If you have never tried to capture the heart of an online cutie before, you might be wondering about some good ways to show an online guy you like him. Unfortunately you can’t use the tried and true tactics, such as flirtatious body language, to get your point across.

So what’s a girl to do? Don’t worry girls because I’m going to reveal a few great ways to show an online guy you like him.

1. INITIATE CONVERSATIONS

The first step in any romance begins with a greeting and online is no different. Be the brazen one and send him a simple greeting such as "hey" whenever he comes online. One of the best ways to show an online guy you like him is to greet him the moment he comes online. He will get the hint that you are happy to see him. A good way to test your crush’s interest after you have had a few chats, is to wait and see if he initiates conversations in the future.

2. USE EMOTICONS FREQUENTLY

Flirting is a bit tricky when its done online. Unless you have a webcam, you need to rely heavily on flirty emoticons to convey facial expressions. Flirty emoticons are created using colons, semicolons and letters in a variety of ways. Some good emoticon choices include the winky smiley face, the winky smiley face with its tongue sticking out, smiley face, the kiss and the smirk.

3. MAINTAIN A POSITIVE CONVERSATION TONE

Although there are endless topics to talk about with a guy, your overall tone should be laidback and happy. Avoid complaining because its likely to annoy and bore him. Another thing you shouldn’t do is to tell him that you hate certain aspects of your body such as your hips because it will seem like you are fishing for compliments and lack confidence. Keep things light, fun and interesting.


4. KEEP CONVERSATION FLOWING

If the two of you click, then the conversation will naturally flow without awkward silences filled with "…" on your computer screen. If phone silence is dreadful, online silence is just as bad because a conversation can go from playful banter to an abrupt silence where imaginary virtual crickets can be heard chirping in the background. So to minimize the chance of that awfulness from happening, think of some easy questions ahead of time to to ask him. As he talks about himself, sprinkle flirtatious innuendos throughout the conversation so he gets the feeling that you like him as more than a friend.


5. SHARE YOUR HUMOROUS SIDE

Guys love girls that have a great sense of humor so don’t be afraid to share yours. Show him that you enjoy the funny things in life by e-mailing him funny pics, jokes or sayings. If you are Facebook friends, post funny pics or quotes on your wall that are related to a topic that you discussed in a previous conversation. If he posts something funny, make sure to compliment him on it next time you chat with him.

Hopefully that gives you a few ideas that will help you snag your online crush.

Ladies, do you have other ideas that will help a girl show an online guy she is crushing on him?

(Source?? : Don't Bother )

do u think this wil realy work

Nice.... I see why she has been using all of these on me. ..

Mannylex: Nice.... I see why she has been using all of these on me. ..

sexytabhi:

Seeing this post would sure make some dude here to feel like oga at the top

owolabifunke14: Seeing this post would sure make some dude here to feel like oga at the top

Lol. But ain't that the reading why the act is done? Itz to attract his attraction, and hence he is an "oga at the top"

Mannylex:

No wonder,nice pix.

I don't usually post here, but I'll try to answer few questions.


Men are known to always make the first move, I think it's kinda archaic ( maybe not the best word) IMO.. If you Like/love something , go for it.

I saw ( movie) 'Something Borrowed' yesterday, Realistically the end of that movie isn't always the reality... slow gals like Rachel end up being the loser ( alone) and her sharp friend always get the good guys and live happily ever after.

So Ms. Owo :

owolabifunke14: Seeing this post would sure make some dude here to feel like oga at the top

No Biggie as long as you don't sell yourself cheap!


And Fav..

Favour009: do u think this wil realy work

Give it a try... wouldn't hurt would it?

@jidegirl,surprised you posted in romance.
I always enjoy your threads in the family section.

sexytabhi:
No wonder,nice pix.

Tnx

Sanboy25: Happy Birthday Mannylex.

Tnx bro

And the guys shouldn't always go ahead to take advantage. She MIGHT just like ur mien/personality and nothing else (no strings).

Take ur time if u wanna strike.

Nice one OP!

Well, I tink its high time ladies properly learn how to woo a man instead of that archaic belief they always have that all they have to do is to wear something sexy and show a lot of their sexual weapons....not all men fall for that

Nice one poster.

Lol. Just tell him that you're interested. If you want something/someone, then you should go for it.

lobatan..some are already reaping the dividends of it..

There is a nairalander I really like but I am shy to show it===> you know nairaland and the insults

Smh

ogugua88: Lol. Just tell him that you're interested. If you want something/someone, then you should go for it.

Just like that.What if he's not interested yet?

Really

ok op,tel me aw 2 woo Seun,i lik im

Mannylex: Nice.... I see why she has been using all of these on me. ..

Ab025: Well, I tink its high time ladies properly learn how to woo a man instead of that archaic belief they always have that all they have to do is to wear something sexy and show a lot of their sexual weapons....not all men fall for that

Nice one poster.

WORD
IF IM NOT GETTING ANY FEEDBACK (POSITIVE OR NEGATIVE) IM OUT
ONLY A MADMAN SPEAKS TO STONES

so gals dat trip for me should indicate ooo

Switch of the PC, Go out and have an offline life

as he had is fill online he goes to his room to masturbate ,

tits or GTFO!!!

Get his google map location and show up at his door at an ungodly hour and say surprise surprise!