hi nairalanders i think i am the shyest guy on earth can any girl fall in love with me

not with this attitude.

maybe you should try loving first, instead of waiting for someone to love you.

Attacking him will definitely make him less shy. Better still, why not insult and debase him?

U need to over come ur shyness. . .
Try hanging out with more pple.
mingle and socialize a lot more

yes.There is always someone out dia 4 everyone.

@tpia

not with this attitude.

maybe you should try loving first, instead of waiting for someone to love you.

sometime i wonder how some pple think, can u pls read the post again n again b4 posting pls?

This guy says he is a shy person n he is asking if its possible for any girl to luv him simple.
how can someone who is shy luv 1st, where is the gut / confidence going to come from?

@mayorde

i think u should just try n build ur confidence gradually, take ur time on this just mix with ladies often ok.

1 more thing always ask urself this qtion anytime ''WHAT WILL I DO IF I WERE'NT AFRAID?'' this is not only applicable to luv matters alone ok, it works alot.

I am part of this.

mayorde:

hi nairalanders i think i am the shyest guy on earth can any girl fall in love with me

hi nairalanders i think i am the shyest babe on earth can any guy fall in love witn me

Attacking him will definitely make him less shy.  

Good, only if its in a costructive manner

Better still, why not insult and debase him?

its not gud enuf , it will only bring him down dat same lane.(shyness)

Oscar J:

@tpia

sometime i wonder how some people think, can u please read the post again n again before posting please?

This guy says he is a shy person n he is asking if its possible for any girl to love him simple.

how can someone who is shy love 1st, where is the gut / confidence going to come from?

@mayorde

i think u should just try n build your confidence gradually, take your time on this just mix with ladies often ok.

1 more thing always ask yourself this qtion anytime ''WHAT WILL I DO IF I WERE'NT AFRAID?'' this is not only applicable to love matters alone ok, it works alot.

I am part of this.

someone asking if its possible for any girl to love him, has[b] serious[/b] self confidence issues.

he is a man- you feel he needs to be mollycoddled like a woman?

maybe na woman sha.

besides, check the thread title- he said he wants to be loved. Sometimes its better to give love first, then you receive it. Even if you're starting a business, you invest something first, not to mention matters of the heart.

If I ask someone this kind of question, i hope i'd receive the same answer i myself gave.

he has to build his self worth first or else he'll never get out of the rut.

at least my own comment will spark a definite reaction in him. Yours will help him feel more sorry for himself.

Seun:

Attacking him will definitely make him less shy. Better still, why not insult and debase him?

Seun, I am of the opinion that you came down too hard on our "Mr. Shyguy". I know of fellas who have travelled down that route b4 and i can tell you that brother has got a big issue @hand. Lets rally round him and beat the shy outta him.

mayorde:

hi nairalanders i think i am the shyest guy on earth can any girl fall in love with me

At this day and age in naija with all the fine fine girls everywhere you're telling me you're too shy to talk or catch to one of them?

Anyway here is your solution:
First thing - You have to build up self confidence and make sure you're very open minded (don't hold back on anything ) Also you need to speak out more and stop keeping everything inside (either good or bad-  believe me there is someone out there willing to listen) talk to your friends, family, if your sister have friends - communicate with them - no toasting o  
In case you don't know, the more you communicate, the more you'll build up your self confidence =  being less shy.
Also make sure you keep a very positive attitude towards everything in life
Bro, the world is a very big place to explore and being shy will not help you at all, so common chase that shyness out of that body and go and catch them fine fine chicks

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-1634.0.html

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-135453.0.html

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-135349.0.html

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-135114.0.html

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-131300.0.html

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-550.0.html

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-133344.0.html

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-134641.0.html

So?

tytylayor:

hi nairalanders i think i am the shyest babe on earth can any guy fall in love witn me

nobody go answer me

na wa o

welli is ur bro a banker?

nobody go answer me  

na wa o

my dear if i see ur pics, then i can start ,

check my profile na, u'll see ma baby there

i did,

its not appealing.

NB

i dont want u to ve power n den break my head.

Hy bros baabun kunya fa,just be open and said wat is in ur mind. wawaaaaaaaaaaaaaa.

ohhhh lawwwwwwwwwwwdyyy, wanna be my boss? nah, cozz i'll break ya head

@ tyty my bro isn't a banker but he can offer you tins a banker cannot

@poster
u're funny but i dont see any reason why ladies can fall for u. . . to be continue. . .

not dat kind of a boss ooooo!

U no wat i mean!

welli:

@ tyty my bro isn't a banker but he can offer you tins a banker cannot

like wat?

Oscar J:

not that kind of a boss ooooo!

You no what i mean!

expatiate

I believe Seun was actually calling people to order. This poor guy comes here for help and what does he get? Insults. . .is that supposed to help him get over his shyness?


@ Poster
There are girls out there who don't like brash loudmouths, so you will definitely find your soul mate. . . don't worry.

tyty,like . . . . .  

make u feel confident n ease around me then give u luv.

Sisikill:


@ Poster
There are girls out there who don't like brash loudmouths, so you will definitely find your soul mate. . . don't worry.

Like 1% and they would even be already taken by the other shy dudes

Hi tboy, can i know ya?

------>Poster


Yes it is very possible for you to be loved. . .
No matter how ''shy'' you are. . girls would come to you if your game is iight. . just chill. . .errthing is gonna be iight.
But then . . . .Try to get sum confidence bro!

But i just wonder most times when someone brings a simple question here. . .
Some people tend to spew so many pathetic irrelevant replies that has got noting to do with the question being asked. . . ^*sighs*