Hullo nairalanders! i've been pondering abt 'marriage' for a while now.i hope to get married in d very nearest future.i envisage a lovely family for myslf wen fantasizing abt it bt wen d reality of it hapuning creeps in,in my mind,i get a cold feet.pls,i need matured advice/s on how to attack and overcome this fear.thank u.

Face ur fears!

brut: Face ur fears!

so,if i face my fear which is getting married,i'll overcome it? tnx.

C'est moi:

so,if i face my fear which is getting married,i'll overcome it? tnx.

try it first

HURUCHI:

try it first

#sighs....okeydokey.

What are your fears?

fear of unfaithfulness,heartbreak etc

C'est moi:
fear of unfaithfulness,heartbreak etc

every decision you will make in life will either turn out positive or negative. getting married is taking a chance. you also must know that its hard work. Marriage s nothing like the cosby show or the kardashians. You have to know who you are marrying meaning date for years before you take the plunge. Being eager to get married and settling for the first guy who show interest might work but then again a few years down the line you might find that you married a stranger.

its okay to have cold feet but what you need to remember is that you are signing a contract in front of God anf your family to be with the person you love and that person loves you back. once you know that the rest is fried chicken

C'est moi:
fear of unfaithfulness,heartbreak etc

Commént cà và?
Lets hook up. Let me take away your fears. I promise to love and stand by you and be the man of your dreams.

Dondav: Damn! Are you that ugly?

how do u mean?

25omega: every decision you will make in life will either turn out positive or negative. getting married is taking a chance. you also must know that its hard work. Marriage s nothing like the cosby show or the kardashians. You have to know who you are marrying meaning date for years before you take the plunge. Being eager to get married and settling for the first guy who show interest might work but then again a few years down the line you might find that you married a stranger.

its okay to have cold feet but what you need to remember is that you are signing a contract in front of God anf your family to be with the person you love and that person loves you back. once you know that the rest is fried chicken

hmmmm,thk u.

iebanehita:

Commént cà và?
Lets hook up. Let me take away your fears. I promise to love and stand by you and be the man of your dreams.

ca va bien,merci et vous? awww,thk u....datz swt.i'll pass.im hooked!

OP is probably 19

Are you currently in a relationship with someone that's making you feel this way or the thought of marriage alone is giving you cold feet?

Mynd_44: OP is probably 19

nope,im way older than that.thk God u hid ur face.i 4 report u to prof.aina.

True2myself24: Are you currently in a relationship with someone that's making you feel this way or the thought of marriage alone is giving you cold feet?

Both!

C'est moi:

nope,im way older than that.thk God u hid ur face.i 4 report u to prof.aina.

Address the issue on ground abeg

First, u must love the person u want to marry. Second, u have to be prayerful cos without God on ur side, its a oneway ticket to divorce. My two cents.

Mynd_44:
Address the issue on ground abeg

which is? cos u didnt ask me any questn,u jst made an assumptn of my age.

daduke2k: First, u must love the person u want to marry. Second, u have to be prayerful cos without God on ur side, its a oneway ticket to divorce. My two cents.

alrighty! tnx a bunch.will adopt dis idea now evn more.

C'est moi:

which is? cos u didnt ask me any questn,u jst made an assumptn of my age.

How old are you then?

Mynd_44:
How old are you then?

And may i ask y u want to knw?

C'est moi:

And may i ask y u want to knw?

Cos this thread seems off

Mynd_44:
Cos this thread seems off

then,'get off' wit it.thk u.
p.s- anywhr u c my post,pls dnt comment cos im sure they're gonna be 'off' to u.

C'est moi:

then,'get off' wit it.thk u.
p.s- anywhr u c my post,pls dnt comment cos im sure they're gonna be 'off' to u.

Can't take a joke no more?

author=Mynd_44]
Can't take a joke no more?[/quote]
didnt seem lyk a joke to me

Dondav: Damn! Are you that ugly?

From the pix, she is a beauty.

tpacalipse: From the pix, she is a beauty.

thk uuuuu.

C'est moi:

ca va bien,merci et vous? awww,thk u....datz swt.i'll pass.im hooked!

Trés bién.

Buh why is your face hidden in your pics?.. Is it scary?

iebanehita:

Trés bién.

Buh why is your face hidden in your pics?.. Is it scary?

Be nice dude

iebanehita:

Trés bién.

Buh why is your face hidden in your pics?.. Is it scary?

lol,nope! dnt want any1 identifying me.i can assure u,i hv a vry nyc face #nohyping