you dont need to kill yourself, simply tell her you will send it, that she should go to bed, before long she will see the following morning, there is nothing like a text msg from the heart, its so luvly rather put up one scrappy stuff simply because you must.

send one whenever you feel like it, its more romantic.

phulease,for ur gud. . . send her texts now dat u can for a tym mite cum wen u no longer can

@ topic
no be you want babe?

im sure you wont want a situation whereby some other guy will start sending your babe romantic sms's when you ought to send

its a free world, everybody is free to send sms's to whoever they please, i really think you dont need to kill yourself, relationship is fun when there isnt burden on anyone, compelling you to send one every night can become a burden for me, considering the days stress,i might end up switching off my set,which i wouldnt want to do, na force to send sms if i dont feel like it, if another guy wants to and she appreciates it then let them go ahead.

uhm. . . free world

@zheroes

funny one there, but i sense some wisdom in it. 

@saucekid

shit happens mayne 

girls always wanna be pampered, I wonder why! selfish sex!

@ jassie
shit always happens

@ 4got . . . nd u love being pushed around abi?

he sure loves it

obviously!

heheheheh

If Adam can't please Eve, my guy, there absolutely nothing you can do to please such babe.

I send txt to my girl if/when I feel like not as a mandatory thing before me or her go to sleep! I really don't see myself going through the stress of sending a txt after talking to her for hours on the phone and telling her "I LOVE YOU" before getting off the phone! _{pleasing naija babes is fast becoming tougher than even a white/western woman GGGG} ^{wonder who txt them when phone no dey naija}

@saucekid and welli
una no well at all!

@price

exactly, i wonder why naija babes are being over-sensitive towards non important issues.

hmm, I think my girl is getting more relaxed nowadays, however she still insists on texts even after I call her for hours! odd world!

@ jassie
how we go well when u be tap

@poster, to answer your question:
, in case you haven't noticed, some girls are very sensitive and maybe your girl is one of them
, just maybe it makes her feel good thinking your text is the last thing she sees before going to bed every night, not all girls are like that!
, and girls like it when u r just honest and straight foward, no need promising her you will send it when u know you wont
, and please if it's text messages she wants please SEND her some for crying out loud u r lucky she isn't asking for more than that! and make sure she understands that u can't send them as often as she wants!!

@luvbug

u gawt some points there, i'm doing my good

Oh My God, Okay, is your girlfriend psycho or what? Why cant she just leave you alone. Its good enough that you two could talk on the phone daily. I think she wants you to be romantic but you are just not that person. Ask her why does she want you to be someone which you are not? If she she still insist, if I were you, just ignore her and dont bother untill she knows that you are not just that person. Besides, SMS is not the most important thing in the world,

Some people are just born in Koo Koo Land,

I don't buy that sensitive crap _{chicken wey dey drunk never see vulture wey dey mad}
I'm sensitive! my heart is fragile!! where do some of you girls get this crap from? or those thing apply only to your boyfriend? what happen to the strong African woman? how confortable are you insisting on something that makes your partner unconfortable? the guy said its killing him!! he don't like to do it everynight!!
my question still remain how many txt msgs did she recieve daily when cell phone never enter naija?
_{maybe she wasn't sensitive then!}

prince_onx:

I don't buy that sensitive crap _{chicken wey dey drunk never see vulture wey dey mad}
I'm sensitive! my heart is fragile!! where do some of you girls get this crap from? or those thing apply only to your boyfriend? what happen to the strong African woman? how confortable are you insisting on something that makes your partner unconfortable? the guy said its killing him!! he don't like to do it everynight!!
my question still remain how many txt msgs did she recieve daily when cell phone never enter naija?
_{maybe she wasn't sensitive then!}

You can still be sensitive and strong.

You need to tell her that sms cost money. If she wants you to send her romantic text messages every night, she needs to start paying for your plan. Either that or tell her that it's not going to happen anymore. You need to man up and set some boundaries, or she's always going to demand useless crap from you to make her "happy."

instead of texting her, send her something through email. recite some poetry or just some erotic words. a simple i love also works

thanks for the advice onyinye, but she's way deeper than u think.

i've been ignoring her for some days now and now she's begging for some attention. at least i dont have to send wahala sms allnite. _{smart me}

just do what you feel is right. but i personally think it is something more deeper than just wanting a txt message every night. but that is just me.

well u might be right, i think its not really about the SMS, she wants a feeling of belonging and wants to know if she's on my mind all the time.

@ poster
omo wa 'se o ri se!

[s]chealsea_1
na waooooo guys with complain, this is just sms and you are complaining wait until she starts asking you for OWO[/s]

thank u ooooooo me i dnt understand 9ja guys
jst 5p text dey re complaing
they have nt meet difficilt gal dat will dry THEM UP big tyme

@ poster if dat is wat she want then give init
na u wnt babe so deal with it and stop da question

everything has its limit so even sending text messages self go get limit.
things like dat happens when its just puppy love, but u dont expect me to send u text messages all the time 2yrs down the line?
abeg lets be realistic, sending dem messages sometimes cud be as hard as jamb qst becos u wud try so fucig hard to get the right words.

well poster keep sending sha until una tire for the routine, then u will try smething else.

just buy this book on text messages and send them 2 her as she pleases.

my dear the fact that you r not romantic doesnt mean she is disturbing you.your girl is romantic and feel like u reasurring her of your love wht abt it,if u dnt want 2 crack your brain you buy text messages book and use.simple want to say i love u and tinking abt u will just so bro go and equip yourself and stop complaining.end of discussion

the fact that u r not romantic doesnt mean yor girl is complaining.there are many text messages book and simple i love yu and i miss you will send the message she might be very romantic ad seeing your text be4 she sleeps reassures her of your love so bro think of how to satisfy her than complaining if u really love her ok.end of discussion