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Pregnant For Sugar-daddy And Engaged To My Fiance by norahvivi: 4:59pm On Jun 26, 2013 |
i will like to go straight to the point cause i need your advice right now more than ever. I have this man that has been helping me out financially and he has been begging me to have a child for him that he will send me to any country to have my child. Although he has children with his wife but he said he want more children which the wife refused to give him. I have been insisting we use protection, but he always insist on skin to skin. Recently i noticed that i missed my period, so when i told him he gave me money for the test and said if it is positive i should DECIDE WHAT TO DO AND LET HIM KNOW. On my own side i don't really want to commit any sin by abortion cause my only brother who is married for the past 10yrs is childless and I'm thinking if i can have this child for my brother/family. Secondly my fiancee who is a pastor, wants us to get married before the end of the year. Please what should i do should? Do I explain things to him or just do things my way i.e relocating to somewhere else to have this child including abandoning my education and work? please i need your advice. please advice and not insult. 3 Likes |
Re: Pregnant For Sugar-daddy And Engaged To My Fiance by 25omega(m): 5:02pm On Jun 26, 2013 |
norahvivi: i will like to go straight to the point cause i need your advice right now more than ever, i have this man that has been helping me out financially and he has been begging me to have a child for me that he will send me to any country to have my child, although he has children with his wife but he said he want more children which the wife refused to give him more, i have been insisting we use protection but he always insist on skin to skin, well recently i noticed that i missed my period, so when i told him he gave me money for the test and said if it is positive i should DECIDE WHAT TO DO AND LET HIM KNOW, on my own side i don't really want to commit any sin by abortion cause my only brother who is married for the past 10yrs is childless and I'm thinking if i can have dis child for my brother/family.you knew skin to skin might result in pregnancy didnt you? well lay on the bed you have made for your self do your pastor fiance a favor and break up with him quick and since you don't think having sex with a married man is a sin then tell your sugar daddy so he can send you to england to have the baby (i will bet $5 that he is going to disappear on you) 28 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Pregnant For Sugar-daddy And Engaged To My Fiance by 2goodbobo(m): 6:04pm On Jun 26, 2013 |
You did not seek for advice when you were busy cheating on your fiance. Now that you are stuck, you want advice. My dear is your cross so carry it. You should be matured enough to decide what you want. 23 Likes |
Re: Pregnant For Sugar-daddy And Engaged To My Fiance by carzola(m): 6:22pm On Jun 26, 2013 |
Let he who is witout sin be the 1st to cast the stone, we all make mistakes in life due to ignorance.. I would advice you confes your sins to God and your pastor husband to be and acept your fate.. I know how emotionally down you would be but try and gather strength and courage to face what ever is coming your way.. I advice you find solace in the word of God. 16 Likes |
Re: Pregnant For Sugar-daddy And Engaged To My Fiance by MANGAM(m): 6:54pm On Jun 26, 2013 |
U ar nt serious. Wen u dey enjoy d tin u no ask for adive na nw u knw say u want advice. Carry cross 3 Likes |
Re: Pregnant For Sugar-daddy And Engaged To My Fiance by prospy04(m): 7:38pm On Jun 26, 2013 |
Congratulations my dear!!! 14 Likes |
Re: Pregnant For Sugar-daddy And Engaged To My Fiance by Dubemkelly(m): 8:31pm On Jun 26, 2013 |
Burst d bubble gurl n face d consequence 1 Like |
Re: Pregnant For Sugar-daddy And Engaged To My Fiance by Teespice(f): 7:50am On Jun 27, 2013 |
