k2039: 54 views and no reply, that says a lot about the OP and his post.

lokito: Stupid post from an idiotic OP. Why shouldn't a guy control his woman to all these extent. As per social media, how will u feel when ur woman keeps pinging n chatting wt men online. U'll call it over-control abi? Nonsense write-up

Mynd_44: Nobody has time for anything that long abeg

idnoble135: A controlling guy will often
control even the things that
you’re supposed to be doing
as a team — such as where
you go on vacation, which
movie you rent that night, and what you have for
dinner.
Relationships can have all
kinds of issues and one of
them is men who are over-
controlling. I can’t say I’ve ever experienced that — if
anything, I’d love a guy who
takes a little more control! Ha!
But not if he overdid it. And a
lot of them do, unfortunately.
Men who try to control you are usually insecure. They
often come from
dysfunctional families where
they had no control over
anything, so they try to make
up for it by controlling their current life with you. It gives
them a false sense of power
— something they feel they
had none of as a child. They’re
often fearful you’re going to
leave (like maybe mommy or daddy did), so they think that
by controlling every little
thing, they’ll make it
impossible for you to do so. It
doesn’t even occur to them
that they’re actually driving you away. Here are eight
ways you know your man’s
controlling behavior is out of
control.
1. Your friends and family.
Controlling men will often try
to control access to who you
see and when. He often has a
problem with whoever he
thinks has the most influence over you, like a sister,
mother, or best friend. He’ll
come up with all kinds of
reasons this person is bad for
you, and if you ever hit a
rough patch with that person, he won’t let you forget it, and
will constantly say things like,
“Why would you want to be
friends with someone who
treats you so badly?” The gist
is that it’s only HE who has your best interests at heart
and therefore you should only
listen to HIM.
2. Finances.
Controlling guys will often
insist on being the ruler of the family finances, the one who
pays the credit cards, the one
who controls the bank
account, and you can only
spend money if you run it by
him first. Sometimes he will withhold money for
something small. Yet if you
want to get a job to earn
your own money, he comes
up with reasons why you
shouldn’t.
3. Social media.
A controlling guy will insist
on having the passwords to
your Facebook and email
accounts, and check your
phone to see who you’re calling. He’ll do this even if
you’ve never given him a
reason not to trust you, and
come up with some excuse
like he’s “protecting” you
from crazies on the Internet.
4. Your activities.
A controlling man hates it
when you go anywhere that
might mean you’re out from
under his control — even if
that is just the gym, or a friend’s house, or the park.
He’ll sabotage it in any way he
can think of. If ordering you
not to go doesn’t work, he
might pretend to be sick to
get you to stay home, or tell you that you can’t waste the
gas in the car, or accuse you of
trying to stay in shape so you
can attract other men.
5. The way you look.
A controlling guy will have something to say about every
aspect of your appearance,
from your clothes to your
weight to your makeup. Why
are you wearing eyeshadow
if you’re just going to the grocery store? You need to
lose/gain a few pounds.
You’re not really going to
wear those boots, are you?
Why won’t you dye your hair
red?
6. “Joint” activities.
A controlling guy will often
control even the things that
you’re supposed to be doing
as a team — such as where
you go on vacation, which movie you rent that night,
and what you have for
dinner.
7. “Womanly duties.”
Often a controlling guy will
make it seem abnormal if you want to have any choices or
power or control by having a
séxist, misogynistic attitude
that declares that women
should do the chores, or wives
should always cook for their husbands, or mothers should
never work or have time to
themselves away from the
kids.
8. Séx.
It’s always when he wants it, and how he wants it. If you
try to take control in that
area, he shuts down, or makes
you feel “dirty,” or suddenly
has no séxual interest.
The only real way for a guy to loosen his controlling grip is
with the realization that what
he is doing is destroying the
relationship and that he needs
to figure out why he’s trying
so hard to control life. Then he needs outside help via
counseling, support groups,
behavioral therapy, etc.
Source: www..com/talk/topic,158735.0.html

ahmmyreal: if women should be in control, they should be d one dropping d money. how about that?

ahmmyreal: if women should be in control, they should be d one dropping d money. how about that?

promisengr: So Op u want women to start controlling men to the extent of whippin up this shi't of them know when men are out of control? ur ful of SHI'T!

lokito:

Don't mind d OP, he's nufin but a woman_wrapper. If u can't contrl ur wife then u'v nt startd. #shikena#

promisengr: So Op u want women to start controlling men to the extent of whippin up this shi't of them know when men are out of control? ur ful of SHI'T!

REALITY101:

What's up bro

idnoble135:
am fine oh, you?

Mrs.Chima:
Still reading and peeing.

Mynd_44:
Witch

Mrs.Chima:
Still reading and peeing.

Mynd_44:
Witch