When I also read the post, I didnt see anything wrong but I get the point that the op and others are making. Like someone says, it takes two to tango and I guess women have felt played for so long that the post presents itself as further ammunition for men.

So men reading; women also want more than just money, most often they are looking for genuine affection, love and concern. Show them that you care and make sure you actually do.

OP Said; Try to add value to a man's life, if you find him worthy to be with I agree but also

Men; Try to add value to a woman's life, if you find her worthy to be with

You may find some clearance here, be patient and listen to the full thing ---> http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9t4VlEpBhI8&feature=share Enjoy!

bukatyne:

Any woman that thinks like that should become a cleaner, maid or surrogate mother for pay.

It would also help if men don't think that the only value they add is money.

We both need to step up our game.

Have you heard divorce and Alimony argument of why women deserve payment from their rich Spouse?

Have you heard the reasons they give why they deserve the chunk of money?

dont mind em all they know is "give me .......", "buy me .....", "my ..... is finished", "i need .....","i want ...." not minding if the guy is even doing ok....

Na wa oo

Stand gidigba by his side encouraging him till he gets me the bugatti. Oh, its coming soon... When he becomes a world renowned ............ And then we aspire to holiday on the moon. . Where is Dayo to tell me i dont deserve all his money. He himself doesnt argue with that.

Ujujoan: I've noticed you so run along now!

Onye ara

jennykadry:

Onye ara

Bia Jenny, where have you been

Anyways welcome back o jare, we don miss you tire . . .

Keep jumping outta your pants over my post ... Hohoho are you one of dem ladies I described= Highest bidder gets the girl ??

Shior .

Ujujoan:

Bia Jenny, where have you been

Anyways welcome back o jare, we don miss you tire . . .

I saw your message today . Where have I been? I been go vacation with Oga before we decided to make Naija our last vacation stop. Whenever I leave this country, Internet takes the back seat as i like to enjoy myself. I'm still going through all the emails my nairaland toasters left in my msg box it Is not easy to be hawt abeg gi na agadi nwanyi unu ka ne se kwa?

Ada gi nwanyi Kwanu?

PS ...and I visited village this time, shebi I for contact you sef make we see..... how can you escape my mind like this . Person wey reach upper Iweka road don reach you na

jennykadry:

I saw your message today . Where have I been? I been go vacation with Oga before we decided to make Naija our last vacation stop. Whenever I leave this country, Internet takes the back seat as i like to enjoy myself. I'm still going through all the emails my nairaland toasters left in my msg box it Is not easy to be hawt abeg gi na agadi nwanyi unu ka ne se kwa?

Ada gi nwanyi Kwanu?

PS ...and I visited village this time, shebi I for contact you sef make we see..... how can you escape my mind like this . Person wey reach upper Iweka road don reach you na

haaaa jenny baby,i don miss you stupid! You just vamoose just lie that.anyway how are you and your family,how is mr jennykandry,its nice hearing from you again in a very long while :*

OP Said; Try to add value to a man's life, if you find him worthy to be with I agree but also

Men; Try to add value to a woman's life, if you find her worthy to be with

must everything be opposite-gender/sex oriented?

whats wrong with adding value to a person's life irrespective of their gender.

jennykadry:

I saw your message today . Where have I been? I been go vacation with Oga before we decided to make Naija our last vacation stop. Whenever I leave this country, Internet takes the back seat as i like to enjoy myself. I'm still going through all the emails my nairaland toasters left in my msg box it Is not easy to be hawt abeg gi na agadi nwanyi unu ka ne se kwa?

Ada gi nwanyi Kwanu?

PS ...and I visited village this time, shebi I for contact you sef make we see..... how can you escape my mind like this . Person wey reach upper Iweka road don reach you na

Hey hey hey . . . so close and yet you forgot me? Not cool . . .

Rapu nwanyi onye ara ahu . . . . ya ka ike ga agwu!

Welcome back o jare, hope u had a lovely trip?

VIRTUE AND SUPPORT....

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