What do you do if your girlfriend seems to be pulling
back from the relationship?

Do you try to beg her to give you more attention?

No.

Do you act jealous and suspect there's another man?

No.

Do you fight with her or get angry because you're
putting more into the relationship than she is?

No.

What you should do is to pull back from the
relationship, even MORE than she does.

Why? Because when a woman pulls back from a
relationship, it's shows there's something WRONG. It's shows
her ATTRACTION for you is LOWERING.

It shows her attraction for you has sunk to a point
that it can't overcome all the ex-forces or "tiny problems"
in the relationship anymore. It also shows she needs some
breathing room.

At this point, if you force her to "work things out",
you will only end up pushing her AWAY since you have one foot
in the negative zone already.

So instead of pushing her away from you, you should
PULL BACK and see how she reacts.

If you pull back while a woman still has a certain
amount of attraction and "romantic respect" for you, she
WILL freak out and give you more attention.

But if she doesn't even notice you have pulled back,
or if she doesn't care at all, then that's a sign the
relationship is over. It's time to move on.


PROS, are my correct? it works like magic

I agree with you but it could be one of those catch 22 situations. If you pull back; you don't love her. If you keep trying; then you are a mugu because you don't get the message.

u r correct.

@poster

You let her be.

@Steroid101

well said ! show a woman u are a pro in d game and she will forever crave ur attention else . . . .

@poster
Not bad.I agree with you,tho i'm wondering why a woman would start to pull back if a guy actually puts as much into the relationship as you make it seem
Attraction doesn't just die,its a gradual thing.

@Kit
Dr Kitaun? Wetin you do ?Interesting reading your views on Romance.You're rarely up in here

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no, you live her alone and let her do her thang. . .trying to pressure her back into the r/ship is going to make it worse

@Cristalz

I got dragged back here by some wahala-making peeps jare . . .

anyways, Seun banned me from posting n I just gott me a new handle

just take ur leave and let it all go

Let her be and face the ones that likes you

@ Poster,
U are very correct.
Thats how to do it.
Cheers

You're correct.
It works with the men folks too.