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| I'm 30, She's 18 Can I Marry Her? by 1Music2luv(m): 1:16pm On May 26, 2008 |
Hi Guys, Intelligence & Smartness is what takes me off my feet in ladies. Recently i met a girl that has all these stuffs, we started dating, but the problem is that she is still young, she's 18yrs old. I actually wanted a relationship that will lead to marriage. But i found myself dating her, we are in luv wit each other. The issue is , do u think this will work out ? do you think this can lead to marriage? or should i wait for while b4 talking of that? Should i continue to encourage her or Quit? I'm confused. |
| Re: I'm 30, She's 18 Can I Marry Her? by Nobody: 1:28pm On May 26, 2008 |
Personally, i think the age gap is too much, 12 years? but love is blind sha |
| Re: I'm 30, She's 18 Can I Marry Her? by holythug(m): 1:38pm On May 26, 2008 |
as long as u both want each other . . .apart from love to me what really matters is understanding |
| Re: I'm 30, She's 18 Can I Marry Her? by welli(f): 1:42pm On May 26, 2008 |
holythug: u tuk this out of my mind.SENSE! |
| Re: I'm 30, She's 18 Can I Marry Her? by holythug(m): 1:50pm On May 26, 2008 |
1st time a NLander is makin a good comments on me. . .halleluyah |
| Re: I'm 30, She's 18 Can I Marry Her? by welli(f): 1:55pm On May 26, 2008 |
hahahha.more of first time u re making sense on nairaland   |
| Re: I'm 30, She's 18 Can I Marry Her? by frank316(m): 1:56pm On May 26, 2008 |
u dont need nairalanders to tell you what is right or wrong. in this case, the choice is yours, an eighteen year old girl is matured enof to know what she wants, as long as she wants you despite your age, why are u worried. she should be the one posting this and not you. or is she complaining? cant you handle her because she is so young? what exactly is ur problem? |
| Re: I'm 30, She's 18 Can I Marry Her? by tngtech(m): 2:20pm On May 26, 2008 |
as long there is understanding. |
| Re: I'm 30, She's 18 Can I Marry Her? by Nobody: 2:24pm On May 26, 2008 |
poster:  I would not want my 18 year old daughter to marry a 30 year old man. . .no offense But good luck sha |
| Re: I'm 30, She's 18 Can I Marry Her? by achinu(m): 3:11pm On May 26, 2008 |
she still has some growing up to do ma guy!! |
| Re: I'm 30, She's 18 Can I Marry Her? by TOYOSI20(f): 3:20pm On May 26, 2008 |
Getting married isn't the problem  , it is the willingness and ability to be able to cope after the marriage,  U both must be ready to make a lot of sacrifices and be extremly patient and accommodating, Well all the best in Ur final decision.  |
| Re: I'm 30, She's 18 Can I Marry Her? by Raimond(m): 3:27pm On May 26, 2008 |
At 18, if she has attained mental maturity,i don`t think it should be a problem, you can work things out, and things will always work out.All the best |
| Re: I'm 30, She's 18 Can I Marry Her? by Nobody: 3:28pm On May 26, 2008 |
I don't kno why i don't kno what to say  |
| Re: I'm 30, She's 18 Can I Marry Her? by elizabetta(f): 3:32pm On May 26, 2008 |
It depends on the both of you |
| Re: I'm 30, She's 18 Can I Marry Her? by Godalone(m): 3:36pm On May 26, 2008 |
My wife was a little bit above 18 years when i married her and she was very matured at that age.Age is very minor when it comes to marriage but being matured matters |
| Re: I'm 30, She's 18 Can I Marry Her? by Nobody: 3:37pm On May 26, 2008 |
Godalone:I have to agree with that  |
| Re: I'm 30, She's 18 Can I Marry Her? by Cayon(f): 2:04am On May 27, 2008 |
age is just a number |
| Re: I'm 30, She's 18 Can I Marry Her? by Akinagirl(f): 6:23am On May 27, 2008 |
Well, she is 18, she is of legal age, why not. But, why can you not find a girl closer to your age, maybe for more of the same experiance? But, if that is what you both want, go for it. 1 Like |
| Re: I'm 30, She's 18 Can I Marry Her? by 702: 11:35pm On May 27, 2008 |
oh yes sure u cud marry her! just take ur time wiv her mayb until she's like 21! We knw 18 @ dis info age kinda know wassup, but still give her tym! NO RUSH IN LYF!! Age gap of 12 is not terribly bad tz ok as far as u guyz gotta mutual understandin'! |
| Re: I'm 30, She's 18 Can I Marry Her? by Nobody: 11:39pm On May 27, 2008 |
