Should a wife obey her husband in[b] ALL[/b] things or rather obey her desire? or are there cases where she's allowed to disobey him entirely?

Are there situations where the man must obey his wife too?

I dont know o, cos am not a wife neither will I ever be. So ladies I guess this thread is for you.

obey him_{*bt dat does nt mean be a slowpoke*}yhu should be given a chance to "have ur way" at times

*mad at his diamond*

tboi can u xplain wat u mean pls?

Confused too, can you please be more rich in details?

I musnt obey everything my husband says just like we dont obey all our parents commands, This is cuz they r not alwayz right,

I musnt obey everything my husband says just like we don't obey all our parents commands, This is because they r not alwayz right,

Therefore you prefer to obey your desire? What if our husbands do the same? Do you think we women can live with that? I mean if men are allowed to obey their desire after marriage, half of the women in every street will be pregnant with bastards.

datz if u open ur legs, i mean, as a wife, there r things have i do under my hubby's command but not all, not if he ask me 2 put my head on fire, i will, its logic

@poster, what do you want to hear?
that to obey is bad?
or
That everything from your husband should be obeyed?

only a mumu or a fool, or an idiot will take side.

a wife should obey when it favors her like "take this money and cook me my best food"
and not obey when it does not favor her like "go and sleep with that man for money"

simple

2nd corithians chapter 1-7

and dat portion of da bible says wat sir?.lol, i no hold bible now

izeek:

2nd corithians chapter 1-7

And our hope for you is firm, because we know that just as you share in our sufferings, so also you share in our comfort.

so how does not imply to diz thread?llol

i'll obey my desire. . .

Obey the pocket and not the desire.

Obey Both, *turn around & look* . . .na so so women full here, abeg guyz make we leave matter 4 women oh.

Where you come run go?

Obedience comes in accordance to what is requested from me.

If he asks me something real silly and stupid and selfish . . . . . . . . before he married me he'll know that won't be happening

This is why its good for women to be their own women. Make your own woman and be variably independent. That way a man won't have the opportunity to talk nonsense into your ears.

@Soji
I dey postoffice na, abi u no see my offletter?

gat none bro.

Ok i go drop am now, na Walawi matter dey make me buzy 4 postoffice.

@NaJa HaJe, well written,

Ezinwannem:

@NaJa HaJe, well written,

fanks flelly much

@NaJa HaJe, u dey 2 much, see english, been ages i heard those

NaJa HaJe:

Obedience comes in accordance to what is requested from me.

If he asks me something real silly and stupid and selfish . . . . . . . . before he married me he'll know that won't be happening

This is why its good for women to be their own women. Make your own woman and be variably independent. That way a man won't have the opportunity to talk nonsense into your ears.

hmmmnn
thats cool, now am begining to think that i underated you. sorry for the misconception.

Obedience comes in accordance to what is requested from me.

If he asks me something real silly and stupid and selfish . . . . . . . . before he married me he'll know that won't be happening

This is why its good for women to be their own women. Make your own woman and be variably independent. That way a man won't have the opportunity to talk nonsense into your ears.

Good but are you suggesting we obey selectively? Selective obedience leads to convinience and that may be interpreted as disobedience from our husbands.

Ezinwannem:

@NaJa HaJe, u dey 2 much, see english, been ages i heard those

frank 3.16:

hmmmnn
thats cool, now am begining to think that i underated you. sorry for the misconception.

The Harm's already been done

OsunAmazon:

Good but are you suggesting we obey selectively? Selective obedience leads to convinience and that may be interpreted as disobedience from our husbands.

It is 'selective obedience' if we allow our husbands to become dictators!

There is what I like to refer to as 'Obedience with an Ultimatum'. Is this what you are referring to?

It is 'selective obedience' if we allow our husbands to become dictators!

There is what I like to refer to as 'Obedience with an Ultimatum'. Is this what you are referring to?

No, but if we are not careful we may read a different thing from a man's tone and misinterprete it as a command, smae goes for men that hide under laziness because allegedly, people will call them 'woman wrapper'.

Well, personally, i think a man should obey a Womans desire considering all the sacrifices she has to make, but in Reality its hardly done,

well its a two way thing, so if a man obeys mine , same goes for him simple

Equality is the best when it comes to being happy.

some men like being dictators which can be quite annoying considerin the fact that women put up with alot of Sh*t

Well, personally, i think a man should obey a Womans desire considering all the sacrifices she has to make, but in Reality its hardly done,

well its a two way thing, so if a man obeys mine , same goes for him simple

Equality is the best when it comes to being happy.

some men like being dictators which can be quite annoying considerin the fact that women put up with alot of Sh*t

I think the 50-50 thing in a relationship is non existent and a total fairy tale. It's either the man captains the ship or the woman takes over. There must be an imbalance in a relationship for both to work together in accordance. In my case, as long as you don't disrespect me, dictate my roles for me, reduce me to a plate of food, I wouldn't care less if you captain the ship tll the end of time afterall uneasy lies the head that wears the crown.

Personally, I think obedience is not a thing in itself. It’s the result of other things…First comes trust, then respect and finally obedience.