Wrongest place to seek for advice. OP, I hate to say this but it is this act of yours that will make the likes of 190 and dondav insult you and women in general. You had a relationship which was leading to marriage yet you threw it away by sleeping with a man who is married. Do yourself a favour, end whatever it is you have with the married man, tell your fiancé what has happened and seek for his forgiveness then start life afresh. Whether you abort the pregnancy or not is up to you because I cannot advise you to do anything to it. Let this serve as a lesson to you that you cannot eat your cake and have it back. My two cents. 28 Likes |
Re: Pregnant For Sugar-daddy And Engaged To My Fiance by excellent19982: 8:39am On Jun 27, 2013 |
great |
Re: Pregnant For Sugar-daddy And Engaged To My Fiance by raydatluvs(m): 9:05am On Jun 27, 2013 |
I tot women always knew wen it wasn't advicesable to have skin to skin sex frm d calculation of their cycle,just curious.well I tink u shud tell ur pastor finace and take wateva comes out of it as ur fate! |
Re: Pregnant For Sugar-daddy And Engaged To My Fiance by Spiff20(m): 11:04am On Jun 27, 2013 |
CONGRATULATIONS!!! ;DCONGRATULATIONS!!! 3 Likes |
Re: Pregnant For Sugar-daddy And Engaged To My Fiance by sexymoma(f): 11:20am On Jun 27, 2013 |
Pastor's Fiancee, Fornication On point, Abortion in the making, leaving school coming in... Girl You go Suffeeeeeer o. So tell me what do you want us to advice you about, when suger daddy dey shine your congo you call us for help even when he was lavishing money on you, you share with us, sorry o if am ash. But come to think of it what if you got married to that pastor, and one day you were called to preach about adultery or fornication what would you preach? My candid advise fo you is to tell your fiancee, he might have a forgiven heart like ma grand-pa. but come you told us that the promise to take to another country when you pregnant? sorry ehn 5 Likes |
Re: Pregnant For Sugar-daddy And Engaged To My Fiance by jmoore(m): 11:53am On Jun 27, 2013 |
Don't forget to invite us for the child's naming ceremony. 8 Likes |
Re: Pregnant For Sugar-daddy And Engaged To My Fiance by ladym: 12:26pm On Jun 27, 2013 |
my dear it terrible is your s to decide |
Re: Pregnant For Sugar-daddy And Engaged To My Fiance by Linoversace: 12:26pm On Jun 27, 2013 |
...Come clean to both parties and face the consequences. ...Tell the Sugar Daddy you are pregnant... and to your pastor that you have been cheating on him. 1 Like |
Re: Pregnant For Sugar-daddy And Engaged To My Fiance by olumaxi(m): 1:14pm On Jun 27, 2013 |
What do u want me to say? |
Re: Pregnant For Sugar-daddy And Engaged To My Fiance by Nobody: 1:53pm On Jun 27, 2013 |
Come out clean, tell your fiance u pregnant for another man, let him decide, right now you owe your man that much... face the consequences of your actions. |
Re: Pregnant For Sugar-daddy And Engaged To My Fiance by JERRY1925(m): 2:33pm On Jun 27, 2013 |
Come o are u not even ahsame |
Re: Pregnant For Sugar-daddy And Engaged To My Fiance by Vansnickers: 2:33pm On Jun 27, 2013 |
Future mummy G.O. in sugar daddy palava. LOL, and they call Atheists immoral. 1 Like |
Re: Pregnant For Sugar-daddy And Engaged To My Fiance by Nobody: 2:33pm On Jun 27, 2013 |
fake story...**yawns** 11 Likes |
Re: Pregnant For Sugar-daddy And Engaged To My Fiance by Nobody: 2:34pm On Jun 27, 2013 |
Van snickers: Future mummy G.O. in sugar daddy palava. LOL, and they call Atheists immoral. How do you know if the Op is not an atheist before being engaged to the faincee pastor 1 Like |
Re: Pregnant For Sugar-daddy And Engaged To My Fiance by BlackPeni5: 2:36pm On Jun 27, 2013 |
Lol...you don't want to abort because you don't want to commit a sin. So what do u call pre-marital sex by someone who has a fiance with a married man. Anyways, better report yourself to your Fiance b4 things get worse for you in the future. Or tell your sugar daddy to marry u an make you his second wife. 4 Likes |
Re: Pregnant For Sugar-daddy And Engaged To My Fiance by sylve11: 2:36pm On Jun 27, 2013 |
Na wa o! |
Re: Pregnant For Sugar-daddy And Engaged To My Fiance by Nobody: 2:37pm On Jun 27, 2013 |
except u abort the baby, u belong to the LIME-DADDY cos engagements can be broken. |
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