I'm dating a 31yr old lady and am 32yrs old is it advicable.but I'v wanted a girl 5yrs younger,a doctor and a virgin of the same belief(church).

please advice properly because I'v been a virgin all my life till date.

Why are you with someone different from what you want?
Why are you wanting someone different from who you're with?
You get the point I'm making? Why the disconnect? It's either you settle for what you have or you leave it to go look for what you want.

I'l tell you my story. I wanted a blond-haired blue-eyed woman but I got a true African shorty. Today, I live well. At peace. Content. And the bedroom thing, Great!!!

See it wasn't what I wanted but it turned out to be what I needed and I'm forever grateful for that. So keep that in mind.

By the way, the Chinese always say "be careful what you wish for. You just might get it"