Actually am in love with this girl and she also happens to be what i call a mere friend,I have been looking for a way to tell her how much i love her but the problem is that she is not encouraging me to do so.like four months now she has never called not to talk of flash am alway the one to call or text her.Am very sure that she knows that i love her. Can you guys please tell me to do here.I do love her.

She doesn't really like you. Make yourself scarce for a while, if she doesn't bother to check on you, then I can only advice you let her be.

she hasnt bothered to contact him in 4 months. You cant make urself scarce to someone who doesnt even know you exist.

He needs to stop calling her, that's what I mean by scarce

keep callin her she might develop an acquired taste for ur love

@poster

Well i think she hasn't called you cos you refer to her as a 'mere friend'. I bet you act like that to her as well

example is that i just called 6 times without her answering. lrt m e say she is sleeping even till next month she won't call back when she wakes

Then stop calling her, waste your minutes on someone who is worth it. she dosent have your time, sorry bro.

4 Him:

she hasnt bothered to contact him in 4 months. You can't make yourself scarce to someone who doesnt even know you exist.

Haba, Love knows no boundary?
Maybe she's playing hard to get

@post
Call her and tell her how you fel.

If she digs you, you'll know

If she doesn't, Live goes on

Plain truth, she is not into you, and women hate men who call 6 times a day, it shows you have nothing else to do than bug her, give her some breathing space n realize that if she hasn't called you since you guys met then she prolly has someone else or doesn't like pushy men, abi na by force.

am not sure it goes both ways oooooo. sorry to announce

Bone the MUMU girl jare! Make u find one fine girl for your area wey fine pass her!

She go get internal bleeding

jassie:

Bone the MUMU girl jare! Make u find one fine girl for your area wey fine pass her!

She go get internal bleeding

am pretty sure u dont know d full meaning of love then

leave the stupid girl alone.
she does not deserve you.
look around you and make something meaningful out of your life rather than chasing shadows

I guess she's not into u like that cos if she was . . . trust me, she woulda called.

she don't like you. simple

@ topic

No harm in trying

na by force to love person?

the lady isnt feeling you. Maybe she's in love with someone else.

try to see her point of view sha. What if she were the one calling you all the time when you dont feel like it.

frank 3.16:

leave the stupid girl alone.
she does not deserve you.
look around you and make something meaningful out of your life rather than chasing shadows

i dont understand why the poor girl is been insulted here, is it her fault the love did not penetrate her way. must she feel d same way?

tpia:

na by force to love person?

the lady isnt feeling you. Maybe she's in love with someone else.

try to see her point of view sha. What if she were the one calling you all the time when you don't feel like it.

I agree but no offense sounds like a crush gone wrong- could it NOT be anymore obvious that she does not LOVE you back? be patient and if you are a Christian, pray for a wonderful mate and if you wait, she will come.

LOL abi ooooo