Fellycutie: Sowi babe..u aint horrible..those guys doesn't deserve u..d first tin u nid 2 stop is introducing ur frnds 2 ur bfs..dats if u do it oh..

Fellycutie: Sowi babe..u aint horrible..those guys doesn't deserve u..d first tin u nid 2 stop is introducing ur frnds 2 ur bfs..dats if u do it oh..

chidindufrank: Op improve on your forking skills. Guys found you too bored to nyash. Tank u

PrincessEl: I Think the first thing you should do is a self evaluation. What are your goals, your aspirations, where are you right now and what do you need to develop your self to accomplish them, then look at your friends do they want them same things, or do you need to change to attract better friends. like my mother would say your dont need 100's of friends to be happy but just that one that shares same* quality of goals with you that is if only if you know what you want from life.
When you have sorted your self and attracted the right type of friend..., then when the right guy comes you would know.
and you would never be attracted to any slowpoke who thinks he can date two friends.

please take sometime and work on yourself...

fluid26: You are trying so hard to sound complex and tell complicated stories, as unnecessary as it is though.

If you are not willing to reveal your shortcomings and reasons for the break-ups, why tell the story at all? Are we to make assumptions in analysis? If we are to draw inference from your positings, you should be more generous with info. What is the problem? Did you refuse them sex? Do you nag or smother? Perhaps you have intolerable and/or occasional mood swings? Do they see you as dull or ordinary? Tell us na...

Playing the victim here is a malicious attempt at slandering your exes and friends.

lynpetra: Please, it's always wise to make friends who are really older than you.After my uni days, I literally left all my friends(they are still calling and complaining). Make friends who are not within your age bracket,believe me there is a lot to learn.AM 25 and all my friends are like 4 yrs older than me.SOme are even married.DOnt waste your time with desperate friends who doesn't care about what they do to make you feel sad.USe broom and packer pack them put inside ur neighbor dustbin

fluid26:

I know your post is of good intent, but asking her to discard her uni friends is just out of tune with reality. Having older friends is good, I agree. However, there is nothing wrong in following a process and doings things accordingly with people in your age group.

There is nothing wrong in making mistakes. It's only a problem if you do not learn your lessons and keep repeating them.

On a side note, is it those older friends of yours that advised you to send your boyfriend on errands like 'buying water' and 'delivering fish to your family'? I'm curious...

fluid26:





You are trying to play the smart card here but I wud just ignore and answer your first question,I think the op needs to discard her friends entirely.She said herself that they wud not understand and that's why she seeks for help her on nairaland.She shud discard or reshuffle them.I don't waste time on friends esp the ones that are desperate.As for ur second question,you are a clown.I dumped him already!!!!

I know your post is of good intent, but asking her to discard her uni friends is just out of tune with reality. Having older friends is good, I agree. However, there is nothing wrong in following a process and doings things accordingly with people in your age group.

There is nothing wrong in making mistakes. It's only a problem if you do not learn your lessons and keep repeating them.

On a side note, is it those older friends of yours that advised you to send your boyfriend on errands like 'buying water' and 'delivering fish to your family'? I'm curious...

bknight:

Which is this again? Na wa o

Sister, please take life easy.

Da_b¤§§.:
Those girls are not your friends. They are shameless scavengers.