Am tired of the various threads on nairaland blaming d girls all dtime about all d gross sexual promiscuity going on in d our country presently. In actuall fact most of d blame falls on we guys due to the fact dat we guys r neva satisfied with wateva girl we find ourselves with we always want more, well economics said human want is insatiable but it did nt say it is nt controlable dats y economist invented scale of preference and other fins to curtail and control our wants. So in turn we guys shld learn how to curtail our wants when it comes to our sexuall urge.
I know most will say is it nt dis girls dat wear skimpy cloths to seduce us bt wait oo let's look at it from anoda perspective. You knw ladies generally trive on relationships though most will deny it bt d actuall fact is dat ladies thrive on relationships with pple especially d opposite sex. So what happens to a decently dressed girl with a good hrt who is lonely and needs a man in her life bt is getting non bt instead she sees her fellow lady who is dressed so seductively geting all d male attention, so dis girl is of d notion dat to get d attention or companion she needs she as to dress lyk dis girl only to find out dat when its time 4 marriage dis same men turn dia attention away 4rm her and go to a lady who is decently dressed and end up calling her a loose girl to which she tot she was jst being generous and understanding. What of d decently dressed girl who even as a bf or husband sef but she keeps noticing dat her man keeps lookn outside at those skimpyly dressed ladies outside so she trys to emulate those girls outside so her hubby will look at her and b satisfied with her.
With this various illustrations we can see we men take part of d blame if we can control our ees and show dis girls dat dey dnt hv to b naked to get our attention tins will definitely b beta. Some will say no 1 is perfect bt yes we can work towards perfection its possible to stick 2 1 partner.
Don't get me wrong am nt sayn am holy or am nt guilty of dis too dats y I said "we" and dat does nt mean d girls don't hv dis own faults too dats y I said "we take part of d blame" nt all. In summary both sexes hv a part to play in makn tins beta so enough with d BS of putting all d blames on d ladies. So pls men fnk with ur brain nt ur joystick u can neva b satisfied u can't bleep dem all so its logical reasoning dat sticking to 1 partner is d perfect solution and 4 those who dnt want a relationship pls try to abstein 4rm sex until u get into 1. I hope I made sense.
Das all

*sits on d chair with a bottle of zobo and fura dey nunu with my guguru and epa* oya let d bashing begin

^ ^How much did they pay you?

sKeetz: ^ ^How much did they pay you?

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LOL.....No be small money make saka port now!


Honestly we guys also need to focus on d decent girls and stop flashing money on those material freak...with that we 'd encourage d decent once and d material freaks will reduce gradually.

Lol nah free I do am ooo bt una knw sey nah true I talk nah
See 174 views and only three comments haha see serious talk nw pple no won talk

i never thought i would comment on all these blaming threads
actually a pathetic waste of time for me
because i always wish to believe those write ups are just for fun and not what people actually think

but no harm done in supporting a rational thinker once in a while
i bet killing your moral is not a option

so kudos bro!!! my view has a comment attached

uniqueren: i never thought i would comment on all these blaming threads
actually a pathetic waste of time for me
because i always wish to believe those write ups are just for fun and not what people actually think

but no harm done in supporting a rational thinker once in a while
i bet killing your moral is not a option

so kudos bro!!! my view has a comment attached

Wow cool

I can't bliv dis r u sayn every1 reading dis thread agree with me can't imagine no 1 as insulted me or brought somfin contruary to my article

Awkay Ѱє̲̣̣̣̥ haf yard

Yes, pass the blame around. -_-

Seems like the women want to take back the night

What an epistle

Pple are busy bashing each other on another thread. When they are done they will surely come here

They say it takes two to tango.

true talk my guy thumb up for u

mondi_cheeks: Pple are busy bashing each other on another thread. When they are done they will surely come here

They will surely. BTW, which group are you? The feminists or the women bashers?

You peeps indeed have all the time

Hope y'all are getting paid for all these

U guys knw am sayn d plain truth I did nt jst put d blame on 1 person lyk dat jst lyk a comment I read above it actually takes 2 to tangle

Its jst a peace of advice and am still waiting 4 d mada self-servicer dat will say am wrong

Mynd_44:
They will surely. BTW, which group are you? The feminists or the women bashers?

