then do not cook for him. Some of us come here to this forum to relax and not to turn ourselves to idiots. We ain't all teenagers here. Next time boil water for am. |
| Re: My Boyfriend Avoids My Cooking by babyx(f): 9:00am On Apr 22, 2008 |
nairaland chicks, ur guy dont eat ur food or avoids ur cookin? well that goes to show u cant cook, lets not pretend we are Africans for crying out loud, our culture says a woman should know how to cook, decent meals, u dont hv to be a chef, 9ja women who live american lives with their 9ja men will experience a downside in their relationships especially if that black man finds he can get that elsewhere, so learn how to cook, not just for a man but for urself, it will boost ur confidence as a complete woman, a complete black woman,  |
| Re: My Boyfriend Avoids My Cooking by RealMan3(m): 9:28am On Apr 22, 2008 |
The thing is very clear. THE GUY IS SCARED THAT YOU WILL PUT A LOVE PORTION IN THE FOOD.  There is no two way about that. It is a pity of him to think something like that.  |
| Re: My Boyfriend Avoids My Cooking by Rhea(f): 9:40am On Apr 22, 2008 |
It's either he doesn't like your cooking and doesn't have the guts to tell you; Or he's scared you'll add some cognomi (I hope I got the spelling right) inside his food. Tell him to his face that this is what you think, and watch him wriggle out with some other excuse |
| Re: My Boyfriend Avoids My Cooking by Scopium: 10:54am On Apr 22, 2008 |
Real Man: [size=13pt]He's just being cautious  [/size] |
| Re: My Boyfriend Avoids My Cooking by iz2much: 10:55am On Apr 22, 2008 |
Bad Food!!!! |
| Re: My Boyfriend Avoids My Cooking by amaechijay: 11:20am On Apr 22, 2008 |
l have a friend it happened to and recently the guy gave her the boots after she tried to sit him down and have them figure out what the matter was. It might be a sign that he isn't going ahead but didn't know how to go about it. Maybe the guy has his reservations about the whole thing and will soon bolt out, so be on your guard and fence your heart to receive the "bomb" A word is enough for the wise , . |
| Re: My Boyfriend Avoids My Cooking by ritapearl(f): 1:17pm On Apr 22, 2008 |
How long have you two dated? I think he is not close to you and he is not ready to have any serious relationship with you. Why bother yourself? |
| Re: My Boyfriend Avoids My Cooking by spicyv1(f): 1:55pm On Apr 22, 2008 |
[i] I Never cook for my Boyfriend whenever he comes to my place cause I know he comes to have Sex with me and nothing else, full stop.[/i] So wats ur point exactly, u want nairalanders to know that ur nothing but a tool used in satisfying someones sexual desires? i don't get it. Please go get a life n try to make meaningful contributions next time. |
| Re: My Boyfriend Avoids My Cooking by spicyv1(f): 2:06pm On Apr 22, 2008 |
There are certain occult male groups that do not eat food cooked by women; because it either violates their oath or deceases their powers. Spiritual things are deep my friend. I wouldn't know whether your boyfriend belongs to one but if he does, he will probably never eat your food no matter how good a cook you are. Shine your eye girl! Shocked Shocked Shocked And don't ever confront him on this.[color=#000099][/color][/i] NA wa!nairaland! wat wont i hear?  |
| Re: My Boyfriend Avoids My Cooking by eudio(f): 2:32pm On Apr 22, 2008 |
if he doesnt trust u enough to cook his meal, no wahala. tell am to always branch munchies, tasty fried etc whenever he is visiting u. that makes ur life easy. shikina why bother ur self? |
| Re: My Boyfriend Avoids My Cooking by eudio(f): 2:34pm On Apr 22, 2008 |
wait oh, na by force to cook for am sef? abi na food u come cook for man for lagos? abeg blank scope |
| Re: My Boyfriend Avoids My Cooking by Abbeycity4(f): 3:49pm On Apr 22, 2008 |
nobilia:  lol na d same thing na, no bi woman still boil d water? u're funny@poster Stp bordring urself, u shld b happy nw it seems he does'nt want to give u prob or (strees) u. that's y he love doing d cooking by himself, if i where u, i'll really love it in that way (no wahala) |
| Re: My Boyfriend Avoids My Cooking by Abbeycity4(f): 3:58pm On Apr 22, 2008 |
eudio: reality |
| Re: My Boyfriend Avoids My Cooking by Nobody: 4:30pm On Apr 22, 2008 |
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| Re: My Boyfriend Avoids My Cooking by donchigo1: 5:32pm On Apr 22, 2008 |
Hello. Sister is a pity, that the guy man whom you called your boyfriend is not eating your food. well take heart . the young want to devoid himself of food poison, But come to think of it . the first date you had what do you prepare for him. who knows, just check your cooking, |
| Re: My Boyfriend Avoids My Cooking by Akpeno: 8:03pm On Apr 22, 2008 |
I Never cook for my Boyfriend whenever he comes to my place Ah! That's not a boyfriend that's a walking talking Love Machine!   |
| Re: My Boyfriend Avoids My Cooking by Echidime(m): 8:10pm On Apr 22, 2008 |
he does not TRUST you, he think you will put JASS into his food so as to force him marry you and later control his life for him, is simple. I want mine to cook for me but she refuse saying she has no time. What a funny WORLD? |
| Re: My Boyfriend Avoids My Cooking by TheSly: 8:16pm On Apr 22, 2008 |
How long have u been together here and there. . . . . . .Address the damn issue and you lot are asking the same ?? ---------->Poster The dude is just being cautious. . . . . He thought that he would end up washing undies later on. . . . . .Blame it on too much Nollywood movies |
| Re: My Boyfriend Avoids My Cooking by kjott(f): 8:50pm On Apr 22, 2008 |
amaechijay: True talk!at last someone is saying something different.The guy probably dosent want you to owe him to anythin wen hes leavin.like some ladies will Say ''afta all i did for u''.For where?d guy wake up no be small. |
| Re: My Boyfriend Avoids My Cooking by bawomolo(m): 8:54pm On Apr 22, 2008 |
he might be scared. because you know how women wash toto put for them guy food. just to hook them wow wow |
| Re: My Boyfriend Avoids My Cooking by TCUBE(m): 9:43pm On Apr 22, 2008 |
I sometimes wonder why people bring their problems here hoping to get sane answers, most people in here just post stupid and senseless stuff, U better talk to a friend or sister cos these people aint got nothing good to offer, |
| Re: My Boyfriend Avoids My Cooking by Busta(f): 9:47pm On Apr 22, 2008 |
TCUBE: My sentiments exactly. some pple got no brains and think with their a**es |
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