ahmmyreal: how ild ære u?

clockwise: @ OP, let me start by asking u y did u quit d relationship in d first place? Cos for every action there is a reason. For me, if u give him chance again, u might nt be lucky as u were when u guys just met, and the way he wil treat u nw wil be different frm the former. I can bet u during the time u guys departed, he is nw that days, months wiser. So giving him a chance is lyk saying, come nd reap d fruit of ur labour. and alwaz remember guys are nt trustworthy, though he might pretend, he only want to reap wat he has sow. hope dat helps?

priest2u: @op why did you quit the relationship? Its very important we know why? Do you have other suitors or u are just going back because you don't want to be single?

abishowzonyine:
I'm considering accepting him back cos i still love him. I never stopped loving him anyway.

ahmmyreal: OP.. why would u leave such a Guy för no reason? Wat more Do u wnt in a Guy than wat he has got? i believe there is more to dis story,.. that ur not telling. is it because of money?

priest2u:
are you ready for marriage now? is he ready ? or you guys want to continue the boyfriend/girlfriend things?purpose my dear, love is not enough.

Yield: You broke up with a good guy because you felt he wasn't the right man for you. Now you want to go back to him. Why, what're your reasons? He's the one who should be considering giving you another chance. Before you get back together, if you do, you need to come to terms with why you left him in the first place and make sure history doesn't repeat itself.

andromida: I am not sure you love this guy you are just afraid you will not meet someone this nice again.

abishowzonyine:
Lol.. Don't you think i would have gotten over him a long time ago if i don't? God knws i do, he knows it himself that i love him. And am not afraid i may not meet a nice guy again, am just afraid i may miss he that was made for me cos of one bad nd foolish decision i made.
For every good man i believe there's always a better one.

sexkillz: This is a fact, but it could also be your undoing.

For every beautiful lady, there's always one more beautiful than she is. For every good man, there is always a better man. So for how long do you think you'll keep looking for the better man? If you believe you have found a better man, there is another man better than he is, so will you dump the one you thought was previously better, and jump to the New "better"? And when you get there, you jump again?

Love, is when you realize there are gazillions of guys/girls 100 times better than the person you are in a relationship with, but you choose to remain with them.

Here is a shocker for you: You are not the best girl out there. There is someone better than you as well. He might have even met someone better than you but he chose to remain with you. Whether you go back to him or not, that is a fact. If you leave him now, he'll go for someone better than you are. Do you think that the "Miss Nigeria" we have today is really the most beautiful in nigeria? Are there not millions better than her?

Never ever end a relationship where you were not being mistreated, simply because you think you deserve better. . . Ever.

abishowzonyine:
Lol.. Don't you think i would have gotten over him a long time ago if i don't? God knws i do, he knows it himself that i love him. And am not afraid i may not meet a nice guy again, am just afraid i may miss he that was made for me cos of one bad nd foolish decision i made.
For every good man i believe there's always a better one.

andromida:

Ermm its ok to end a relationship even when you are not being mistreated if you don't have feelings for the person anymore. No one deserves to be managed or be used as a passtime boyfriend or girlfriend.

Martowskin: HMMMMM.....yea dats d problem, OP, point of correction, he should be giving u a 2nd chance not d other way round, be careful u mite not meet dat same guy u once dated if u go back, he will always hav a back up plan, u took him unaware initially, he won't want dat same mistake.....commenting out of experience, be ready for a compitition dis time arround, u knw wat I mean. But trust me, going back is a risk worth taking, but u av to define d relationship b4 goin back, he has to knw d main reason y u left him, cos he mite b havin a wrong idea dat u left and comin back cos u didn't meet a beta person. He has to knw y u previously left him and u want him to change if u ar to com back. Mind u, d possibility of meetin d guy u once love and cherished u is not upto 50%...but u mite b lucky giv it a try...only u hav to work harder dis time to kip him and make him who u once dated......TILL DIS DAY I STILL FEAR MY GF even wen she came back, I hav a backup plan, cos I don't want anoda drama....wish u d best dear