Cayon:That was then This is now. . . Age contributes to many problems. . .crime, health, etc. . . |
| Re: I'm 30, She's 18 Can I Marry Her? by omoovie(f): 11:44pm On May 27, 2008 |
NOOO you pedohouse reject!! Ok that was a bit harsh sorry. My point is, she's too young. Give her a bit of time to really explore who SHE is then maybe reconsider when she's @ least 25. At 30 yrs I expect you would have been with every type of woman. She however is untried. I was there just a relationship ago (me 19, him 29). Due to that relationship I've sworn off Naija men for a long while. Trust me. Lay off her. She's still a child and you are a full grown adult and this relationship borders on pedophilia. Stick with somenone closer to your age or within your age group (25 - 32 bracket). When you were 11 them just dey consider am. |
| Re: I'm 30, She's 18 Can I Marry Her? by eldee(m): 11:50pm On May 27, 2008 |
omoovie:How is he a pedo? Are they not both adults? Think of it like this, if she were 30 and him 50 What's the big thing there? @frank If you feel she's ur rib, and she's willing to kick it Then the ball is in your halfcourt |
| Re: I'm 30, She's 18 Can I Marry Her? by madamkoko: 11:55pm On May 27, 2008 |
age is NOT "nothing" but a number. I think that at 18 a gal has not gained adequate life expereinces and life expereinces matter, for you, for the marriage, for perception, and most importantly for her children, How can someone truly "train"her children if she is a child herself or for that matter has not had too many life experiences, If you loved her, I would recommend to give her more time, at least wait till 21, for her to expereince life more.  |
| Re: I'm 30, She's 18 Can I Marry Her? by Nobody: 11:56pm On May 27, 2008 |
madamkoko:Thanks for that clarification jare |
| Re: I'm 30, She's 18 Can I Marry Her? by henry007(m): 11:57pm On May 27, 2008 |
imagine some ridiculous comments, i hope u're not paying attention 2 some 18th century bullshyt excuses; my advice is go ahead nothing do u jare ahah please i'm trying sef 2 accept dat of 60 and 15 and u're here asking please start sending out invitations jare if i recall kanu nwankwo married his wife at 18, how old was he  ?? |
| Re: I'm 30, She's 18 Can I Marry Her? by madamkoko: 12:07am On May 28, 2008 |
henry007 i actually think that marrying young is 18th century and women choosing to marry later is more of a 21st centruy phenomenon. Because they go to school, have careers and what not. |
| Re: I'm 30, She's 18 Can I Marry Her? by eldee(m): 12:10am On May 28, 2008 |
To think madamkoko:What's the difference between an 18year old and a 21 year old? 3years He said he saw her intelligence, that should give her the ability to make her choices About her chidren, She'll prolly not be a mum till she's 21 She doesn't need to face the tough stage till she's 24 or sumn And believe me, responsibility brings out the best in some people. It's now medically advised to have your kids early, and then grow up looking sexy at 30's to 60's |
| Re: I'm 30, She's 18 Can I Marry Her? by henry007(m): 12:15am On May 28, 2008 |
well u have a point there but anything that's bizzare in this century is considered as something of the old u get? i'm expecting people 2 take it as somthing normal and not the archaic thing the old school thing. he shldn't listen 2 people who think a 12 yr gap is old school |
| Re: I'm 30, She's 18 Can I Marry Her? by 702: 12:20am On May 28, 2008 |
i quite agree wiv u dat itz good 2 marry early!! If she cud handle it @ 18, nufin stops her, !!! that's his package n he shud knw wassup!!! |
| Re: I'm 30, She's 18 Can I Marry Her? by abasifo(m): 12:35am On May 28, 2008 |
come ON Mennnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn is ALL ABOUT LOVE |
| Re: I'm 30, She's 18 Can I Marry Her? by Nobody: 12:37am On May 28, 2008 |
Wetin be love again? Bros, it's not all abt Love. If you ppl still believe in that concepts no wonder we now have increasing divorce cases worldwide. Loff ko loaf ni |
| Re: I'm 30, She's 18 Can I Marry Her? by Sodgi(m): 12:42am On May 28, 2008 |
Do you have to come here to get an answer to your stupid question, why not approach the gurls family and see if there in support of your adventure.  |
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