A guy has been dating a girl for 4yrs, she is 26 now, he has an average job and has been saving for years. He managed to save 1.2m, a friend who came in from US is traveling back, and wants to sell his car worth 2.5m to him for 1m. He used the car in naija for 3months.

He is wondering if he buys the car with his savings, though he can survive on salary, will the girl feel, he shld have used the money to pay her bride price and car later. As she has been talking much about marriage lately.

If you are the guy, which will you do first? If you we're the girl will you wait for him to save up again for wedding or will u follow an already made suitor?

The girl is still quit young, he can buy d car if he actually think he needs the car, am sure no guy dis days will want to get married without having a car to move arnd wit the wife. My opinion though.

The young girls is first daughter and first child. She has turned down many suitors for the guy and still have a lot of them still waiting for her to say yes.

He father is the type that tells stories of when he met the wife he had nothing and he believes in potential.

However, they are not yet engaged and the girl fills that when he gets a car now, he will change and start carrying girls around. She is serving and hoping to get a job soon. That is why I believe she is talking about them starting small before a car.