You're in love with your ex

If you’re still pining for someone else, you can’t give a new relationship your all in good conscience. He can't be more than a rebound till you shake that (love) monkey off your back, girl!

You think you can hide it when you’re dating a guy to try to get over your last boyfriend, hoping that you’ll eventually develop feelings for him but, when you move forward when your heart is still wounded, you end up sabotaging your new relationship because you’re too afraid that this one will end just like the last one did.

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