Sapphire86: My dear sexkillz don talk am o!!!

If u r nt ready 2 give up d cookie, don't!!
I can't tell u d number of guys I ve lost bcuz I REFUSED 2 give up d cookie.
Yea its going suck, but until u get 2 a point when u can confidently answer this Q 'me or him?' U r going keep posting threads lyk dis or maybe even take a wrong decision.

And b4 u ask, I'm NOT Team Onila so let no man trouble me!!! I just believe sex is nt a forceful thing


190: hmmmm, I tire 4 u!!!!

thank you

from your post it shows you are not ready for sex! and that's fair enough
my advice to you is. for the mean time...
*i mean untill wen you are ready*
... get busy doing something productive. get a job, learn a trade,take a new challenge, start doing something that will bring money into your pocket. that way you won't depend on any man for anything. and consequently no man will pressurize you for sex because he gave you XYZ. if you can just get busy it will take you mind off him. untill you are matured enough to peruse your decision again.
forget about love for now. trust me you have no idea who Mr right will eventually be. let him go if he want to. we guys at dat age our hormones are misfiring. he's probably looking for where to ease is loins, don't blame him.

yomexp: from your post it shows you are not ready for sex! and that's fair enough
my advice to you is. for the mean time...
*i mean untill wen you are ready*
... get busy doing something productive. get a job, learn a trade,take a new challenge, start doing something that will bring money into your pocket. that way you won't depend on any man for anything. and consequently no man will pressurize you for sex because he gave you XYZ. if you can just get busy it will take you mind off him. untill you are matured enough to peruse your decision again.
forget about love for now. trust me you have no idea who Mr right will eventually be. let him go if he want to. we guys at dat age our hormones are misfiring. he's probably looking for where to ease is loins, don't blame him.

thank u

Jhulyan: can't someone have a perfect and problem free relationship without s e x?

Yea sure! You can! But, the only thing that would make it work is if the both of you have like-minds. Like-minds in the sense that, you both crave for the same thing outta the relationship.

The thing is, from what you brought to the fore, it can be deduced that the problem to your relationship with that guy is as a direct result of you not giving in to sex. To be sincere with you, there is definitely nothing on earth you can do to salvage the situation unless you are ready to give in. Other than that, you guys will keep having problems and all.

My advice for you is know what you really want and what you can't or won't tolerate for whatever reason. If you know you don't really want sex, spell everything out to him and if he agrees to your terms and conditions, then you guys are good to go. But if he doesn't, then it's time to want out of that relationship.

Meanwhile, what makes you more of the person you are is the ability to make a decision and stand by it come what may. If you have really decided not to give in to sex as a result of you taking a vow of celibacy or for what ever reason, then you must be ready for the aftermath by taking the bull by the forelock.

I just hope you see right through me.

Jhulyan: nothing really, am just scared things might change after it.i just need some time

It's your body and it's your choice but you are among those wicked girls that keep guys in the friendzone. If you are not gonna have xes with a guy tell him from the beginning not raising his hopes and leading him on.

Jhulyan: what are those ways pls?

- HAND JOB: use some lotion and let that man guide you on how gentle you should be with his tool, and how fast or slow you should "play" with it. believe me, after the nut has been busted, that man will even forget about sex and sleep like a newborn baby!

- BODY JOB: also known as "dry humping", this one is just about getting nekkid and let your body rub against his till sparks come out. this one may be dangerous as you may slip and lose your precious cargo by accident.

- TITTAY JOB: this one requires that you have fairly big size bre.ast, in order to provide ultimate pleasure. simply place his tools in the middle and warm it up with your attributes. you may double it up with some mouth play, explosion GUARANTEED!

- BLO.W JOB: this one needs no introduction, just lick that tool like as if it was the best ice cream you have ever tasted, till there is no more chocolate. again, that man will doze off like a baby after speaking in tongue.

- BACKDOOR JOB: this one is for the pros and dedicated damzel out there who want to remain virgin but equally want to please their men fully. a lot of lube is needed and it is painful at first but the pleasure can be quite intense.

choose wisely and good luck!

PS Seun/mods, this is not a discussion about love making but a "romantic approach" on how this lady should keep her man......i am only trying to help in this difficult situation that this gal finds herself into. i am sure you will understand, lol!

OP, after keeping yourself for the right time, don't come back here and tell us "please advise: i cheated on my bf and it was a mistake. I didn't know what came over me" bla bla bla bla..
Don't go into any serious r/ship with a guy if you are not ready for xes.

Sapphire86: My dear sexkillz don talk am o!!!

If u r nt ready 2 give up d cookie, don't!!
I can't tell u d number of guys I ve lost bcuz I REFUSED 2 give up d cookie.
Yea its going 2 suck, but until u get 2 a point when u can confidently answer this Q 'me or him?' U r going 2 keep posting threads lyk dis or maybe even take a wrong decision.

And b4 u ask, I'm NOT Team Onila so let no man trouble me!!! I just believe sex is nt a forceful thing


190: hmmmm, I tire 4 u!!!!

