Deep inside us, their exist love, but often times we hold back for fear of not being reciprocated or due to lack of trust. Who is guilty of this dwindling trust?

Of course, Naija gurls.

Naija men. . .most of them are bag of #!#!@. , Bushmen, once they see a girl greeting another guy, it means she's cheating. so they start holding back. . .but who gives a @!!# anywaz

Naija men of course!!!
With that their big ponmo heads.
They like to feel like they know too much and can get any girl they want. That’s the mistake most of them make.

buzyDiva:

Naija men of course!!!
With that their big ponmo heads.
They like to feel like they know too much and can get any girl they want. That’s the mistake most of them make.

Have u forgotten our pact?

One thing I know about Naija babes :

Thier shakara and Gra Gra too much  

~Xerxes~:

Have u forgotten our pact?

ooppsss . . .my bad
didn't know u were on sweetie  

Uche2nna:

One thing I know about Naija babes :

Thier shakara and Gra Gra too much

if she no do gra gra now . . una go talk say she too cheap!

Uche2nna:

One thing I know about Naija babes :

Thier shakara and Gra Gra too much

Yes, but you're loving it

I second that Uche

they will front, and believe they must play hard to get to show they are not 'cheap', arrant nonsense.

guys have their wahala too , but they go all out in chasing the women more often than not, while the woman is trying not to show that she is 'gbaduning' the guy's moves because of this same 'cheap' thing. They have completely mixed up expressing yourself with having self respect/values. But I guess its caused in part by those stupid naija men who believe shakara + yanga is a sign that she is 'valuable'. My conclusion? Both naija men and women have serious ISSUES.

I personally detest all this shakara nonsense, the worst part is that some deluded women think all men enjoy it.

. . .depends on the individuals involved.

debosky:

I second that Uche

they will front, and believe they must play hard to get to show they are not 'cheap', arrant nonsense.

guys have their wahala too , but they go all out in chasing the women more often than not, while the woman is trying not to show that she is 'gbaduning' the guy's moves because of this same 'cheap' thing. They have completely mixed up expressing yourself with having self respect/values. But I guess its caused in part by those stupid naija men who believe shakara + yanga is a sign that she is 'valuable'. My conclusion? Both naija men and women have serious ISSUES.

I personally detest all this shakara nonsense, the worst part is that some deluded women think all men enjoy it.

Only if men are not the cause of it. ,
If we say yes right away, we're too cheap
If we say yes, later on after the chase, we play hard to get. .
If we say no, it's a yes for you men
Do men make sense most of the time?

@debo,

those girls wey they front for u are correct babe.
They know and can smell that u is a "FAKE"

debosky:

I second that Uche

they will front, and believe they must play hard to get to show they are not 'cheap', arrant nonsense.

guys have their wahala too , but they go all out in chasing the women more often than not, while the woman is trying not to show that she is 'gbaduning' the guy's moves because of this same 'cheap' thing. They have completely mixed up expressing yourself with having self respect/values. But I guess its caused in part by those stupid naija men who believe shakara + yanga is a sign that she is 'valuable'. My conclusion? Both naija men and women have serious ISSUES.

I personally detest all this shakara nonsense, the worst part is that some deluded women think all men enjoy it.

Fireworks!!!!!!

Don't bust a gut. Their major excuse is: she wants you to cherish her more.
What is there to cherish in a woman that keeps u in ice for 1 month?

toyinrayo:

Yes, but you're loving it

Thats why I am all over U  

@ topic

debosky:

I second that Uche


I personally detest all this shakara nonsense, the worst part is that some deluded women think all men enjoy it.

Personally , that puts me off. Ur stock value does not go up just because U took so long to convince. Matter of fact, sometimes I only stick around just because I want to see the look in ur face when I say "Gotcha'!!!

Lol the topic is about trust, I wonder how shakara came into the picture.

Uche2nna:

Thats why I am all over You  

@ topic

Personally , that puts me off. your stock value does not go up just because You took so long to convince. Matter of fact, sometimes I only stick around just because I want to see the look in your face when I say "Gotcha'!!!

