If he CALLS you and your phone is OFF, he thinks you’re CHEATING….then he sends a sms saying “DON’T TELL ME THE BATTERY STORY COZ I KNOW THAT LINE”

If u TREAT him nicely, he says u are TOO IN LOVE, moving too fast;
If u Don't, he says u are PROUD .

If u DRESS NICELY, he says u are trying to LURE other men;
If u DON?T, he says u are RURAL.

If u ARGUE with him, he says u areSTUBBORN, too manly;
If u keep QUIET, he says u have noBRAINS, a walkover

If u are SMARTER than him, you’re a SHOW-OFF;
If he's SMARTER than u, he is GREAT.

If u don't LOVE him, he tries to POSSESS u;
If u LOVE him, He takes you FOR GRANTED. (very true huh?)

If u don't MAKE LOVE to him, he says u DON?T LOVE him;
If u DO, he says u are CHEAP.

If u tell him your PROBLEMS, he says u are TROUBLE;
If u DON?T, he says u don't TRUST him.

If u SCOLD at him, u are treating him like a CHILD;
If he SCOLDS at u, it’s because he CARES for u.

If u BREAK your promise, u cannotbe TRUSTED;
If he BREAKS his, it is circumstances beyond his CONTROL.

If u SMOKE, u are BAD girl;
If he SMOKES, he is GENTLEMAN.

If u do WELL in your career, it's LUCK ;
If he does WELL, it’s definitely BRAINS.

If u HURT him, u are CRUEL;
If he HURTS you, you are too SENSITIVE !!

HOW ARE WE SUPPOSED TO GET IT RIGHT?
Pls, your comments will save a relationship, marriage....

you know,
water kills yet we drinks it.

fire hurts yet we cook with it.

to live is to risk death but we must live

clemz85: you know,
water kills yet we drinks it.

fire hurts yet we cook with it.

to live is to risk death but we must live

Hmmmn, true talk, EZIOKU!

No 2 men are similar in all the mentioned attributes. A needy man will want a needy woman and a distant man would want a distant woman.

It is all about balance. You need to get a balance on all the mentioned above and find the right man with the right balance too.

Atheist:-D:
No 2 men are similar in all the mentioned attributes. A needy man will want a needy woman and a distant man would want a distant woman.

It is all about balance. You need to get a balance on all the mentioned above and find the right man with the right balance too.

I agree its all about balance, but its almost impossible τ̅☺ get d right balance

Stegomiah:

I agree its all about balance, but its almost impossible τ̅☺ get d right balance

That is true. Flexibility and some "give" are needed. People need to also be patient and wise too. You might only meet that balance 2 or 3 times at most and many people are not prepared to handle it. By the time they are ready they cant find such a person.

Well said

Stegomiah: Well said

So... have you been in a difficult relationship?

Atheist:-D:


So... have you been in a difficult relationship?

Sure, most pple av

Stegomiah:

Sure, most pple av

Cool... cool... are you still in it

Atheist:-D:


Cool... cool... are you still in it

Nope! Do you bliv in love?

Stegomiah:

Nope! Do you bliv in love?

of course I do

all good points made..

I am a Simple Man, who is not difficult to Understand..!!

Atheist:-D:


of course I do

so you bliv in love, but as an atheist, u do not bliv in God?
smh! d world is a funny place, i'll lyk u to explain why you bliv in d former nd not d latter. cos 2 me God is love, he instituted love, you cant see love, so u cant see God but you chose to bliv in love, Y?

Stegomiah:

so you bliv in love, but as an atheist, u do not bliv in God?
smh! d world is a funny place, i'll lyk u to explain why you bliv in d former nd not d latter. cos 2 me God is love, he instituted love, you cant see love, so u cant see God but you chose to bliv in love, Y?

What is the relationship between God and love? Love is an emotion, just like hate, fear, etc. These are what make us human beings. It is love that makes us crave company and build societies, our ability to form hierarchal structured societies etc stems from our necessity for companionship and fear of isolation. Ever noticed how isolation is a punishment in most societies?

[quote
author=Atheist:-D]

What is the relationship between God and love? Love is an emotion, just
like hate, fear, etc. These are what make us human beings. It is love
that makes us crave company and build societies, our ability to form
hierarchal structured societies etc stems from our necessity for
companionship and fear of isolation. Ever noticed how isolation is a
punishment in most societies? [/quote]

seriously, Atheist D you are in for a serious debate today nd i got ya time.

emotions as in feelings, so are you saying pple do not feel God, his pressence et al.

are u saying dos wu sing and dance, pray, dos wu ar in spirit ar insane to bliv God exists?

Stegomiah:

seriously, Atheist D you are in for a serious debate today nd i got ya time.

emotions as in feelings, so are you saying pple do not feel God, his pressence et al.

are u saying dos wu sing and dance, pray, dos wu ar in spirit ar insane to bliv God exists?

You can measure emotions. When there is love, certain chemicals are released into the body including pheromones, dopamine, norepinephrine, and serotonin. The same with fear. Your hear rate increases, you get a rush of adrenaline etc. these can all be measured.

The "experiences" people have of God are difficult to quantify on such a level. If we were to look at peoples experiences of God, we would find it impossible to classify. Just as we do not classify so many other paranormal phenomena out there. Dont we see odd people saying they saw so much weird stuff, yet we refuse to believe them, why?

let us not digress however. A religious debate can be had on the religious forum.

Also, those who believe in God are not insane. I once did. They are just not yet fully awake from a long slumber

Atheist:-D:


You can measure emotions. When there is love, certain chemicals are released into the body including pheromones, dopamine, norepinephrine, and serotonin. The same with fear. Your hear rate increases, you get a rush of adrenaline etc. these can all be measured.

The "experiences" people have of God are difficult to quantify on such a level. If we were to look at peoples experiences of God, we would find it impossible to classify. Just as we do not classify so many other paranormal phenomena out there. Dont we see odd people saying they saw so much weird stuff, yet we refuse to believe them, why?

let us not digress however. A religious debate can be had on the religious forum.

Also, those who believe in God are not insane. I once did. They are just not yet fully awake from a long slumber

Dnt wanna derail dis thred furda, but i'll open a thread on religion section Ƨ̲̣̥ø̲̣̣̥ we can debate, definately not today, but U̶̲̥̅̊'ll know wen. I admire ur humour dough but i bliv dia IS̶̲̥̅ God, Ƨ̲̣̥ø̲̣̣̥ be prepared mr atheist. Meet ya on d oda section!!

Stegomiah:

Dnt wanna derail dis thred furda, but i'll open a thread on religion section Ƨ̲̣̥ø̲̣̣̥ we can debate, definately not today, but U̶̲̥̅̊'ll know wen. I admire ur humour dough but i bliv dia IS̶̲̥̅ God, Ƨ̲̣̥ø̲̣̣̥ be prepared mr atheist. Meet ya on d oda section!!

Cool. Just let me know when you open it. Good luck.