Saw this and though I should share


We were in a restaurant with Fred and in the middle of discussion; he told us that he wanted to get married very soon. He told us he wanted to marry a woman that was well educated and to a degree level, God fearing, slim and beautiful, a good cook, well behaved and very clean. We all laughed over it and wished him good luck.
The discussion continued and we got to a point when we asked what do women want in a man? Fred said women wanted men with money and immediately started condemning women and saying all sorts of things. He labelled them greedy, lazy and all sorts of name. Then I asked him what was wrong in a woman wishing to marry a rich man when he (Fred) can wish to marry a God fearing, slim and beautiful woman that is also good cook, well behaved and very clean. Are women not supposed to have wishes? Are women supposed to marry anybody that comes their way? Are they supposed to wish but not say it out? Does wishing/wanting to marry a rich man make them evil?

Such a guy is very chauvinistic. Infact a woman should even look more and pay more attention to details before accepting a man's proposal. A sensible woman has a wish of the type of man to marry and mainly she never deviate or ignore it out of desperation or anything. The bible says "acknowledge the Lord and He will grant you the DESIRES of your HEART".

It's very okay... infact, it's more than okay for a women to wish to marry a rich guy. but the 'but' is when she dumps or starts playing with a man's emotion because he is not rich.

No its not.
As long as you plan being rich yourself.
Or being able to hold your own.

Go and work for ur own money

Its natural for every woman to wish for a man who is financially stable and able to support them.

But when you eventually find such a man, try not to scare him off with your outrageous demands as most girls are in the habit of doing. Give him the chance to provide for you out of his free will and I can assure that you'll have cause to smile in that relationship.

As far as am concerned it is VERY WRONG for a woman to wish/want to marry a richman when she herself is BROKE or earning meager salary!