I'm a feminist

debayun: So what happens to a decently dressed girl with a good hrt who is lonely and needs a man in her life bt is getting non bt instead she sees her fellow lady who is dressed so seductively geting all d male attention, so dis girl is of d notion dat to get d attention or companion she needs she as to dress lyk dis girl only to find out dat when its time 4 marriage dis same men turn dia attention away 4rm her and go to a lady who is decently dressed and end up calling her a loose girl to which she tot she was jst being generous and understanding.

What happened to her?.. Two common diseases called LOW SELF ESTEEM and HERD MENTALITY has eroded her senses and reduced her to a i-must-be-in-a-relationship-cos-others-are level..

I pity not, those ladies. Some men go for the super seductive ones as you said, to have FUN/SEX, but put on their thinking cap when they wanna settle down. What does that tell you?.. INNER BEAUTY AND INTELLIGENCE is what a reasonable guy goes for at the end of the day.


The low self esteemed ones can keep deluding themselves by going semi-n*ude to hook up guys, when time to settle down draws near, they get overlooked. It's common sense

And oh, I'm not talking about those girls that dress moderately sexy and classy for clubbing(not going n*aked all in the name of partying), clubbing has it's own clothes, I'm talking about those that dress scantily ALL freaking times!!.

Well, they can carry go, it's their life, after all,p0rnstars lives a happy married life. To each, his own sha

mondi_cheeks: I'm a feminist

Oh good. I am a pop-corn eater

Mynd_44:
Oh good. I am a pop-corn eater

u are a feminist too?

headache became worst after reading this

gree-die:


u are a feminist too?

I eat pop-corn. I don't bother about the worries of the world anymore since a lot of people on both sides are just confused

d op at d top makes sense. This is a fair assessment. I like.

princesa: headache became worst after reading this

Mynd_44:
I eat pop-corn. I don't bother about the worries of the world anymore since a lot of people on both sides are just confused

Oh man! Pop corn sounds so good. I'ma make some right now. Care to join me. hahahahahahaha

lalaosky:


What happened to her?.. Two common diseases called LOW SELF ESTEEM and HERD MENTALITY has eroded her senses and reduced her to a i-must-be-in-a-relationship-cos-others-are level..

I pity not, those ladies. Some men go for the super seductive ones as you said, to have FUN/SEX, but put on their thinking cap when they wanna settle down. What does that tell you?.. INNER BEAUTY AND INTELLIGENCE is what a reasonable guy goes for at the end of the day.

Y
The low self esteemed ones can keep deluding themselves by going semi-n*ude to hook up guys, when time to settle down draws near, they get overlooked. It's common sense

And oh, I'm not talking about those girls that dress moderately sexy and classy for clubbing(not going n*aked all in the name of partying), clubbing has it's own clothes, I'm talking about those that dress scantily ALL freaking times!!.

Well, they can carry go, it's their life, after all,p0rnstars lives a happy married life. To each, his own sha

Yeah u are totally right bt there is 1 fin there will always b girls with low self esteem duue to dia variance in temperament so wat am sayn is dat we guys shld nt make situations worse 4 dem let's show dem dat dey dnt need to join d clique b4 we ask dem out let's gradually shun and discourage those 1s dressed lyk porn-stars in a matter of time indecency will fade out cos decency will nw b d new sexy

You must agree with me dat dis is a good plan if guys can just follow it nobody will b hurt at d end of d day

princesa: headache became worst after reading this

4 christ sake hw d article take gv u headache? U dis ladies if nah abuse I abuse una nw una go dey lament I no even abuse anybody sef its jst a simple advice

What does it matter..give me nyansh and i bash...case settled

texanomaly:
Oh man! Pop corn sounds so good. I'ma make some right now. Care to join me. hahahahahahaha

That's a good idea

Mynd_44:
That's a good idea

Trying to cheer you up...you have been so morose of late...

texanomaly:
Trying to cheer you up...you have been so morose of late...

I know I have...thanks

Mynd_44:
I'm know I have...thanks

I sorry to be a derail-er...but is there anything I can do to help? PM if you like...although I did not get the one's sent today...try though please...I worry about you.