LOVE OR JUST AND FAITHFULNESS,WHICH IS BETTER IN A RELATIONSHIP? If a man or woman loves you and he or she is not just and faithful,do you prefer it than a situation where he or she don't love you so much,but treats you fairly with just and faithfulness?

You cannot love someone and not be faithful. It is no love stop deceiving yourself

Mynd_44: You cannot love someone and not be faithful. It is no love stop deceiving yourself

Gbam!

Mynd_44: You cannot love someone and not be faithful. It is no love stop deceiving yourself

Lol..
Dont mind the Op
He doesn't know what he is saying..

Ofcourse you can love and not be faithful

"Just and faithfulness?" Really?

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bilms: Ofcourse you can love and not be faithful

Where is that possible?

As a man, i know many men who love their women and are still unfaithful. The reason for their unfaithfulness is not because they don't love.

bilms: As a man, i know many men who love their women and are still unfaithful. The reason for their unfaithfulness is not because they don't love.

Get it out of your head and stop being silly. You cannot love someone and still continue to hurt the person. It is not possible except you want to tell me that cheating on someone does not hurt the person.

Would your parents love you, see you hungry and not give you food if they had food(even is you are 45 years old)?

You cannot love someone and wish them or do thing that hurt them.

bilms: Ofcourse you can love and not be faithful

u must be a learner

Kosigift: u must be a learner

Nah, just dellusional

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Bilms maybe you need a practical aspect of what you just posted. And let the earth bring it into existance. The one that will call you love, bone of bone and flesh of flesh will be completely unfaithful to you.

Faithfulness (especially for men) is as much to do with self control as it is to do with love. A man who loves his wife can easily cheat if he lacks the self control to resist temptations.

You are right,many commentators seems not to get it. Cheating has nothing to do with love,it is about self control.

bilms: You are right,many commentators seems not to get it. Cheating has nothing to do with love,it is about self control.

And does self control come with love?

Mynd_44: You cannot love someone and not be faithful. It is no love stop deceiving yourself

You can love and not be faithful. Some people may be faithful due to laws,tradition,fear and belief. You can also love and not be faithful.

Mynd_44:
Get it out of your head and stop being silly. You cannot love someone and still continue to hurt the person. It is not possible except you want to tell me that cheating on someone does not hurt the person.

Would your parents love you, see you hungry and not give you food if they had food(even is you are 45 years old)?

You cannot love someone and wish them or do thing that hurt them.

Loving someone is letting them be whoever they want to be without trying to change them. Love doesn't come with force,neither does it require faithfulness. Love is letting go most times!

ifeness:

Loving someone is letting them be whoever they want to be without trying to change them. Love doesn't come with force,neither does it require faithfulness. Love is letting go most times!

The only time letting go happens in love is when you see that the person is happier without you than with you. It happens when you see that while the person is with you that person is hurting. That is selflessness.

Love does that. Love comes with that. Being unfaithful is selfish. It is not love

Love doesn't come with self control

bilms: Love doesn't come with self control

Unfaithfulness is selfish and uncaring. Both are not characteristics of Love.

Wake up and smell the coffee

Hum

Mynd God bless you. That is the power of wisdom speaking in you. Thank you for not perverting the truth. Unfortunantly majority of people rejects, perverts and tints the truth. That is the sign of end time.

ifeness:

You can love and not be faithful. Some people may be faithful due to laws,tradition,fear and belief. You can also love and not be faithful.

If u had said " u can be faithful without loving ur partner" dats wen all dos tins u mentioned - Laws, tradition, fear and belief come into play (I can reckon wit dat)

Coming to d Op, u can't ask me to choose between Love and Faithfulnes cos if u love me, being faithful shudn't be an option! Dats love- it doesn't hurt one knowingly.

Mynd_44:
The only time letting go happens in love is when you see that the person is happier without you than with you. It happens when you see that while the person is with you that person is hurting. That is selflessness.

Love does that. Love comes with that. Being unfaithful is selfish. It is not love

Exactly

bilms: Love doesn't come with self control

No it does... Its lust dat doesn't come with self control. I hope u understand dis early enuf

Kosigift:
No it does... Its lust dat doesn't come with self control. I hope u understand dis early enuf

People mistake love for lust everytime.

bilms: Ofcourse you can love and not be faithful

No you cannot! If you truly love someone you are in an intimate relationship with, you will not sleep around like a dog on heat thereby exposing the one you claim to love to all sorts of sexually transmitted diseases. If you cannot stay faithful in a marital relationship, then you have no business getting married. What morals will you be impacting on your future offspring when they see you sleeping around like an animal? Do you have no fear of God in you or do you think God is okay with fornicators and adulterers? You do know this life will end someday right? and that life is just a temporary journey? You will give account of how you spent your life on earth to your maker so take caution. It is shameful to have that demon of lust dwelling in you. Go and seek divine deliverance.

God bless you my good friend

dasparrow:

No you cannot! If you truly love someone you are in an intimate relationship with, you will not sleep around like a dog on heat thereby exposing the one you claim to love to all sorts of sexually transmitted diseases. If you cannot stay faithful in a marital relationship, then you have no business getting married. What morals will you be impacting on your future offspring when they see you sleeping around like an animal? Do you have no fear of God in you or do you think God is okay with fornicators and adulterers? You do know this life will end someday right? and that life is just a temporary journey? You will give account of how you spent your life on earth to your maker so take caution. It is shameful to have that demon of lust dwelling in you. Go and seek divine deliverance.

Do everyone in love love to get married? It sucks when people throw God into arguments...because the religious God demands worship...and that is not an attribute of Love.