@Uche?
are u refering to Toyin?

debosky:

My conclusion? Both naija men and women have serious ISSUES.

LMAO  

True that! We've all got issues in our own different ways.What the heck,whoz perfect?Who wants to get hurt?Who doesn't want respect?

Argument as old as time *deep sigh*  

buzyDiva:

@Uche?
are u refering to Toyin?

No , Toyin is a darl  

uche2nna so u mean u just married toyin to use and dump her abi and also tell her gotcha

Uche2nna:

Thats why I am all over You

Sharrrrap!! You're the one with the shakara. . . you telling me I shakara?

Uche2nna:

@ topic

Personally , that puts me off. your stock value does not go up just because You took so long to convince. Matter of fact, sometimes I only stick around just because I want to see the look in your face when I say "Gotcha'!!!

You're oh so evil. . .If I was the girl, you wnt leave my presence without holding your balls in pain. .

toyinrayo:

[b]Sharrrrap!! You're the one with the shakara. . . you telling me I shakara?
You're oh so evil. . .[/b]If I was the girl, you wnt leave my presence without holding your balls in pain. .

e don happen!

jennykadry:

uche2nna so u mean u just married toyin to use and dump her abi and also tell her gotcha

abeg not today jare. . .

stillwater:

Lol the topic is about trust, I wonder how shakara came into the picture.

Is it about TRUST or women's inability to make decisions?

Although men are less likely to commit to a relationship, when they do fall for a woman in particular, they are usually surer about it than their female counterparts.
Men aren't as likely to ask hypothetical questions such as "what if I meet someone at work?" and "what if she's not Ms. Right?" Women, on the other hand, ask themselves too many questions in order to figure out whether you're the man they have been looking for their whole life.

Maybe if naija guys werent so untrustworthy, the girls wouldnt "form" so much

TOH:

Maybe if naija guys werent so untrustworthy, the girls wouldnt "form" so much

Are u saying u didn't front for the French dude u dated years ago?

to me sha,naija gals are nice. but they just like to put up a little fence,find the gate and easily enter their hearts

buzyDiva:

@debo,

those girls wey they front for u are correct babe.
They know and can smell that u is a "FAKE"

keep fronting sho gbo? Very soon one fine opeke who isn't a drama queen like you will snatch me away

I don't know who established this silly notion that 'taking time' makes you valuable. . .it just makes you silly. Like my friend used to say 'make una let the love shack both of you well well, una no know when d thing go fade'. These ladies are fronting for months and not revealing themselves, only to reveal themselves belatedly and the man discovers this isn't what he thought he was after - the result? The women say he 'jilted' me after all these 'years' while in actual fact they've been dating for 2 months with the previous 18 months WASTED on 'hard to get' bunkum.

If you feel the guys are untrustworthy, then go for your omo irekes, dem dey trust worthy abi?

jennykadry:

uche2nna so u mean u just married toyin to use and dump her abi and also tell her gotcha

Y are u guys referring to toyin.

I was only responding to the post, abeg.

@ Jenny
What God has put 2geda  _{u know the rest}

@ toyin

No shakara , abeg. Coolu temper

Uche2nna:

Y are u guys referring to toyin.

I was only responding to the post, abeg.

seriously. . .

Uche2nna:

@ toyin

No shakara , abeg. Coolu temper

Dnt worry hon, I'm calm. . .like always

lmao what bloody French dude?

I have gone to that side yet o.

goes both ways?

~Xerxes~:

Is it about TRUST or women's inability to make decisions?

Although men are less likely to commit to a relationship, when they do fall for a woman in particular, they are usually surer about it than their female counterparts.
Men aren't as likely to ask hypothetical questions such as "what if I meet someone at work?" and "what if she's not Ms. Right?" Women, on the other hand, ask themselves too many questions in order to figure out whether you're the man they have been looking for their whole life.

If men make up their mind as easily as you presume, I don't think unmarried ladies would be roaming the streets of Nigeria more than ever today. By the way I don't see any reason not to analyse situations especially when it comes to relationship. Why should I choose any body to tangle myself with in the name of "having a boyfriend"? We question situations because the last thing we want is to fall into the hands of bastards. I do.