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This may sound crazy but i am seriously not myself right now. If i mention my name, you might be shocked because i am a bit popular, i stay in ajah lagos state and i am just 24years. i dont know where to start right now and i wouldnt want to bore you with my problem but i believe it is or has happened to alot of guys out there.

Ok, i met this girl back then in school and when she got a direct entry into my department, Gosh she was too pretty to be single but when we got talking she mentioned that she had no boyfriend. Although i was glad but still scared if i could manage and also maintain such a girl. You guys would agree with me that most boys oo, guys oo, men oo are maintainers when it comes to having a girl friend or even a wife, (if na lie oya prove me wrong).
Now as time went on, we got fond of each other and i believe the love started growing, but it was official that we where dating in our final year and seriously i felt i had found my soul-mate not knowing it was my soulmate hair cream i just found...lol. But nevertheless we where really good till we left school and went four our NYSC in lagos, we worked it sha..
While in camp, i noticed some strange behaviours and some strange atitude which she pulled up but i felt it was just one of those girly stuff. One day wen we went to maami market to eat, i noticed a ring on her hand and asked her when she got the ring, but she said it was jus a ring she saw at home and liked it. i wondered how a girl would just like an engagement ring. But in my usual way i ignored it and we continued gisting, but believe me that its not something you should just ignore, because i remember i once saw that ring back then in school when i went to visit her and asked her also and she said a friend of hers forgot it in her room. Now this was what got me thinking.
When i confronted her she started their usual cry and lectures of how it seems i don't trust her and how i was doubting her love for me. It really got to me though but as a guy, there are some precautions which we all need to take.
Now long story short, i went to visit her one day and saw some men in her house, it was obvious that the came to seek her hands in marriage, i called her aside and asked and to my greatest surprice she said to me and i quot "that man sitting by that end is my fiance".. For the first time in my life i fainted and woke up and still fainted again because it was like i was dreaming.
i was taken to a room where i had cold compress and when i regained, i asked her the Big question...WHY ME?
And then she told me that she was engaged to this guy like 6months before she got into my school but he traveled out for his professional course and he is ready to marry her now, and above all she Loves him alot.
But i wondered what we where doing all the while.

My problem now is, i have told my parents about her and my mum loves her so much and my dad can't wait to be a father inlaw and above all I LOVE HER like mad...
am so confused right now...what do i do?

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Singing*Cant believe that I'm a fool again!!!I tot this love would neva end....

*laughs aloud* pls op, give me sometime to laff abeg hahahahhaa..ehen *clears throat and adjust joko stool* well my son, ur problem is simple but disheartening . that's d problems of our Nigerian girl, I guess she must be from Edo state, our girls can abandon a decade-old raltionship and die after a man they've just met upon hearing the ' i'll marry you' word. anyways just take heart okay *pats him at the back*

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It happens, take heart and move on

I wish I were in your shoes. I just want a girl I'll be sharing with her man, when marriage pops up in her list I'll gladly step aside for her fiance to walk into the eternal bondage then I'll look for her type and continue

OP pls nd pls am waiting for part 2 of this tales by moon light .
I just hope your mom and Dad won't faint like you did

Op the topic should be " How I was friendzoned for two years by a girl" not dated your girl...

just simply tell your people, we are not meant to be.

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na wa oooo...
you no try. u found a soul mate and u didnt make quick effort to apply it on ur hair. take heart man, my sister never marry shaa and she is not engaged.

If your gist with ur girl doesn't revolve round marriage, O.Y.O is ur case, girls like the word marry and won't think twice before dumping ur sorry and so-called "love" a.s.s if U aren't serious.

No time for girls to waste, YES! To the man with the word" will U marry me"? First.

sorry ehn

Hmmm

These
...Ladies aren't loyal







She thought you a bitter lesson
Kia
••••• two can play the game•••••

Dts d power of a woman. Fear them o

u have been fooled.. next time shine ur eyes.. u should as a guy to be the one fooling girls not the other way round.. Wise up

I believe it's possible. girls are good coders.

Am not surprised

so u subscribe for friendzone for 2years....

After God fear woman and never you under estimate the power of a woman.

We chics can pretend even the devil won't even notice

This is a story for the gods, and it is only the gods that can solve it for you. Pele.

Hahahahaha *falls from chair. Op you are clearly inexperienced. I really give her credit for the way she played a boy like you in this modern time. Just learn from your experience.

Wow, eyaaaaah.

Mke I carry my chair sit dwn.