Ladies a beg make una dey look well a b4 una dey fall anyhow for some men. I just came across this online and decided to bring it here for us to learn from it. Just imagine if this was ur sister or ur cousin.

I am a 39 year old divorcee with three lovely kids. I'd given up on love and romance when this man suddenly showed up in my life four years ago.

We've been engaged for two years now but he insists the only way he would go ahead with a wedding is if I'm willing to give him children. I don't want any more children. I have a 13 year old, a 12 year old and a 9 year old and the last thing I want is to get pregnant again. My fiance doesn't have any kids of his own and says he wants at least two.

I love this man to death and he is good to my children but the thought of being pregnant again makes me suicidal. What do I do? Should I let him go?

That was how one 42 years old lady lost her life cos her during child birth cos she was desperate to give her boyfriend a child when her doctors advice her against it.

She doesnt have to be selfish and doesnt love like man with all sincerity
So a man without any kids shld remain childless for life becos she has grown up kids alrdy
She shld let d man go and find love in another person while she opts for an older man with kids
The love she has is fake

nikkykay: She doesnt have to be selfish and doesnt love like man with all sincerity
So a man without any kids shld remain childless for life becos she has grown up kids alrdy
She shld let d man go and find love in another person while she opts for an older man with kids
The love she has is fake

But if both sides are selfish, what happens to their professed love?

I dont have d idea of d man being selfish but i am talking about the lady
And If both are selfish then dir professed love is not genuine

The kind of unselfish love many people keep dreaming of exists only in the movies. Face it! Human beings by nature are very selfish, most things they do is because they will gain or benefit from it, this rose tinted view and butterfly kisses idea of love neeeds to stop. The sooner the better.

slymm: The kind of unselfish love many people keep dreaming of exists only in the movies. Face it! Human beings by nature are very selfish, most things they do is because they will gain or benefit from it, this rose tinted view and butterfly kisses idea of love neeeds to stop. The sooner the better.

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True but it doesn't explain why both would still be selfishly thinking to outsmart or convince the other party. Or is it a Nigerian thing?

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Is that all u are going to do. Pls make a constructive comment