Cookie!!
Hmm!!! You make me hungry when you say it like that, can you give it to me?

Hmmm!.. Mr. BrownJaY
you seems 2b an expert in ds aspect.
Pls, i nid clarificatn.
The Backdoor Job that requies enuff lube..is it erm..thru d a.r.s.e?

^^^ yes it is!

MRbrownJAY: ^^^ yes it is!

And you recommend it for virgins?.. Does that stil makes dem a virgin?
This one is really a hard nut 2chew o!

dmcdad:
Yea sure! You can! But, the only thing that would make it work is if the both of you have like-minds. Like-minds in the sense that, you both crave for the same thing outta the relationship.

The thing is, from what you brought to the fore, it can be deduced that the problem to your relationship with that guy is as a direct result of you not giving in to sex. To be sincere with you, there is definitely nothing on earth you can do to salvage the situation unless you are ready to give in. Other than that, you guys will keep having problems and all.

My advice for you is know what you really want and what you can't or won't tolerate for whatever reason. If you know you don't really want sex, spell everything out to him and if he agrees to your terms and conditions, then you guys are good to go. But if he doesn't, then it's time to want out of that relationship.

Meanwhile, what makes you more of the person you are is the ability to make a decision and stand by it come what may. If you have really decided not to give in to sex as a result of you taking a vow of celibacy or for what ever reason, then you must be ready for the aftermath by taking the bull by the forelock.

I just hope you see right through me.

thank you dear

MRbrownJAY:

- HAND JOB: use some lotion and let that man guide you on how gentle you should be with his tool, and how fast or slow you should "play" with it. believe me, after the nut has been busted, that man will even forget about sex and sleep like a newborn baby!

- BODY JOB: also known as "dry humping", this one is just about getting nekkid and let your body rub against his till sparks come out. this one may be dangerous as you may slip and lose your precious cargo by accident.

- TITTAY JOB: this one requires that you have fairly big size bre.ast, in order to provide ultimate pleasure. simply place his tools in the middle and warm it up with your attributes. you may double it up with some mouth play, explosion GUARANTEED!

- BLO.W JOB: this one needs no introduction, just lick that tool like as if it was the best ice cream you have ever tasted, till there is no more chocolate. again, that man will doze off like a baby after speaking in tongue.

- BACKDOOR JOB: this one is for the pros and dedicated damzel out there who want to remain virgin but equally want to please their men fully. a lot of lube is needed and it is painful at first but the pleasure can be quite intense.

choose wisely and good luck!

PS Seun/mods, this is not a discussion about love making but a "romantic approach" on how this lady should keep her man......i am only trying to help in this difficult situation that this gal finds herself into. i am sure you will understand, lol!

lol,u really killed it.

yomexp: from your post it shows you are not ready for sex! and that's fair enough
my advice to you is. for the mean time...
*i mean untill wen you are ready*
... get busy doing something productive. get a job, learn a trade,take a new challenge, start doing something that will bring money into your pocket. that way you won't depend on any man for anything. and consequently no man will pressurize you for sex because he gave you XYZ. if you can just get busy it will take you mind off him. untill you are matured enough to peruse your decision again.
forget about love for now. trust me you have no idea who Mr right will eventually be. let him go if he want to. we guys at dat age our hormones are misfiring. he's probably looking for where to ease is loins, don't blame him.

You've said it ALL yome. @ op, a word is enuff.....

sakaguchi:
Cookie!!
Hmm!!! You make me hungry when you say it like that, can you give it to me?

Sorry, d cookie don't come out of d cookie jar lyk dat!

Sapphire86:

Sorry, d cookie don't come out of d cookie jar lyk dat!

No it doesn't, I also share your believe of not being forced in handing over the COOKIE, but baby!, there is a clause we can work on there, Just try to answer the question
"YOU or ME?" By saying "ME" and bravo baby!! That way, the cookie will be on my paws and I will first of all EAT it with care before I have it»»»» I guess I can't have my COOKIE and eat it. Await your favourable response

^^^ Omo, this guy na Cookie Monster.

MRbrownJAY:
- HAND JOB:
- BODY JOB:
- TITTAY JOB:
- BLO.W JOB:
- BACKDOOR JOB:

@OP; Isn't there an age verification thingy that permits you to be on here? .... I don't know.

It's better you focus on your studies cos this advice would probably send you on a one way street to .....REDLIGHT DISTRICT

Gudiza: ^^^ Omo, this guy na Cookie Monster.



@OP; Isn't there an age verification thingy that permits you to be on here? .... I don't know.

It's better you focus on your studies cos this advice would probably send you on a one way street to .....

how old do u think i am?

Poster there so many positive and wonderful things such a young and beautiful lady such as u can do with ur life rather than allow vain relationship issues and a man rent a space in ur head and as such cloud ur mind from other more neccessary and important..rather than think abt such vain relationship with a guy that may not even marry u at d end and who may just sex u and leave u hurting and listening to adele album I advice u get out and do something wonderful with ur life