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Re: Help!!!!!she Suspects Her Boyfriend Is Gay. by Les: 2:31pm On Jun 06, 2013
Popowaa: I will remember u in my prayers
i'll do appreciate it sister.... cool
Re: Help!!!!!she Suspects Her Boyfriend Is Gay. by Nobody: 11:41pm On Jun 06, 2013
Popowaa: Add more abeg
okay. Sorry I am replying late. Here is another 10 ways.

10. The Bathroom Rituals. Notice how he meticulously does his hair. Try to find out how he chose the grooming products he owns. An average guy doesn’t care about what brand or what type of products he uses. Is he particularly interested in top designer shoes and other accessories? Another warning sign is the time he spends inside the bathroom. If he takes longer than you do, that may be a sign that he’s batting for the other team.

9. The Diva Fanaticism .People always consider gay guys to be fans of many divas. Humming with his Beyonce music If your boyfriend likes listening to divas such as Whitney Houston, Mariah Carey, Celine Dion, Barbra Streisand and (God forbid) Tiwa Savage then he might be one flaming gay man. Have you ever seen your boyfriend listening to any of these divas’ records? Or worse, have you ever heard him singing any of their songs? And if he indeed sings their songs, does he do it in falsetto? If your answer is yes, then that could be a sign.

8. The Beauty Pageant Obsession Miss Nigeria 2005 For some reason, gay guys love watching beauty pageants, as far as stereotypes are concerned. These events are a celebration of beauty and glamor that many gay people really value. Of course, your boyfriend won’t let his fascination with beauty pageants be known, but if you really want to know, here’s a quick tip. While talking about another topic, ask this question out of the blue: “Oh by the way, who was the 1999 Miss Universe?” If he is able to give you an answer, be scared. Be very scared. Gay people often also love awards shows such as the Oscars, the Golden Globes, the Emmys, the Grammys and many others.

7. The Shifty Eyes. Another excellent way to know if your boyfriend is gay is by simply observing his eyes. Yep, it’s all in the eyes. The next time you two are walking in a mall or around a local park with numerous people, notice how his eyes move. Some gay people let their eyes wander and jump from one guy to another. Notice how he shifts his vision when a hot man passes by. If his eyes are shifty when he is around men, he might be gay.

6. The Urinal Dilemma. A closeted gay man also feels uncomfortable and uneasy around straight guy friends as he tries hard not to show his concealed sexuality. In a public men’s room, a closeted gay man is also uncomfortable using any empty urinal when other straight men are using the ones near his. Often, instead of using the urinals, he would go inside a cubicle and just pee into the toilet bowl.

5. The Oprah Quotes. Gay men, whether out or closeted, are inspired by many gay people who have proven their worth in history. There is just pure pride and sense of accomplishment that many gay guys feel when someone gay is able to achieve something. This can be evident in his in-depth knowledge about these things. Does he keep on stressing out that Alexander the Great was gay and that he was in love with his best friend? Does he always talk about how Oprah did something amazing? Okay, Oprah is not gay, but many gay people love her.

4. The X-Men Factor. Do you play video games with your boyfriend? If so, you’ll be glad that there is also a way of knowing if he is guy just by looking at his character choices. Many gay men would pick a female character in a game with a versus mode. For example, in X-Men, Storm is a gay man’s favorite. It has not been proven whether there is a psychological explanation for this, but it is a trend. If your boyfriend chooses a male character, it doesn’t mean that you’re safe. Cyclops is also often a gay man’s and he abhors Jean Grey for that.

3. The Fashion Compliments.Your boyfriend might be gay if he gives you too many compliments in a very unmanly way. For example, instead of saying “You look beautiful,” he’ll say, “I like the way your top matches your tanned skin, and oh, your boots are so fetch.” If you hear that from your boyfriend, don’t feel glad. You might just have a gay partner.

2. The Downright Gay-bashing. Gay people hiding inside the closet are usually very vocal about their distaste and hatred for gay men. While it seems a little counterintuitive, there is a reason why they do it. Because they don’t want to be caught or be suspected that they are gay, they would cover their true identity by blatantly expressing their rage against gay men. They also tend to overdo this; thus, they become harsh gay-bashers. If your boyfriend is like that, then he might be gay. As one adage goes, the greatest homophobe is homosexual.

1. The Hot Guys on his Blackberry. One of the most definitive signs that your boyfriend is gay is that there are some male strangers in his BB list of friends or contacts. Checking on her boyfriends phone If you have never seen these men or you don’t know whether they are your boyfriend’s friends in person, they might just have had their communication online. An average straight guy won’t have the pin of a man he doesn’t know personally, much less add him to his list of contacts. It’s not just BB; browse through his Facebook or Friendster page and see if you can find some. Or worse, research and try to find out if he has accounts in gay networking sites. You can also check your browser’s history to see if he has visited any gay adult sites on the web. The truth is, you don’t need all these signs to know whether your partner is gay or not. What you should do is sit down and talk to him about it. Make him feel that it is all right and that you understand. Finding out if your boyfriend is gay needs a little observation and a lot of honesty.
Re: Help!!!!!she Suspects Her Boyfriend Is Gay. by Nobody: 11:41pm On Jun 06, 2013
9jadelta: hehe that number 3 reminds me of the movie "sex drive"
never watched it.
Re: Help!!!!!she Suspects Her Boyfriend Is Gay. by Nobody: 11:56pm On Jun 06, 2013
babe_online:
never watched it.
its a very interesting movie. if you like college/teen movies like american pie, etc. you will like the movie

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Re: Help!!!!!she Suspects Her Boyfriend Is Gay. by Nobody: 7:00am On Jun 07, 2013
wtf? why would one rather be a gay with all the pretty girls, soft b0oobs and nice punnies around? i like myself sha...
Re: Help!!!!!she Suspects Her Boyfriend Is Gay. by MrCork: 10:15am On Jun 07, 2013
Popowaa: I have a friend who of recent says she suspect her baby boy is gay.She says he is very close to this whiteman who is his only male friend and his female friends calls him a he bitch.He's caring and all that but she says she has this strong urge her baby is gay.Pls nl are there any signs that show ur bf is gay?shd she stay or walk out?

...so wot of he gay?...BLACK WOMEN!! undecided
Re: Help!!!!!she Suspects Her Boyfriend Is Gay. by Popowaa: 11:00am On Jun 07, 2013
Wanna be whitemen!!!!
-Mr Cork-:


...so wot of he gay?...BLACK WOMEN!! undecided
Re: Help!!!!!she Suspects Her Boyfriend Is Gay. by MrCork: 12:09pm On Jun 07, 2013
Popowaa: Wanna be whitemen!!!!


...i take it she neva been to London! undecided
Re: Help!!!!!she Suspects Her Boyfriend Is Gay. by Nobody: 1:42pm On Jun 07, 2013
Popowaa: It's not that easy when she's into him a great deal
she should stay then, since she's so into him.

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Re: Help!!!!!she Suspects Her Boyfriend Is Gay. by slymm(f): 5:25pm On Jun 07, 2013
Let her buy a strap on and try to play with his butt hole, if he likes it, then the man is a fairy.

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